Would you be mad if your GF consistently Likes a specific guy's pics?

[sazc]

Would you be bothered if your GF seems to be hanging around this one specific guy's page and Likes all/most selfies he posts?

In all sincerity, I cant figure out if you are one completely insecure guy or if you are a doormat.

You keep coming here and asking us to tell you if your GF is worth keeping around. This is the one who is going to use you as her free babysitter so she can go party cross country, right?

I have 2 kids. aint no way in H-E-L-L im leaving them with a short term boyfriend. That is NEGLIGENT

You keep coming around here and asking if she's wavering in her interest for you. Thing is - the fact that you have to ask means that you already have doubts. Men whom are dating females who are into them, dont have doubts about the females because the females understand that their man needs to feel secure about them, and they make it 'so'.

So which is it - are you super insecure? It's okay if you are, lots of people are, but let's at least be honest with ourselves. If it's personal insecurity, that can be cognitively worked out by you.

Or is this chick behaving in a manner that keeps telling your gut that she's really not that into you?

In order for you to find peace, you need to figure out the single answer to those 2 questions.

 

[Glassguy]

Good stuff, hard to do though

Hard to do, but if the ship is to be righted, it's the only way. No wasting precious time.

 

[Juanto]

Hard to do, but if the ship is to be righted, it's the only way. No wasting precious time.

Dont see any woman leaving that conversation as it is without asking questions like " what are you talking about exactly?"

 

[playa99]

I know you've made threads about this woman before.

Given the context of the situation you need to end the relationship your in and move on ASAP.

Liking pictures of other dudes can not be construed as high quality behaviour!

You cannot control what women do, but you can control your reaction to it!

 

[Glassguy]

Dont see any woman leaving that conversation as it is without asking questions like " what are you talking about exactly?"

You're right. Thats why I said its NOT a fvcking conversation. You reach down, make sure your balls are still there, get up and leave after you've said what you needed to say.

"You have several behaviors that just dont feel right to me and I am going to take the next few days to decide what I want to do. I dont want to get into a conversation about it now, but I suggest you look in the mirror and decide if these things are going to stay the same or if you can change them. I know that I cant stay in a committed relationship with you the way things are right now. I have to run, I have other things to take care of. I will catch up with you later".

Then you smile, shut up and walk out. Seems pretty simple to me.

 

[Glassguy]

I know you've made threads about this woman before.

Given the context of the situation you need to end the relationship your in and move on ASAP.

Liking pictures of other dudes can not be construed as high quality behaviour!

You cannot control what women do, but you can control your reaction to it!

I agree. I'm just giving the OP one last ditch effort to snap this wondering eyes, c0ck whoring ***** a snap of the neck to turn it around.

I would have bounced this biotch a long time ago.

 

[dude99]

I know what you mean, but that's not her. She doesn't "like" everything. Just like how she's not the person to wish EVERYBODY a happy birthday

Are the sending private messages to eachother? Are they texting eachother ? Is she creating/fabrcating reasons to get mad at you? Has she suddenly become disrespectful?

If so get ready for the branch swing.

 

[wifehunter]

If you're not the most important person in her life...walk away!!!

 

[SgtSplacker]

Every single woman I have been with needs to be taught that she needs to keep me happy. The currency women work on is attention. So for her to be liking some dudes posts like that is blatant disrespect as far as I'm concerned.

I don't care who thinks I'm wrong or right but this guy right here needs to know for sure he's in a situation that makes him happy. Fuuck what she thinks, this is all about numero uno.

Am I going to confront her about anything? Nope... I'll just withhold commitment and attention and keep doing me. If she notices and asks me something about it then maybe I'll level with her if I feel she deserves it and let her know I really didn't think she was serious about us because of that.

The psychology behind this is simple. You don't miss something until it's gone. Scarcity adds value. Put those two together and Ms. Doesn't know what she's doing will figure out what she needs to be doing real quick.

 

[Red Legg]

I put little value on social media or what anyone does on them,go outside and get off all of your internets for christ sakes.

 

[Reykhel]

I put little value on social media or what anyone does on them,go outside and get off all of your internets for christ sakes.

Yes, one thousand times yes.

Reykhel approves.

Trivial fvcking ****e really.

I thought women were supposed to be the jealous and insecure creatures.

What's laughable is the poster who suggests having a talk with her that's not really a talk. Sitting down and
telling her that there's certain behaviors that he doesn't like and "she should take a look in the mirror..." and then he
should "run away before she has a chance to questions him" .......she's really going to guess at the behavior that
has upset the little fella and reflect on it and say "oh gosh he's so right, I'm glad he brought it to my attention in that oblique manner. I can know correct my ways." Yeah right..

What's worrying is the amount of fellas endorsing that message. Dear oh dear.

Get on with your life. Be busy, Have options. If you are her best option, she'll follow.

 

[resilient]

I put little value on social media or what anyone does on them,go outside and get off all of your internets for christ sakes.

F' ya man. My last ex was/is a social media addict. I used to post pics every couple of days. I felt pressured to get more followers or post the perfect picture because everyone's else crap looked like magazine glossy worthy / Nat Geo-esque.

I haven't posted a single picture since the end of March. I deleted the social media app about a week into this month and I feel so much better about life.

I'm more focused on me. I don't care what other people are doing. I hit the gym and play my guitar daily. I'm not looking back.

 

[Reykhel]

If you're not the most important person in her life...walk away!!!

More bull****e rhetoric......never mind the fact that this advice is coming from an introvert loner who doesn't have
any women in his life........losers in love spitting out feel good rhetoric

Let's examine the statement.......how could you expect to be "the most important person in her life"? and more over, why would you
want that "accolade"...?

Reality check.....her parents are probably more important to her than you.......so should you just walk away??

A woman should never be the most important person or thing in your life. Never. Never above you for a start, your parents/family, your career for another and your life purpose and pursuits should be stacked ahead. And she should know this. Tell her. Righteous honesty.

Ergo, you should never expect to be the most important person in her life. You may well come very very close. You may well be very important to her, but to expect to be "the most important person" with the proviso that if you're not "you'll walk away" is a rather immature and unrealistic expectation.

Let's start getting jealous about her nephew who she smothers with attention, eh? (Seen that happen, I kid you not.....a guy getting jealous because his girl was very affectionate with her nephew. Seriously.)

Unrealistic expectations.......and at what point does this poster expect to be "the most important person in her life" and at what point does the "walking away happen"?

A week?
A month?
Two months?
6 months?

Check your expectations and check your own boundaries.