"Fvck boy"

[youngprodigy]

This term is used pretty often nowadays especially in my age group. You see this term said by girls, and all over social media. From my understanding so far from what girl (friends) have told me, its a boy who emotionally manipulates women to gain pleasure.

I was wondering, would a "**** boy" be considered red pill or blue pill, and what are your thoughts on these types of men.

P.S. One girl told me that my social status is being known as a fvck boy. How can I go about changing this. In high school I hooked up with quite a lot of girls and dropped them with no remorse.

 

[logicallefty]

I got called this once by some skank on Twitter once that I didn't know. I wasn't sure of the meaning. Now that I know I guess I was "emotionally manipulating" her. Looking back on it I'm glad I was lol

 

[Masculinity]

Just the masses thinking in a herd and repeating words they hear others say.

 

[lizardking82]

****boys are the "pretty" dudes who train and have good bodies, but are in general just as shallow as the girls they ****. More shallow girls wanting to **** and be "young, wild and free" = more ****boys around. It has happened even in a ****ed up country like mine, Albania, I hear this term ****boy here, ****boy there. Amazing. Whatever, but I don't think you wanna be known as a ****boy. Whenever faced with such a "claim", joke about it and move on to the next topic.

 

[Infern0]

It's just a guy who pumps and dumps.

 

[AlphaNate]

Never knew what this meant. Have a Like for enlightening an old man.

 

[AlphaNate]

I just found out recently. Whenever I hear a girl use this I laugh because they are talking about a guy they are freely sexing without commitment yet they still think they are somehow superior to him. The first time I heard the phrase was years ago but I didnt fully get it. A girl was bragging about how she had sex with her ex(who cheated on her with a much better looking girl) on top of some lawsuit papers bc she was going to sue him for money owed. I was thinking "why does having sex with him count as a loss for him?" What?

It is a very egotistical term, it is a way to grab power for themselves, a type of reframe. Like the guy who gets dumped for valid reasons and then says the girl was "just a ho" or something. Likewise, a guy is too good looking for a girl to resist so she bangs him but then denigrates him to feel better about herself. BUT I rarely hear these girls speak of a true player this way. They speak of these men with reverence and respect.

Wait, so the term is derogatory?

 

[fastlife]

It is yes but again, not really a bad place to be if you're a guy. You'd rather be called a "player" though imo.

As far as girls are concerned, the two terms are interchangeable. Fvckboy is just more linguistically useful since it alleviates a higher degree of responsibility since 'Oh, she didn't KNOW. She THOUGHT she was finding love & socially respectable commitment, but he was just one of those pesky fvckboys.' Has very little to do with the behavior of the male in question.

For the record, a big part of my schtick is telling girls what a fvckboy I am. Kind of a secret society type thing--they always get a kick out of it.

 

[fastlife]

@LARaiders85 She's just making a distinction based on level of attraction. I'd venture that most girls, or at least those more in tune with societal programming, make the distinction based more on whether a guy will play in her frame (relationship or at least calling her back) or not (fvck boy).

With betas, they hear 'player' and there are glamorous connotations that the beta might potentially aspire to; with 'fvckboy' it makes it seem like girls have no respect for these guys (even though they sleep with them, regardless lol) and the beta doubles down his beta game so that no girl will think he's a fvckboy. That's why it play such a prominent role on social media propaganda machine.

Anytime I hear a girl shame fvckboys I say something like, 'Yeah, but you love fvckboys. Every girl secretly loves fvckboys.' Have yet to have one disagree.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It's just a guy who pumps and dumps.

Someone good for the sex but nothing to offer nor would they

 

[AttackFormation]

I just found out recently. Whenever I hear a girl use this I laugh because they are talking about a guy they are freely sexing without commitment yet they still think they are somehow superior to him. The first time I heard the phrase was years ago but I didnt fully get it. A girl was bragging about how she had sex with her ex(who cheated on her with a much better looking girl) on top of some lawsuit papers bc she was going to sue him for money owed. I was thinking "why does having sex with him count as a loss for him?" What?

It is a very egotistical term, it is a way to grab power for themselves, a type of reframe. Like the guy who gets dumped for valid reasons and then says the girl was "just a ho" or something. Likewise, a guy is too good looking for a girl to resist so she bangs him but then denigrates him to feel better about herself. BUT I rarely hear these girls speak of a true player this way. They speak of these men with reverence and respect.

This is spot on.

Funnily enough, it seems to me it's the more loose, attention-whory girls who use the term fvckboy the most or at all. That girl whose profile pictures are like an amateur playboy flick is the one who is most likely to loudly and often complain about dealing with "fvckboys".

 

[BeTheChange]

I disagree that they are interchangeable because I have had what I described explained. I'll give you an example, a female friend of mine described two men.

One, she called a "player" and said she "wants to have a ONS with him" because "he's very confident" but "won't date him because everyone knows he cheats."

The second was described as "I think I found a fvck boy" and "I just can't be bothered with him" and "I flaked on having sex with him oh well".

Same actions, but a completely different reframing of the situation based on different factors not limited to lack of respect for said fvck boy.

A ONS with the player is an honor. Casual sex whenever she wants it with the fvck boy is a chore, she almost hates herself for wanting it.

You may ask yourself how deeply I am in the friendzone with this girl, well somewhat but we still have sex...lol

This. Fvckboys get "used" by women in a way that players are immune too (or at least the perception is so)

 

[AttackFormation]

This. Fvckboys get "used" by women in a way that players are immune too (or at least the perception is so)

Yeah. I think like LA85 said, it's a way for women with low self-esteem to feel better by reframing.

 

[KingofPuss]

Last week I was about to lay this fine woman down when she said "You're a fvck boy, aren't you?"
She explained to me her definition is a dude who fvcks and never calls. So I'll go with that

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This is spot on.

Funnily enough, it seems to me it's the more loose, attention-whory girls who use the term fvckboy the most or at all. That girl whose profile pictures are like an amateur playboy flick is the one who is most likely to loudly and often complain about dealing with "fvckboys".

They chooze those "fvckboys" because it's whose on their friends tongues and in their ears. They like to complain about the same guys who won't do nothing for them but hit it.

 

[Red Legg]

I hate "millenial" terminology

 

[user43770]

I hate "millenial" terminology

I remember people saying this 15 years ago. It was an insult amongst men in that time and place. "Fvck boy" usually meant a fight was about to happen. I guess we didn't know the true meaning.

 

[youngprodigy]

I feel like both terms are used pretty loosely. All the girls I've banged (post red-pill and I think most previous) have shown complete respect towards me. They know i wouldn't stand for any of their ****; they say it's my pride in my way but realistically it's my intolerance for bs).

Depends on the girl, girls that use this term are usually butt hurt cause the guy they sucked off on call didn't decide to put a ring on their finger

 

[devilkingx2]

A fvck boy is just a guy that a woman chooses to give sh!t for whatever arbitrary reason (which usually boils down to not doing what she wants)

You're a fvck boy if you want sex when she wants commitment for example

 

[AlexKaiser]

In Montana, A ****boy was just a very low quality male pretending to be red-pill.

****boys DON'T get laid. However like all slurs they get slapped on everything, including guys who DO get laid and score successfully.

So basically, a ****boy is ANY male.