Crazy b!tch texts me after 8 months; you guys made this too easy for me

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

This crazy girl I had somewhat of a fling with last summer at work just texted me after we 'broke up' about 8 months ago. She's a textbook crazy, here's a list of some of the red flags she had:
- Extreme manipulation of others
- Came on super strong in the beginning
- Started drama TONS of times
- Abusive father
- Abusive mother
- Stoner brother
- Self-mutilation
- Tried committing suicide before
- Got kicked out of her house 3 times before
- SUPER slutty
- Drinks a bit
- Smokes a bit
- Done drugs before
-Would pretend to be sad or upset in an attempt to get me to comfort her
- Bad spending habits
- More entitled than most others
- Fvcked our boss
- Had a harem of orbiters around her who would do anything for her
- Has trouble staying friends with other girls

I could go on, but by these main ones you can understand that she was just your typical crazy b!tch. Note that not all of these were visible right away. So I was with her for a little bit. I broke all the rules you guys taught me by purposefully ignoring these red flags, dating a coworker, one who's got all the issues most prostitutes have lol. Well she ended up texting me about an hour ago and I was surprised, didn't think she would text me back. But you guys say that these types always try to contact you in one way or another usually 6-12 months later and here she is! I was asking her best friend why she's texting me:

Now I know why she initiated it; it's because she tried blackmailing me with it and thought I would bend over backwards for her. I just wanted to see what this chick would say. Now obviously her response is bs, I'm not falling for that. The crazy b!tch slandered my name at work to everyone. But because they all started to realize how nutty she was, they didn't believe her, especially once I came back.

Now some of you may be thinking why I got with this girl in the first place, especially at work. I wanted to test my grit and see just how tough I am. I wanted to know if I could actually handle the sh!tstorm that would soon ensue afterwards. I wanted to know if I was all talk on here or if I actually learned something. Her best friend told me while we were together that of all the years she knew her, she never believed in love so strongly before she got with me. It was because I was testing out certain actions that I intuitively believed would make her fall in love with me harder, to see that if I had learned enough from this place to where I could full trust my own instincts and mind now.

I feel nothing for her.

Despite all the craziness she had, I kept myself calm and collected the whole time, passed any sh!t tests she threw at me, never gave in to any of her manipulation, and easily stopped any drama that could have negatively impacted me. I saw the maelstrom she was causing in the social environment and I was right at the center of it, yet I was untouched by it. I saw how I could pull a few strings and make the drama favor one side and how I could make it favor the other depending on who I liked and disliked. I had full control the whole time while she thought she did, because I was able to influence her way of thinking and feeling to a certain extent. I passed and I beat it, easily.



And I want to say thank you.

 

[Dingo]

I'm I the only one having a hard time reading/understanding this ?

She's got YOUR hamsters spinning.... Come on....You didn't go through all that drama to "test yourself".... you did it because her puzzy was good.

Why in the world did you even text her best friend back ?

 

[logicallefty]

The friend may have texted you because your ex fling is low on orbiters. I would tell the friend "I am seeing someone else right now* and it is going extremely well.I have no grudges against 'ex-fling' but she is not a good fit for me either short or long term. Take care."

*you tell her you're seeing somebody else even if you are not.

 

[Asasione]

I'm I the only one having a hard time reading/understanding this ?

She's got YOUR hamsters spinning.... Come on....You didn't go through all that drama to "test yourself".... you did it because her puzzy was good.

Why in the world did you even text her best friend back ?

Perfect example of someone rationalizing things after the fact. If he was in control he could have kept her as a plate but she dumped him cause he never had any control in the first place. Good to see you got her thinking about you but that's not difficult to do

 

[Infern0]

Yeah OP you might not see it right now but she has got in your head, i can tell from the wall of text.

You are in dangerous territory here.

 

[MrOctober]

"Show her that your interested and MAKE HER FEEL GOOD ABOUT herself"

Key words from that friend. that's gold right there.

Now think back about how good she made you feel. This is your opportunity to reject this ho back to tinder.

Edit- or... or... you can play your cards perfect and bang her again possibly.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I'm I the only one having a hard time reading/understanding this ?

She's got YOUR hamsters spinning.... Come on....You didn't go through all that drama to "test yourself".... you did it because her puzzy was good.

Why in the world did you even text her best friend back ?

Then you've got it wrong. No it actually was to test myself. I wanted to go through the experience because everyone here always say that experience is better than just reading. The pvssy wasn't good tbh, she couldn't even arch her back lol. But I'm not gonna tell you guys every little detail that went down, these girls are pretty complex to say the least and I'd be righting a novel if I told you everything. I was texting her friend because this girl quit and I haven't seen her, talked to her, done anything with her for about 8 months. And out of he blue she texts me. I still work with her friend though.

The friend may have texted you because your ex fling is low on orbiters. I would tell the friend "I am seeing someone else right now* and it is going extremely well.I have no grudges against 'ex-fling' but she is not a good fit for me either short or long term. Take care."

*you tell her you're seeing somebody else even if you are not.

I want to see if they can do anything for me first. Even if they can't, it's good practice tbh.

Perfect example of someone rationalizing things after the fact. If he was in control he could have kept her as a plate but she dumped him cause he never had any control in the first place. Good to see you got her thinking about you but that's not difficult to do

You don't WANT to keep them as a plate. If I 'wanted' to, I'd have to have given in to her. She sent me a message before we left each other saying how she wanted to break up with me if I don't explain myself and say sorry for not doing what she wanted. I told her 'same lol bye'. It was either staying with her by giving in, or leaving her by remaining free. They always want control over someone who is free, and want to break up with them if they don't fall in line with the rest. But I was consciously aware of all that was happening so that's why I was able to resist.

Yeah OP you might not see it right now but she has got in your head, i can tell from the wall of text.

You are in dangerous territory here.

Explain. Of course I am thinking about her because she just texted me and because I just made a post about this. But I didn't really think about her or feel anything towards her the whole span after we were done with each other. How am I in dangerous territory?

"Show her that your interested and MAKE HER FEEL GOOD ABOUT herself"

Key words from that friend. that's gold right there.

Now think back about how good she made you feel. This is your opportunity to reject this ho back to tinder.

Edit- or... or... you can play your cards perfect and bang her again possibly.

Nah I wouldn't want to be with her or do anything with her again. She repulsed me now lol. But maybe her and her friend can do something else for me. If nothing else, it's good practice.

 

[Trunks]

Tell her she gave you AIDS. Should leave you alone after that.

 

[lizardking82]

Her best friend is slutty, too. I mean, of course, how can a girl like her have a non-slutty best friend. If you treat this hoe anything else other than bang material, you're emotionally problematic and you deserve anything bad that should be coming your way after that.