What makes a guy high status in a cool and sexually appealing way?

[Good Gao]

In adulthood that is, NOT high school and college.

We all know of doctors, lawyers, and engineers that make bank but they aren't really doing well with hot girls. There are a lot of bright guys and brilliant minds who might appear in a magazine but they are not sleeping with or getting hot girls. So I think while a guy can be "high status" in society, it isn't synonymous with getting hot girls.

In high school and college, high status equated getting hot girls. It was the jocks that were seen as high status and got hot girls in that age group.

In the adult world, someone like a doctor or engineer may be seen as high status but most of these guys do not get hot girls.

So what makes a guy high status in the adult world yet also someone who is able to leverage that high status into getting hot girls in his life and living that lifestyle?

 

[bigneil]

Subtitled: What makes a guy high status in an unemployed way?

Here's an idea: be a doctor or a lawyer who is in shape.

The underemployed here have this idea that money and sex appeal are mutually exclusive. But guess what: you broke guys who still score would be better off if you had money on top of everything else.

 

[cola]

In adulthood that is, NOT high school and college.

We all know of doctors, lawyers, and engineers that make bank but they aren't really doing well with hot girls. There are a lot of bright guys and brilliant minds who might appear in a magazine but they are not sleeping with or getting hot girls. So I think while a guy can be "high status" in society, it isn't synonymous with getting hot girls.

In high school and college, high status equated getting hot girls. It was the jocks that were seen as high status and got hot girls in that age group.

In the adult world, someone like a doctor or engineer may be seen as high status but most of these guys do not get hot girls.

So what makes a guy high status in the adult world yet also someone who is able to leverage that high status into getting hot girls in his life and living that lifestyle?

I think it has to do a lot with the way you carry yourself.
To touch on that further, if you ever read the
48 laws of power there is a law that says
Be royal in your own fashion act like a king to be treated like a king.

So in my opinion some king like qualities are:

• Not being belligerent or foul mouthed.
• Always presenting in a neat way. Iron your clothes, invest in cologne.
• Work out. For numerous reasons, posture being the most relatable to your topic
• Walk with your head high.
• Lead. When everyone in the group is wondering where to go, be the one to stand up and proclaim "we are going to this location, and begin walking without waiting for input
• Kings aren't rude to the help. Be kind to waiters, waitresses and customer service workers.
• Keep your head high. Don't slouch.
• Don't be perverse. Its ok to make an occasional sly sexual comment but not constantly. Don't ask girls for nudes or send them etc.
• Have morals and live by them.
• Have reasonable demands of courteous behavior from women and men alike and if they don't uphold them have no qualms about not associating with them.
• Talk and move slowly.
• Enjoy an occasional drink or 2,3. But never get sloppy drunk to the point your stumbling about like a fool or slurring words.
• Try not to appear visibly upset or throw tantrums. If a woman flakes or cancels stay polite and regal, and simply tell her you'll attempt another meeting in the future, and wish her a good day.
• Have a purpose each day. Set 2 or 3 realistic, totally doable goals.
• Read voraciously. Seek wisdom. Wisdom is the application of knowledge but you must aquire knowledge to apply it.

Basically try to live your life to a higher standard than the common man.

Getting a woman's attraction is child's play. What the real end game should be is to get people's admiration.

And you get that by being uncommon. Living in a way the average man does not.

Furthermore, your finances and your sexual history should be private. She may can guestimate your income based on where you live or the car you drive but really a woman should never know what you make.
If you are flaunting money around like a kid with a new toy showing off to his classmates you are only going to attract immoral women. Not to say that they won't be beautiful, but your a king right? Beauty shouldn't be enough to woo you. Thats a trap for the common man.



Excuse the length I wanted to give you a good answer because it was an amazing question.


Good day, sir.

 

[Good Gao]

christ none of these people know what they are talking about

 

[bigneil]

christ none of these people know what they are talking about

Says someone who doesn't punctuate as they text this from an Obamaphone.

Wait, Robert Greene doesn't know what he's talking about?

You're saying with a straight face that a doctor who is in shape is not cool and sexually appealing?

What about working on air traffic control software? Or secret Government security software? Is that cool and sexually appealing (hint, it is). Shocker: Making a lot of money legally is cool and sexually appealing.

Oh wait, becoming a doctor and getting in shape would require you do work. That would take years. You wanted to be high status this evening. You want us to say "A guy who always wins at PlayStation 4 in the dorm when she's sort of nearby".

Good Gaod.

 

[bigneil]

IFurthermore, your finances and your sexual history should be private. She may can guestimate your income based on where you live or the car you drive but really a woman should never know what you make.

I agree with everything you wrote except this. I feel that every person should publish their salary in the town commons, and we should know:

1) Who is a Trustafarian?
2) Who is self made?
3) Who is receiving assistance?
4) How did the successful people become successful?

When you want to let her guess your wealth, you promote superficial signs of wealth like fancy houses and cars - usually a sign of huge debt - the opposite of wealth. Don't promote McMansions, please.

Half the people you see running businesses are using that as a front. They have lots of money and don't need to make a profit. Same with ex-wives. Now women on the other hand never care where the money came from. Why? They're going to steal it anyway. They might prefer to steal it from someone who got it easy.

Otherwise we promote a world where gangsters trump scientists, and nobody knows how to make any money.

But remember this: the average person makes the average income which is $38,000 per year - welfare moms make the equivalent of $60,000 per year ($40,000 in benefits, the amount you get after taxes)! Do you see how asinine this is? Wonder why every foreign ugly woman you see has kids? Wonder why HB6's sneer at hard working gas station workers?

Some will play the "You have no idea how much I have - I might be a Billionaire" card. Ok, there is a 1 in 500 Million chance. One person might beat the odds. Everyone won't. I'd rather have someone say "I invested in real estate and was making $100K in my first 3 years and then worked a deal where I got 10% on commercial deals, and I helped sell the new City hall building and made $800,000, which I used to buy a Papa John's franchise that makes me $125,000 per year plus royalties".

 

[Trainwreck]

Lets take an observation on guys young women wet their panties over: Celebrities, singers, Professional Athletes, trust fund kids like oil tycoon kids, other bums, hipsters, thugs, young skinny blue collar country guys with uplifted trucks, and etc. The reason I said young is because we want women at their prime in which they also have the opportunity to be more selective about their choices in men. What do all these guys have in common? Yes, there's a huge wealth disparity between them, but they all have one thing in common.....They provide the FUN factor to women. They are MR.FUN!

1) The number one key to becoming Mr.Fun is having the privilege of freedom. These guys have freedom privileges that the average guy doesn't have. These guys can do drugs whenever they want, get tattoos wherever they want, say whatever he want, dress however they want, buy whatever they want, act however they want, and etc. Average joes like us cannot because we are trying to graduate college in good standing with a well paying job, we are working 8-5 5 days out of the week, we have to be professional because of our jobs, we are too busy freaking out over our 401k and retiring by age 40 to spend our extra money on fun stuff(that's not me, **** that lol, but I have some friends like that)....pretty much most freedoms are limited because of our professional jobs and we also limit ourselves in some categories.

2) When you master 1), you develop something called an alpha personality. This is what makes a man sexy and appealing to women. These guys have hobbies, unique attitudes, I don't give a **** mindsets, confidence, and etc. Girls love FUN and guys with alpha personalities tend to be dynamic which means more FUN for women. The opposite of an alpha personality is a beta personality. These guys have chosen the path of responsibility and stability in which there's nothing with that. However, most young women are repulsed by this because they want FUN and stability is boring. In addition, these guys are strong believers in "what ought to be" rather than "what actually is". These guys think having a stable white collar job, boring reliable stable car, safe lifestyle, and 401k should make girls drool over them. Again, they do not and these guys end up becoming bitter alt right red pills in the future because of this.

What can you do if you have a beta personality. Idk that's up to whatever you want to do lol. I'm not going to tell you how to live your life, but just accept the fact that you aren't going to be attracting any pvssy unless you loosen your life up a little.

 

[bigneil]

Indeed spending millions is fun. Spending zero not so much.

 

[Trainwreck]

I agree with everything you wrote except this. I feel that every person should publish their salary in the town commons, and we should know:

1) Who is a Trustafarian?
2) Who is self made?
3) Who is receiving assistance?
4) How did the successful people become successful?

When you want to let her guess your wealth, you promote superficial signs of wealth like fancy houses and cars - usually a sign of huge debt - the opposite of wealth. Don't promote McMansions, please.

Half the people you see running businesses are using that as a front. They have lots of money and don't need to make a profit. Same with ex-wives. Now women on the other hand never care where the money came from. Why? They're going to steal it anyway. They might prefer to steal it from someone who got it easy.

Otherwise we promote a world where gangsters trump scientists, and nobody knows how to make any money.

But remember this: the average person makes the average income which is $38,000 per year - welfare moms make the equivalent of $60,000 per year ($40,000 in benefits, the amount you get after taxes)! Do you see how asinine this is? Wonder why every foreign ugly woman you see has kids? Wonder why HB6's sneer at hard working gas station workers?

Some will play the "You have no idea how much I have - I might be a Billionaire" card. Ok, there is a 1 in 500 Million chance. One person might beat the odds. Everyone won't. I'd rather have someone say "I invested in real estate and was making $100K in my first 3 years and then worked a deal where I got 10% on commercial deals, and I helped sell the new City hall building and made $800,000, which I used to buy a Papa John's franchise that makes me $125,000 per year plus royalties".

Idc if your lying about how much money you have or not. I'd rather be the guy living in the fancy house with the nice car than some bitter spartan scrooge rotting his life away. The common thing I see in these frugal spartan guys are that yall are some of the most bitter asshurt people on the planet.

 

[Urbanyst]

In adulthood that is, NOT high school and college.

We all know of doctors, lawyers, and engineers that make bank but they aren't really doing well with hot girls. There are a lot of bright guys and brilliant minds who might appear in a magazine but they are not sleeping with or getting hot girls. So I think while a guy can be "high status" in society, it isn't synonymous with getting hot girls.

In high school and college, high status equated getting hot girls. It was the jocks that were seen as high status and got hot girls in that age group.

In the adult world, someone like a doctor or engineer may be seen as high status but most of these guys do not get hot girls.

So what makes a guy high status in the adult world yet also someone who is able to leverage that high status into getting hot girls in his life and living that lifestyle?

When it comes to status in the adult world it all boils down to LOOKS and MONEY. The more you have of one, the less you need the other. If you have both, its a perfect world.

Here is the kicker though. Looks are temporary! MONEY can last a lifetime if you're smart. So that's why I focus on money so much. I believe myself to be about a 7-7.5 in looks. This is just based on the types of women who have called me handsome. They were usually 7's and 8's or below. But one day I'll be in my 40's or 50's and if I don't have MONEY I will not have much of a competitive advantage to pull HOT women in their 20's like I do now. I make good money now for someone my age, but as my looks fade my MONEY needs to increase to balance it out.

Once women pass 25 they get a lot more strategic about who they date. Under 25 its all about how sexy, good in bed and hot you are. After 25 its about what you offer in terms of VALUE. Do you make her look good in public? Do you make her friends jealous? Would you make a good father? Do you have RESOURCES that improve her lifestyle?

 

[Trainwreck]

When it comes to status in the adult world it all boils down to LOOKS and MONEY. The more you have of one, the less you need the other. If you have both, its a perfect world.

Here is the kicker though. Looks are temporary! MONEY can last a lifetime if you're smart. So that's why I focus on money so much. I believe myself to be about a 7-7.5 in looks. This is just based on the types of women who have called me handsome. They were usually 7's and 8's or below. But one day I'll be in my 40's or 50's and if I don't have MONEY I will not have much of a competitive advantage to pull HOT women in their 20's like I do now. I make good money now for someone my age, but as my looks fade my MONEY needs to increase to balance it out.

Once women pass 25 they get a lot more strategic about who they date. Under 25 its all about how sexy, good in bed and hot you are. After 25 its about what you offer in terms of VALUE. Do you make her look good in public? Do you make her friends jealous? Would you make a good father? Do you have RESOURCES that improve her lifestyle?

Again, if I had a million dollars in my bank account right now, how would that give me more matches on tinder?

 

[Urbanyst]

Again, if I had a million dollars in my bank account right now, how would that give me more matches on tinder?

You would have much better pics because you'll be able to show your rich lifestyle through your pics.

Duh.

 

[Trainwreck]

You would have much better pics because you'll be able to show your rich lifestyle through your pics.

Duh.

I meant right now lol

 

[Urbanyst]

I meant right now lol

Now you're just splitting hairs and being absurd.

Give me all your money if you don't think it benefits your dating life. I'll put it to proper use.

 

[Trainwreck]

Now you're just splitting hairs and being absurd.

Give me all your money if you don't think it benefits your dating life. I'll put it to proper use.

I specifically said right now. In addition, I do not have to be rich to have rich lifestyle pictures on tinder too.

 

[Urbanyst]

I specifically said right now. In addition, I do not have to be rich to have rich lifestyle pictures on tinder too.

If you had a million dollars you probably wouldn't even be using Tinder. I don't even use Tinder.

 

[Trainwreck]

If you had a million dollars you probably wouldn't even be using Tinder. I don't even use Tinder.

lol so you can't answer my question

 

[bigneil]

For starters, do you think high status males type (laugh out loud)? Hint: high status males don't act like 13 year old black girls.

Idc if your lying about how much money you have or not. I'd rather be the guy living in the fancy house with the nice car than some bitter spartan scrooge rotting his life away. The common thing I see in these frugal spartan guys are that yall are some of the most bitter asshurt people on the planet.

So you're extrapolating someone who might be lying (and isn't) into a bitter, Spartan, rotting scrooge? By the same token, couldn't you assume I have even more than I said and that I'm sitting by the pool with four supermodels? See how you are playing a losing game?

And wait, you'd rather see someone with a big house who is up to his eyeballs in debt than see that someone else who can prove they made $200,000 in the past 6 months and has zero debt? Train wreck is right.

Oh, and you're feigning ignorance now on my salary?

Question: how do you know if anyone is lying online?
Answer: you don't - so spare us your dynamic ability to play dumb with those who are of higher status than you.

If you're willing to bet $1000 I'll prove my income BTW. Otherwise, STFU and get a job.

 

[Trump]

In adulthood that is, NOT high school and college.

We all know of doctors, lawyers, and engineers that make bank but they aren't really doing well with hot girls.

That's not true. I've seen the hottest girls with doctors, lawyers and engineers.

There are a lot of bright guys and brilliant minds who might appear in a magazine but they are not sleeping with or getting hot girls. So I think while a guy can be "high status" in society, it isn't synonymous with getting hot girls.

Bro who said that? You are totally assuming.

In high school and college, high status equated getting hot girls. It was the jocks that were seen as high status and got hot girls in that age group.

In the adult world, someone like a doctor or engineer may be seen as high status but most of these guys do not get hot girls.

So what makes a guy high status in the adult world yet also someone who is able to leverage that high status into getting hot girls in his life and living that lifestyle?

You know what I get from this post?

'I want to be high status to get hot girls. But since doctors, lawyers, engineers, all which require years and years of University education and tons of exams and interviews, don't get hot girls, don't tell me go that route. Tell me a quick and easy to get hot girls without studying and taking exams and going through a lot of stress.'

Come on bro, who are you kidding.

 

[bigneil]

Again, if I had a million dollars in my bank account right now, how would that give me more matches on tinder?

WINNER! Dumbest words ever uttered by a human. Jesus.