Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I see a lot of posters lamenting how their girlfriend has gained weight, or is misbehaving in any number of ways. Perhaps she is flirting with other men; perhaps she is sloppy around her house; maybe she feels she has a "right" to speak disrespectfully to you when she is in a bad mood or PMS-ing.
There is a way to nip all of this in the bud and handle it all before it happens. It's what I call the "Philosophical Musing".
It's essential during those quiet times with her to verbally muse about your life and relationship philosophies. Let's say you're out on a nature trail and you stop for a rest. That's a perfect time to shift into "Muse Mode" and talk about your thoughts on relationships.
First, you start talking about relationships in general, then ease into people in relationships treating each other well and "taking care of each other". Then you ease into "I feel it's very important for both to stay in the best shape possible for each other." She will readily agree. Talk about all the other things that are important to you. "I've noticed some women speaking disrespectfully to their man. I'm glad we don't have that issue and that we care enough to never let that happen."
She's already feeling close to you in these quiet times, and she will readily agree with every reasonable thing you bring up. She will admire you for confiding with her (this is how she will see it), and will be in a very romantic frame of mind because you are "trusting" her with your innermost thoughts. Believe me, she will accept every reasonable thing you say. These things will grow strong roots in her.
She will love how "insightful" you are and that you're "deep". And believe me, in the future, she will toe the line in the future because you have revealed what is most important to you. In the process, it's good to say how great it is that you don't "need" her in your life, but that even better, you "want" her in your life. This lets her know that you can and will walk away if her behavior isn't up to your standards.
As with most principles regarding women, these tips lose something in writing them down, and they have to be nuanced in practice and molded to fit your own personality.
Think about how women communicate and respond. They understand covert communications because that's how they operate. Leverage that to your advantage. The philosophical musing is a nuclear weapon in establishing your dominance, increasing her respect for you, and letting her know in no uncertain terms, the parameters for the relationship. And while accomplishing all this, she is falling even more in love with you, as if that were possible!
In this way you will be establishing how things are going to go in your relationship, in a covert way to you, but in a concrete way to her. Think of the word, "establish". That's your job if you want to have a successful relationship. Women crave a man who will establish the parameters because they crave a man who imposes his energy onto the relationship. Most men extract her energy from the relationship until the relationship is tapped out. You should be the energy that drives and gives momentum. She will gladly follow your lead.
Of course, this all must be accomplished EARLY in the relationship. Once she has her hooks into a bad behavior, it's already too late and you must resort to other more overt means to accomplish your purpose.
There is a way to nip all of this in the bud and handle it all before it happens. It's what I call the "Philosophical Musing".
It's essential during those quiet times with her to verbally muse about your life and relationship philosophies. Let's say you're out on a nature trail and you stop for a rest. That's a perfect time to shift into "Muse Mode" and talk about your thoughts on relationships.
First, you start talking about relationships in general, then ease into people in relationships treating each other well and "taking care of each other". Then you ease into "I feel it's very important for both to stay in the best shape possible for each other." She will readily agree. Talk about all the other things that are important to you. "I've noticed some women speaking disrespectfully to their man. I'm glad we don't have that issue and that we care enough to never let that happen."
She's already feeling close to you in these quiet times, and she will readily agree with every reasonable thing you bring up. She will admire you for confiding with her (this is how she will see it), and will be in a very romantic frame of mind because you are "trusting" her with your innermost thoughts. Believe me, she will accept every reasonable thing you say. These things will grow strong roots in her.
She will love how "insightful" you are and that you're "deep". And believe me, in the future, she will toe the line in the future because you have revealed what is most important to you. In the process, it's good to say how great it is that you don't "need" her in your life, but that even better, you "want" her in your life. This lets her know that you can and will walk away if her behavior isn't up to your standards.
As with most principles regarding women, these tips lose something in writing them down, and they have to be nuanced in practice and molded to fit your own personality.
Think about how women communicate and respond. They understand covert communications because that's how they operate. Leverage that to your advantage. The philosophical musing is a nuclear weapon in establishing your dominance, increasing her respect for you, and letting her know in no uncertain terms, the parameters for the relationship. And while accomplishing all this, she is falling even more in love with you, as if that were possible!
In this way you will be establishing how things are going to go in your relationship, in a covert way to you, but in a concrete way to her. Think of the word, "establish". That's your job if you want to have a successful relationship. Women crave a man who will establish the parameters because they crave a man who imposes his energy onto the relationship. Most men extract her energy from the relationship until the relationship is tapped out. You should be the energy that drives and gives momentum. She will gladly follow your lead.
Of course, this all must be accomplished EARLY in the relationship. Once she has her hooks into a bad behavior, it's already too late and you must resort to other more overt means to accomplish your purpose.
