do we have to accept that all women are slvts?

[pyros]

Considering you want a LTR with a woman, when you start to look for red flags and you screen her etc, and then at some point you realise she's been a who-re...Would you still consider a long term relationship with her?

I mean, nowadays all women have had ONS, they've fvcked some dude raw style, they may have had an abortion, they may have done a threesome or two, they've sent nudes to a few guys, and they all have fvcked dozends of guys so...

Should we delete this point from the list of red flags?

It is already pretty difficult to find a single woman who you find attractive, is good to you, sex is good, you're both compatible etc, so if we next her because she's been too much of a slvt... we'll probably be nexting ALL WOMEN. It is said that who-res dont make good wives though...

Thoughts?

 

[sazc]

If "all women" are like that, and that makes you feel uncomfortable, take it slow and screen them

 

[Infern0]

Bradd is right.

Values are different these days, just the way it is.

Forget the past, as long as she's loyal to you it's all good.

 

[bigneil]

• When I first meet a girl, I couldn't care less who she is dating or was with.
• After 2 months or so, the thought of her with other men turns me on.
• After 6 months or so, the thought of her with other men turns me off.

These days it's more about how relatively slvtty they are.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Tired of this "take it slow" ain't nobody got time for that life is short

 

[TheProspect]

Ironic how the majority of guys will fvck just about any mildly attractive broad that crosses their path but will complain about the value of a girl when she herself enjoys the thrill of sex with attractive partners and one night stands.

You can rationalize a double standard all you want...

But male or female, we all like sex, and the novelty of new partners. Some prefer novelty more, some people like repeated companionship with one individual. Some like to switch it up at various points in their life. To each their own.

Girls are going to have sex with men other then you, get over it lol.

 

[pyros]

but the thing is that, even if you want to put that aside, the fact that she's been a slvt and has fvcked dozens of men makes her unable to really bond with you, and the chance of her cheating on you is, in the long term, high; or at least these is what I read and I believe.

So you may be getting into a relationship that seems to be going well...but it is actually doomed, you know?

There is this saying: You can't turn a ***** into a housewife.

In the end I dont know what to do. If I keep searching for a woman that's been not too much of a slvt, I can wait forever.

 

[zekko]

In my experience there are plenty of women out there who aren't slvts. They may not be virgins but they don't sleep around with anything that moves either. Nice girls tend to be attracted to me though, plus I'm not a millenial either.

After 2 months or so, the thought of her with other men turns me on

Ick. The thought of other men with ANY chick always disgusts me. The other day my girlfriend was talking about Aaron Rodgers and Olivia Munn breaking up. I said "Olivia Munn is hot as hell, but who wants after Aaron Rodgers has had his d!ck in her?". And I'm a fan of Rodgers. Just the way I am.

 

[AttackFormation]

I'll just put shortly what I've taken a paragraph to explain before.

If you are obsessing over what degree of slvtty your girlfriend has been then what you are really doing is needing to fulfill your own ego through her. That doesn't mean you shouldn't care that your wife is a porn actress on the side, you will be invested in her to some degree or another if you see her as your girlfriend/wife/whatever, but you get the point. Focus on how much she likes to please you, how loyal she is to you, how good a person she is, if she turns you on, and so on. Also, demanding that everyone be a virgin before committing for life is first and foremost impractical and probably also boring. Imagine if you lived forever, would you have sex with 1 person for the rest of eternity?

Accept that absolute satisfaction of your ego (which in itself is a malleable thing) is not a requirement for or the same thing as fulfillment in life.

 

[devilkingx2]

all girls are slvts is an important concept that has many, many applications, both positive and negative:

1. it means that you shouldn't believe 99% of girls when they want to "take it slow" or "aren't that kind of girl" or "wouldn't do that kind of thing", which is a good thing if you look at the glass half full (I.E that your odds of getting anal on the second date can be pretty high if you play your cards right) instead of half empty (that loads of other guys banged her on the second or even first date too)

2. it makes sex without being in a committed LTR possible (imagine a world where girls only let you have sex after 6 months of dating)

basically, don't let yourself be duped into thinking that your girlfriend is a nun unless you met her in a cathedral, but at the same time, enjoy the fact that you can have kinky sex with a different girl every weekend without needing to be engaged first and not needing to worry about which sex acts are forbidden by the bible/quran/talmud

the other problem is that any amount of living life will be considered slvttinness, we'd call a girl who gets drunk and parties and meets guys that she has fun with a slvt, but that's just what you do when you're young, you have fun, no need to get married or stay home at night like an old person.

personally, I don't care what a girl has done in her past, so long as she leaves the downsides at the door (like baggage from being pumped and dumped) and lets me reap the benefits (like anal on the second date and threesomes with her hot friends for my birthday.)

In this age of yolo, hook up culture, and girls traveling to fvck hot guys in different random cities

speaking of this, I've heard a theory that the male to female ratio of your preferred hunting grounds dictates how relationships work

that is to say, in places where there are far more young single women than young single men, you get a hookup culture, but if you travel to a city with way more young single men than young single women, you'll be in a more relationship/committment focused culture

this is because when there are less men we control the game, but when there are less women they control it

https://www.washingtonpost.com/post...nt-the-problem-facing-singles-today-its-math/

 

[sazc]

I'm so glad I'm not in my 20s right now. All the social pressure among the group to be "hook up" friendly and then get labeled as a slvt on the other end.

 

[dustmuffin]

Tired of this "take it slow" ain't nobody got time for that life is short

plus just because she is taking it slow with you doesn't mean that she hasn't jumped on some guys **** at the club after 15 mins.

 

[sazc]

Who blames having sex on social pressure?

I would assume that you would be considered boring if you didn't hook up like everyone else is

 

[zekko]

What an interesting imaginary world some of y'all guys live in here, where every woman is a slvt. That's just as naive in its way as thinking all women are Disney princesses

this is because when there are less men we control the game, but when there are less women they control it

By this reasonng, young women control the game, because they are in demand by a very wide age range of males.

 

[devilkingx2]

What an interesting imaginary world some of y'all guys live in here, where every woman is a slvt. That's just as naive in its way as thinking all women are Disney princesses

it's because there's more guys who think that women are innocent angels than guys who treat every woman like a bar slvt, if the average man's problem was thinking that women are all ultra hardcore slvts, then the red pill knowledge would be that "all women are virgin princesses"

technically both extremes are false though

By this reasonng, young women control the game, because they are in demand by a very wide age range of males.

I remember an article saying that here in NYC there's like 4 young single women for every 3 young single men, which means that supply is higher than the demand here, which shifts things more in a man's favor.

 

[wifehunter]

Not "all", most!

And, yes.

 

[zekko]

it's because there's more guys who think that women are innocent angels than guys who treat every woman like a bar slvt, if the average man's problem was thinking that women are all ultra hardcore slvts, then the red pill knowledge would be that "all women are virgin princesses"

technically both extremes are false though

If someone would say "60% of women are slvts" I wouldn't blink an eye. If someone said "80% of women are slvts", I might wonder if that isn't a bit high, but I wouldn't quibble. To say ALL women are slvts though is too much. I've never liked absolutes, not when it comes to social questions.

 

[devilkingx2]

If someone would say "60% of women are slvts" I wouldn't blink an eye. If someone said "80% of women are slvts", I might wonder if that isn't a bit high, but I wouldn't quibble. To say ALL women are slvts though is too much. I've never liked absolutes, not when it comes to social questions.

It also depends on how liberal/realistic any given man's definition of a slvt is though, plenty of guys would have ridiculous standards for what makes a woman a slvt, which skews the curve.

I think for a guy with a relatively realistic view of things though, true slvts would be relatively uncommon

 

[AlexKaiser]

In my experience there are plenty of women out there who aren't slvts. They may not be virgins but they don't sleep around with anything that moves either. Nice girls tend to be attracted to me though, plus I'm not a millenial either.


Ick. The thought of other men with ANY chick always disgusts me. The other day my girlfriend was talking about Aaron Rodgers and Olivia Munn breaking up. I said "Olivia Munn is hot as hell, but who wants after Aaron Rodgers has had his d!ck in her?". And I'm a fan of Rodgers. Just the way I am.

Sex with Olivia Munn is sex with Olivia Munn though.

 

[ubercat]

Who cares. Whatever a woman does it washes off. As for g/f material or not the first weekend away will tell you.

Or get a girl from a traditional culture if u want bambinos