Best cold approach?

Jack Hensy

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Its easy to approach a woman. The hard part is knowing what to say to get her attention.
In a bar, club or grocery store what is the most magical thing to say?

Sometimes in a club when the music is loud and a girl is dancing I will say...."You are all kinds of sexy." What is your line? Hello seems too boring. But sometimes it works.

I know my line is not as cool, but I don't care. I want her to know I want her without the BS.
 

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What you say doesn't matter. Tonality is everything. For me, my go to right now for girls where I have an ideal 1 on 1 approach: "You. What's your name. Come meet me." All very challenging, usually reaching out for a handshake & pulling her in. Then I tell her to introduce me to her friends as her gay hairdresser friend lol.

If she's with a group and I have to go indirect: "Wow, so y'all are over here judging everybody?"

But how you say it is what makes the difference between a good set and a blow out.
 

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"Hi, what's your name? Blah blah blah blah (insert improvised joking and funny stuff here)...see you later, beautiful/georgous!?!"
 

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It's like anything else. The harder the work at something the better off you will be. Nothing you want is ever easy.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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