Greetings gentlemen, please allow me to introduce myself

[Dr. Reed]

I joined today, but many, many years ago I spent a lot of time on this forum. I am a big fan of the DJ Bible, and in fact utilize much material from that source which is in my own system, especially Anti Dumps' Machine.

I was a member of the old MASForum and posted there. I documented the last six months or so of my dating, my three woman rotation and eventual selection of the woman I am married to today. That was over 12 years ago

Ironically, my eventual wife ended up cyber stalking me (they do that when they love you) and printed out the 17 pages over at MASF I documented of our relationship (and my rotation....which we never lie about). It did not matter by then, as she loved me and I agreed to stop seeing other women.

Since then I have been fine tuning my system and counseling men. I have wanted to write a book, but had to wait until leaving the academic world to do so. Helping men is very politically incorrect.

I also want to give back to tis forum which helped me greatly.

 

[Dr. Reed]

I am looking for feedback in regards to my material. Eventually this material is going into a book. The book and my coaching will be free to forum members. As I said, you will find a lot of principles in common.

My program is rooted in evolutionary biology, evolutionary psychology, rational actor modeling, real world tools from the seduction community and self help programs. Seduction techniques work, they get you in the door. However, ULTIMATELY YOU MUST HAVE something to offer. You must become a man of value.

You must become strong, both mentally and physically. Women are genetically programed to be drawn to these qualities. The response of women is based in science. If she is emotionally and mentally healthy, certain behaviors will increase her interest in you. On the other hand, certain behaviors will decrease her attraction.

I have seen, over and over again that men make critical mistakes early on and then don't understand why the woman broke things off. I myself have made these mistakes. Fortunately, they became opportunities for learning and growth.

 

[SteR]

Are you still with your wife then?

 

[Dr. Reed]

HI LA...yes, but they have to love you (have high interest) in you. I get into this extensively in my second chapter. For example, women always know if you are seeing other women, that is why we never lie. We don't commit to a woman early on in the relationship. They will squirrel things away in your sock drawer like an earing. They do this intentionally to mark their territory. I was dating 3 women with long straight black hair. One found a hair. She said "who's is this?" I said "yours sweetie." She said "no, it is 2 inches longer than mine. Are you seeing other women?"

I said "only 5 or 6, but you are my favorite!" A woman will start pressuring you, always try and wait until the 8 week point. Early on my eventual wife broke up with me twice, but each time was back w/in 48 hours.

 

[Dr. Reed]

STer: Yes I am...she just brought me lunch, LOL. A wife is the end of the process, guys. I had a 3 woman rotation during the first 2 months w/ my wife. One Sunday a gal left my house. 5 minute's later there was a knock on the door. It was "Suzie" (the woman who is now my wife, 12 years later). She was very flustered and stormed in pushing me aside. "I need my jacket!" she shouted. It was 80 degrees out.

She then came back, stood in front of me and said "I don't care if you are seeing other women, I am going to fight for you!" That is when I stopped seeing other women.

But guys, this is not about me. It is about the system. It is my system, but I owe a huge debt to others. Like I said, The DJ Bible, Pook, Anti Dump, et all are part of my program (I call the Toolbox). I use anything and everything that helps. Bodybuilding, martial arts, meditation, spirituality, all big parts of my program.

In fact, Anti Dumps Machine is about 60% of my second chapter.

Like I said guys....I am faaaaaaaar from perfect. In fact, I used to be a huge loser. I just learned from my mistakes.

 

[Dr. Reed]

If a woman can read what you write on here and still marry you, she is a keeper. Talk about open minded...

It depends on what you are writing. Keep in mind, this was the old Moderated alt.seduction.fast (mASF). There were some incredibly good guys over there, Style (Neil Strauss) Mystery, David DeAngelo, Badboy, Shark, Tyler Durden, Stephan Nash, Hypnotica, Zan Perrion, Steve Piccus, Juggler, Swinggcat, and Carlos Xuma.

I think Vin De Carlo (Woodhaven) was there too

There were a bunch of other excellent PUA's there you never heard of but they were strong in the force. Just a great, supportive environment.

Most of us were running accounts of our successes. You went through stages , AFC all the way up to PUG (PickUp Guru) I think I was PUA soon to make Guru before I left.

We were advanced. Mostly we were talking about managing our rotations. I had a Tuesday/Thursday/Saturday. Lest say you are seeing 3 women, all solid prospects for LTR.
What night do you give your best prospect? Not Saturday.....why?

EDIT: Hey guys, I am limited to 10 posts. I will post up some of the first chapter from my book tomorrow, hope you all like it.

 

[The Duke]

Dr Reed- what was your original username?

 

[SteR]

Well please share your experiences, I look forward to reading it

 

[Dr. Reed]

Dr Reed- what was your original username?

Shoot...good question. I think it might have been Dr_jitsu. I have just been over there trying to find old stuff, but most is gone. Too bad. Everyone was supper helpful and supportive over there.

Everything was not peaches and cream with my relationships and help was always on point.

 

[Desdinova]

I was a member of the old MASForum and posted there.

Wow... mASF. Haven't heard about that place in a long time.

I have just been over there trying to find old stuff, but most is gone. Too bad.

I may or may not have some mASF stuff squirrelled away on a CD ROM I burned back in the early 2000s when I was thirsty for as much information on women and seduction that I could find. If you like, I could try looking for it, but I can't make huge promises. I haven't looked at that stuff in a very long time.

She then came back, stood in front of me and said "I don't care if you are seeing other women, I am going to fight for you!" That is when I stopped seeing other women.

I honestly believe that it goes a lot deeper than a woman simply having high interest. There is a lot that we can to to elevate a woman's interest, but there are a lot of things that can affect a woman's ability to stick with one man that are beyond our control. Choosing the correct woman is essential, and I'm not even talking about her personality. I'm talking about her experience with men as a whole.

I have a few questions for you if you care to answer them:

1) How old was your wife when you began dating her?
2) How many men had she previously slept with (if any)?
3) What was her upbringing like?

Being with the same woman for 12 years is quite the accomplishment. I'm just wondering if your experience fits in with my theory on how to get a successful LTR.

 

[Dr. Reed]

Wow... mASF. Haven't heard about that place in a long time.



I may or may not have some mASF stuff squirrelled away on a CD ROM I burned back in the early 2000s when I was thirsty for as much information on women and seduction that I could find. If you like, I could try looking for it, but I can't make huge promises. I haven't looked at that stuff in a very long time.



I honestly believe that it goes a lot deeper than a woman simply having high interest. There is a lot that we can to to elevate a woman's interest, but there are a lot of things that can affect a woman's ability to stick with one man that are beyond our control. Choosing the correct woman is essential, and I'm not even talking about her personality. I'm talking about her experience with men as a whole.

I have a few questions for you if you care to answer them:

1) How old was your wife when you began dating her?
2) How many men had she previously slept with (if any)?
3) What was her upbringing like?

Being with the same woman for 12 years is quite the accomplishment. I'm just wondering if your experience fits in with my theory on how to get a successful LTR.

In regards to your questions, you are absolutely 100% that it is critical to select the right woman. That is half of the game. Many of the hottest, most sexually attractive women are simply unfit for a relationship in the modern world. I have been with several. There are simply too many legal and cultural handicaps and barriers for men in our culture.

To answer your questions

1: She was 28. I was 43.
2: She say I was her 3rd sex partner...so lets say 4.
3. Traditional in a culture were divorce is less common.

 

[Doc Kas]

I joined today, but many, many years ago I spent a lot of time on this forum. I am a big fan of the DJ Bible, and in fact utilize much material from that source which is in my own system, especially Anti Dumps' Machine.

I was a member of the old MASForum and posted there. I documented the last six months or so of my dating, my three woman rotation and eventual selection of the woman I am married to today. That was over 12 years ago

Ironically, my eventual wife ended up cyber stalking me (they do that when they love you) and printed out the 17 pages over at MASF I documented of our relationship (and my rotation....which we never lie about). It did not matter by then, as she loved me and I agreed to stop seeing other women.

Since then I have been fine tuning my system and counseling men. I have wanted to write a book, but had to wait until leaving the academic world to do so. Helping men is very politically incorrect.

I also want to give back to tis forum which helped me greatly.

What brought you back?

 

[Dr. Reed]

What brought you back?

My book. I want to share it with members and get feedback. I have also integrated material from the DJ Bible

 

[EyeBRollin]

If a woman can read what you write on here and still marry you, she is a keeper. Talk about open minded...

Not necessarily. "Keeper" has nothing to do with it. It means she has extremely high attraction / interest. I say it all the time; Women in love don't leave. They can't leave. It was too late for this woman, she is totally gone over OP.

 

[Dr. Reed]

Not necessarily. "Keeper" has nothing to do with it. It means she has extremely high attraction / interest. I say it all the time; Women in love don't leave. They can't leave. It was too late for this woman, she is totally gone over OP.

You are on point, my friend. Once they love you something like this will only increase love. Keep in mind, you have not cheated. We don't cheat and we don't lie. The 17 pages she printed out documented the first 8 weeks of our relationship. She knew I was seeing other women. At about the 8 week mark I committed to her and have been faithful for 12 years.

You should all be managing a multiple woman relationship until you commit to one.

What is amazing about this process is you are looking to settle down, but finding the right one is not easy. Personally, I managed a 3 women rotation for 2 years until I finally committed 100%. During that period I went through nearly 20 woman.

I was having more sex (nearly 10 times a week) than pure PUA's. Remember, you will date a woman for a few weeks or longer till it ends. She will be giving you her best sex because she wants an exclusive relationship.