Why women are gold diggers

[Urbanyst]

Ever wonder why women care about MONEY?

Here are the reasons told from a woman's perspective:

 

[lizardking82]

They seek security and stability in a man so they can raise their offspring the best way possible. Money is one of the means that brings security and stability so that's why.

 

[Urbanyst]

The tricky thing is that women dont view looks the same way as men. Men view a womans beauty as offspring rearing health while a woman views a mans looks as charisma and social power/influence/status. So even if you say looks matter, looks are just an identifier women use to seek out resources. Everything comes down to money and access to resources.

Even things like confidence, dominance, height, higher testosterone, sense of humor, and charm are seen as indicators of social influence and power. Everything leads back to resources and survival value.

Even in a rich society, a woman needs security for her ego. In order for her ego to thrive, she needs to be validated by the highest status males.

Even in a Utopian society where everyone can survive, hypergamy would still exist and women will still find a way to differentiate the top 10% males.

There is no scenario where money/status/power doesn't come into play just like there is no scenario where fat and ugly chicks can turn you on. Your body will make you feel sick for sleeping with these women because your offspring has a low chance of being healthy. In the same way, women feel massive cognitive dissonance sleeping with a low value guy because of their ancient tribal security fears and ego.

This is the real red pill some people miss. WHY women pick the men they do. Women look at social power/influence/status to identify the men who have the most resources. Women want to be as close to the top of the food chain as they can. Looks are a woman's ticket to RESOURCES which help them get to the top of the food chain while status/power/strength/ability/intelligence/talent are a man's ticket to RESOURCES which help him get to the top of the food chain. Men are measured by totally different criteria than women. Men are measured by how well they can THRIVE in whatever environment they live in.

Guys you are measured by how well you THRIVE. You saw it in high school. You see it in college. And you see it in real life. Who is f*cking most of the hot women? Thrivers!

Women always prefer the highest males. If they cannot attract that male, they focus on the next highest. After that, they focus on the guy with the most future potential and so on. They cannot respect a male who is lower on the food chain than themselves.

Guys who say they don't care about MONEY are saying they don't care about resources. To not care about resources you have to lack ambition. Lacking ambition makes women insecure about your ability to attain RESOURCES which signals to her that you are of lower status/power/strength/ability/intelligence/talent.

 

[wifehunter]

Women are gold diggers because society has conditioned them to be. What's worse is when they have a good job, and still are digging for gold....it's called greed!

 

[bigneil]

Women are gold diggers because society has conditioned them to be. What's worse is when they have a good job, and still are digging for gold....it's called greed!

Society didn't condition them to want resources - reality did. Kids are expensive.

 

[wifehunter]

Society didn't condition them to want resources - reality did. Kids are expensive.

That's why they have jobs.

 

[bigneil]

That's why they have jobs.

No, we don't expect our women to work to raise their own kids. They go on welfare and take our money either way.

 

[wifehunter]

No, we don't expect our women to work to raise their own kids. They go on welfare and take our money either way.

If they want have jobs and be men...let them bring home the bacon, too.

 

[wifehunter]

Guys who say money doesn't matter and only game matters are just self projecting that they lack it. If you had looks/money/status/social connections/influence/power, you will experience infinite female validation. When I go out to the bars to chase after chicks, I like to catch uber or taxi because I have a tendency to get black out drunk and have had multipleDUI's in the past (It takes a lot of money to pay off DUI's). Sometimes, I would just get a hotel room downtown to make it easier for myself. I also have a friend who has DUI problems so he catches the city train to save money. He has never been able to convince a woman to catch the train with him back to his place no matter how much of a connection he has with her (even if the train runs all night). He has never been able to pull. In fact, women look at him like he is from a different planet when he tells them he has sh1tty logistics. It's not the end of the world to catch a train. You won't die. But like I said, even if the threat isn't danger, women's egos will still prevent them from going home with a guy who lacks resources.

The hotter the woman, the less she cares about survival and the more she cares about pride, comfort, luxury, and image. So you need money and resources REGARDLESS if the woman already has her own resources.

And here is the other funny thing. I tell women all the time I have multiple DUI's and hate driving on a Friday night. And the women have no problems giving me a ride back to their place or mines! The fact that I have a car and can afford to pay people to drive me is good enough.

So if you look at my friend and you look at me, what is the difference between us? We both have DUI problems and hate driving to go to the clubs/ bar hopping. So why are women willing to drive me and not him? What difference does it make if the woman is willing to be the one to drive? It's the fact that no grown woman will sleep with a man who has to catch train at 1 am.

Silly wabbit, only betas, chase women.

 

[bigneil]

If they want have jobs and be men...let them bring home the bacon, too.

breadwinningwifehunter, is that you?

 

[wifehunter]

breadwinningwifehunter, is that you?

Not, if I don't HAVE too.

Let them have their jobs, they'll probaby hookup with some guy at work.... so taking care of them is poinless. Yet, another reason to WALK AWAY!!!

 

[wifehunter]

If you feel the need to take some quote out of context to derail a thread just to assert your "alphaness," then you are probably the beta one. "Chasing women" is just a figure of speech. How do you get women, by staying home?

How do you stay home, if you don't have a home, knucklehead?

 

[bigneil]

Consider: when I'm not taking my girlfriend on Florida vacations she is telling me how her girlfriends and her travel by limo to ritzy horse racing events attended by the blue blood of the South, or how she's being entertained by millionaires decades my senior who are literally royalty, or how she's hanging out in the $7000 per month penthouse apartment in her building. What else would the most beautiful women do except enjoy all the best the world has to offer? You think I'm going to have enough game to make her give up all those things? You don't think other hot women are doing those things?

No, our only chance to keep the hottest women around is to have money AND make them come.

 

[wifehunter]

Consider: when I'm not taking my girlfriend on Florida vacations she is telling me how her girlfriends and her travel by limo to ritzy horse racing events attended by the blue blood of the South, or how she's being entertained by millionaires decades my senior who are literally royalty, or how she's hanging out in the $7000 per month penthouse apartment in her building. What else would the most beautiful women do except enjoy all the best the world has to offer? You think I'm going to have enough game to make her give up all those things? You don't think other hot women are doing those things?

No, our only chance to keep the hottest women around to have money AND make them come.

Money is a tool, not power.

 

[bigneil]

Let them have their jobs, they'll probaby hookup with some guy at work.... so taking care of them is poinless. Yet, another reason to WALK AWAY!!!

You're correct here - 51% of women who cheat do so with men they meet at work, forcing the husband to walk away.

Needle off record.

This is why we DON'T want them to work.

Money is a tool, not power.

Money is pure, unlimited power. Power to go to Mars.

 

[wifehunter]

You're correct here - 51% of women who cheat do so with men they meet at work, forcing the husband to walk away.

Needle off record.

This is why we DON'T want them to work.

But they will work anyway, because they're programmed to.

 

[bigneil]

But they will work anyway, because they're programmed to.

You mean they will cheat anyway, because they're programmed to? They are. So are we.

 

[wifehunter]

You mean they will cheat anyway, because they're programmed to? They are. So are we.

Yes, most women are trash, it's a quality/value issue here.

 

[Trump]

Guys who say they don't care about MONEY are saying they don't care about resources. To not care about resources you have to lack ambition. Lacking ambition makes women insecure about your ability to attain RESOURCES which signals to her that you are of lower status/power/strength/ability/intelligence/talent.

Money helps, but nearly to the extent everyone thinks. 'I'll drive a Porsche, then the hot girls will come.' 'I'll buy a Rolex, then the hot girls will notice.' 'I'll buy a big house, then the girls will love me.' It never works this way. If you can't talk, if you can't attract, if you don't have friends, if you don't have education, if you don't have respect, if you dont have luck, girls won't care. I've said it before, I have game and more assets I know what to do with, no girl in my social group cares too much and I cannot get single 30+ women to call me back.

Money and women are not a cause and effect issue. I actually think money is way more important when you are growing up, between ages 0-18. Parents should invest in their kids. If they don't, they will have issues later in life.

 

[Urbanyst]

Most people can be bought and sold. That's a fact of life in the modern world.

There is nothing more reliable than money when it comes to access to HOT women. Nothing is more reliable! Not looks, not game, being tall, NOTHING.

Guys without money will still get laid by HOT women. But nothing is more reliable than money when it comes to opportunities.