Simply proving my point and trying to enlighten more people that monogamy is societal programming and wrong, more than ever in our fast evolving culture.
No one enjoys it, it creates from very very VERY far the most problems in probably 80-90% of relationships.
I'll bang SM but after a month, she'd understand really well that "I don't like children/kids... AT ALL"
Reality, is I never lasted more than couple weeks... Last time, I couldn't stay over for the night when her kid woke up... I just fckin left... she got the msg. "your kid obviously needs you... I bet she's wondering what all that noise is, go with her, I'm outta here!"