Any day game tips? Direct vs Indirect: Here's My Limited Experiences

[Finequasar3]

Just recently started approaching girls in the daytime with mediocre results. In total I've had 5 approaches.

1. Girl smiled at me at a meeting. Approached her on the street after while walking by saying, "Excuse me. Just wanted to introduce myself." Got her number, but she was in a 4 year relationship. Overall this was the best approach so far. Interest level 7/10.

2. "Hi how are you to girl?" Made small talk briefly while walking, didn't ask for the number. Interest level 3/10.

3. Said "Hi how are you to girl?" Made small talk briefly while walking, asked for the #, got rejected. Interest level 3/10.

4. Said "Hi how are you to girl?" Made small talk briefly while walking. She seemed iffy about going out so I gave her my number. Interest level 4/10.

5. Girl gave me slightly flirtatious look when passing, turned around then said "Excuse me, just wanted to introduce myself." She seemed confused and had the overall vibe of who the hell are you and why are you doing this. Interest 0/10.

6. Went up to girl waiting for bus and said "Excuse me, my name is John." She gave off the same confused wtf vibe the last girl did, except she was maybe slightly creeped out whereas the other was more just confused. Interest level 0/10.

Overall my take away so far is that for a fairly direct approach, they have to have seen you around and be somewhat comfortable with you. I feel that if they are comfortable with you a direct approach sets the stage better, but confuses/creeps them out otherwise.

As for indirect approaches go it seemed like there is potential and that if the convo went better/they liked me more it would have been successful. In each situation I could tell they were looking at me, were sizing me up and were intrigued.

Any tips on the type of approaches?

Also all of my approaches except one have been on girls walking around and it feels like it would be bad to disrupt a girl working by herself. Any better ideas as for what girls should be doing when I approach them?

Thanks

 

[Finequasar3]

What would you suggest for a good direct opener then?

By direct I mean I was more forward and introduced myself. They were pretty weirded out.

I was thinking about maybe stopping and complimenting.

 

[The Duke]

I usually throw out a compliment on their looks or attire and it always results in a big smile on their face and them being receptive.

 

[SuckItUp]

5 approaches is like spitting in the ocean. It's a good start but the non naturals who have become good with women have made well over 1000 approaches and typically a lot more. Failure is part of the gig and should be welcome as it teaches you what not to do.

Direct cold approaching is difficult, but made easier if you read body language and calibrate approaches to body language.

With more approaches you'll begin to notice patterns of behavior and when you've done it enough you'll know what a woman will likely say before they say it.

Read up on body language and become an expert on the topic. It will make things much more simple and easy.

 

[Young OG]

What would you suggest for a good direct opener then?

"Excuse me. I saw you from over there. I think your really cute and I wanted to meet you"

I haven't did a lot of day game, but you can use that one. Tweek it to your liking.

 

[FwoGiZ]

Understand that whatever you do, if you look like sh1t it won't ever work even if you know all of the best technique and what not. You're look is primordial. If the girl isn't attracted, she'll give you the creep look but not because of what you said... If you were her type, she would probably respond well to the same opener/technique.
But it is true that you gotta go around and not fear being "rejected" or ridiculed. Eventually it'll become easier.

Personally, I try to not compliment a girl until I banged her but it's doable if you do it in a funny/c0cky way... it's tricky cause if you go too hard on the whole compliment thing, she'll try and friendzone you instead.

 

[FwoGiZ]

I don't think that would ever work in most places in America? ;p we don't have eastern Europe chicks godamnit

 

[Finequasar3]

Understand that whatever you do, if you look like sh1t it won't ever work even if you know all of the best technique and what not. You're look is primordial. If the girl isn't attracted, she'll give you the creep look but not because of what you said... If you were her type, she would probably respond well to the same opener/technique.
But it is true that you gotta go around and not fear being "rejected" or ridiculed. Eventually it'll become easier.

Personally, I try to not compliment a girl until I banged her but it's doable if you do it in a funny/c0cky way... it's tricky cause if you go too hard on the whole compliment thing, she'll try and friendzone you instead.

i could definitely see that. I think that my problem was that I wasn't direct enough so they were confused. And one was wearing headphones lol

 

[Finequasar3]

I think it a lot comes down to what type of person you're approaching. I had a girl who seemed really interested get really weirded out, and a girl who clearly showed no interest to me was very nice and flattered.

Maybe it's bc this is a college setting and the girls are younger, but I find just striking up a conversation about something random has gone the best. I haven't had one girl get weirded out by it, and most end up being pretty flirtatious.

I feel like while not on campus it would be harder though. Everybody on campus has that common ground, so I think people are much friendlier.