I think what I meant is that the seduction community encourages basement dwellers to stay in their basement. According to seduction gurus, looks, money, and status doesn't matter. Just stay in your basement and play smoke and mirrors game. At the height of the popularity of the community, I've even heard of guys dropping out of college to take bootcamps from former social rejects who couldn't cut it as alphas in a tribe.
If you've ever been a fanboy of PUA gurus, you have been misled. I have been in many "PUA" forums where I have showed my OLD success and the pua's are baffled at my straight up conversation with women and unusually high conversion rate. They ask me for secrets and I tell them I am good looking guy. Then I get the usual community criticism of "Oh you rely on your looks. You have no game. You suck."
The seduction community has it assed backwards. You don't get brownie points for being a loser who has to try really hard. A "master" of seduction is essentially a low value guy who's mastered the art of overcompensating. But who is more impressive? The effortless alpha male with no need for game, or the low value master of smoke and mirrors seduction? Who would you rather be?
When you are the alpha male of your tribe, it is literally effortless. Being a high status guy is usually the advice many guys get. But it is only one half of the equation. Having social circles full of hot women and inserting your dominance into your circles is the most underused advice in the manosphere. Noone talks about it because noone actually has it.
Most guys in the manosphere don't know many women. So women seem mysterious. But if you were ever an alpha in a tribe with women, you would have been naturally red pill all the way.
Women with boyfriends, married women, all women tries to have sex with the alpha in the tribe. He is the validator. The king of a tribe is the source of all validation (that women want).
Outside of the tribe is a different story. In the clubs, I always get negged by women. It is because they are not afraid of the king's devalidation. They don't know who I am. And even if they do know who I am, it boosts their egos to give me a hard time. But if they belonged in my tribe in broad daylight, they wouldn't dream of testing me. Because no woman wants to be ostracized from a tribe. It is a real ancient human fear.
If you are a high status alpha male and you still have problems with women, it is because you don't have a social life that has a lot of women in it. Nature already created them by perfect design to be attracted to you. There is no mystery. There is no seduction. If anything, women seduce the king!
The alpha males who have been fooled by the seduction community that they have to go out and do hundreds of approaches and have no life outside the clubs have also been misled. That is a loser's lifestyle. Do you know what women in the club think when a high status guy aimlessly approaches women left and right? "Shouldn't this guy already have a harem of women?"
By being a high status "seducer," you actually lower your own status. The way nature designed humans, high status guys get seduced, they are not supposed to be the ones chasing. It's ass backwards.
When you are already a high status male, what you need to do is insert yourself into social circles full of hot women. Be it some fitness group, salsa dancing, whatever. Just don't be an aimless guy in the clubs. It's inconguent. It's like seeing Zac Efron supplicating to 6's and 7's. It doesn't look right. It's also like seeing an HB 10 in a ghetto club starving for attention. It would make you think "Shouldn't this chick have 100 admirers who are all rich and handsome? Why the hell is she here?"
And once you get that abundance from social tribes in broad daylight, you can go back into the clubs. But this time with a sense of entitlement. You know your own worth. You are not a no life seducer who betrays his own status. You end up yelling at women for being rude to you instead of trying to "pass tests."
That's what I do. I used to think I had to pass "sh!t tests." It was because although I had status, I had no social life. But once I started inserting myself into social tribes full of hot women, it was infinite female validation. I finally understood the perfection of it all. I felt like it was the way nature designed human beings to operate. In a sense, I developed 100% belief from abundance in social circles. And I didn't even had to do anything. The women seduced me because I was high status.
Then when I walked back into the clubs, I spent 90% of my time putting women in their place. I've told women to fvck off, threw my middle finger at chicks, cursed them out, etc. And in the end, I still get them. And even when I get them, I reject them for pissing off my ego. Basically I act entitled from the abundance I have in social tribes. That's the way it's supposed to be. The alpha male plays the game with house money.
But the important question is, why don't I get along with women in the clubs? It's because a lot of women power trip and even try to challenge alphas. So I dominate them and put them in their place. If you didn't have a social life with hot women, you would think this is what the game looks like. But it's an illusion. The bar/nightlife environment was designed to give women illusory power and make guys spend money.
In broad daylight, every woman is afraid of getting devalidated by the king.
Basically, I don't pass tests nor do I calibrate to women. I just dominate them. But it's my tribal abundance that gives me that frame in the first place. If you are a high status guy without a tribe full of women, you are still missing the other half of the equation. You might be confident, but your entitlement won't be 100% where you truly don't give a damn about anything, curse women out, and still get laid.
