EmotionalGeek
Senior Don Juan
On Friday. I was standing at the bar drinking my whiskey. I saw girl standing 1 meter from the counter waiting for some space to open. She is student, solid 8 or 9. I am 33. I make her some space. She comes to counter. I tell her that she just should say if she wanted to stand here. We get some short exchange but I ran out of the things to say so I turned my back to her and sipped my drink for about a minute. Then I go to dance. I meet her on dancing floor so I start to talk to her. It is going good. She is responsive. We start to dance and talk a lot teasing each other. When she want go to bathroom she say few times she will be back and she is after minute or so. When I go she waits for me. When we go to bar she catches my hand and if I squeeze she squeezes back. We were talking for about 5 hours. She tells me few times that she has classes next day but she stays.
I am certain that she will give me her number. At 4pm I says that I have to go because I have to drive in the morning. I feel she immediately loses interest. She say she does not remember and go to chaning room. After a while I decide to follow. I go there and she ask why I am here. I says that I told her that I am going home. Her friend says "He wants to walk you to bus". Friend goes one one she with me goes other way. After short walk she takes my hand (I did
not offer). We are walking like this and talking. When bus arrives I ask her for number again she says bus is here so I jump to the bus with her. There she checks her number on the phone the tells me but she switches one digit. I suspect that she did it intentionally but ping her and then she gives me right number. After we live the bus I try to convince her by humor and light banter that she takes me home. But after 30 minutes she extends the hand. I accept and go for the taxi.
On Sunday 19:20PM I sent message but I did not receive the answer.
I do not understand the situation. The dialog was really light and funny. I was really into her because of her character not looks and I really felt like we were soul mates. I was convinced she felt the same.
I think I did following errors:
1. Poor eye contact
2. Poor kino
3. I was not leading at the moments I felt like she was leading.
4. At the end I tried to be persistent but maybe I was a bit needy.
I do not understand this sudden lost of interest when she seemed very receptive and into me for like 5 hours and need some explanation. I feel wrecked today and have very ill humor. I want to avoid similar situations in the future.
I am certain that she will give me her number. At 4pm I says that I have to go because I have to drive in the morning. I feel she immediately loses interest. She say she does not remember and go to chaning room. After a while I decide to follow. I go there and she ask why I am here. I says that I told her that I am going home. Her friend says "He wants to walk you to bus". Friend goes one one she with me goes other way. After short walk she takes my hand (I did
not offer). We are walking like this and talking. When bus arrives I ask her for number again she says bus is here so I jump to the bus with her. There she checks her number on the phone the tells me but she switches one digit. I suspect that she did it intentionally but ping her and then she gives me right number. After we live the bus I try to convince her by humor and light banter that she takes me home. But after 30 minutes she extends the hand. I accept and go for the taxi.
On Sunday 19:20PM I sent message but I did not receive the answer.
I do not understand the situation. The dialog was really light and funny. I was really into her because of her character not looks and I really felt like we were soul mates. I was convinced she felt the same.
I think I did following errors:
1. Poor eye contact
2. Poor kino
3. I was not leading at the moments I felt like she was leading.
4. At the end I tried to be persistent but maybe I was a bit needy.
I do not understand this sudden lost of interest when she seemed very receptive and into me for like 5 hours and need some explanation. I feel wrecked today and have very ill humor. I want to avoid similar situations in the future.
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