Corey Wayne - Observation of his Clients

[bigneil]

Whether you love Coach Corey Wayne or hate him, there is an interesting observation that can be made about the men he consults in his videos: they must be well-off financially because he charges about $600 per session - yet if you listen to what they say the vast majority are clueless. Interesting!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zn_YAExtchQ
Example: "This girl I like and I talked about going out in a couple weeks, and 5 of her friends will be there. I never met any of them. How should I plan to act?" (this is a man who paid $600 to ask someone this).

 

[Infern0]

Wayne is a fundamentals guy. He teaches the basics and sticking to the basics. I think hes pretty good at that, AFC's can learn a lot from him, I did.

But past the beginner stage his stuff does start to lack, and his approach is inflexible. He says things like 1-2 texts max but never covers things like what if the girl asks why you dont text more etc.

I also one time didnt get an ex back following his stuff (i refused to meet out for a dtink because he says they MUST come to you, so she hooked up with some other guy at the club instead) but a couple of months later i was a little more flexible and i got the lay. He doesnt teach that.

As for his clients, they are hard case newbies who dont know the basics. Thats his market. And hes fine for that.

 

[wifehunter]

He's got a beta/pleaser streak.

Read his book, and used to watch his videos.

Coddling, is not my thing.

 

[zekko]

they must be well-off financially because he charges about $600 per session - yet if you listen to what they say the vast majority are clueless. Interesting!

They might be well off financially. Or maybe they're just stupid.

 

[Infern0]

He's got a beta/pleaser streak.

Read his book, and used to watch his videos.

Coddling, is not my thing.

I don't get that vibe from him at all.

On the other hand he's not one of those "i'm so ****ing alpha it's my way or the highway" type idiots either.

 

[Juanto]

Am I incorrect in thinking that trying to get ANY ex back is just plain wrong for any man? Teaching or preaching that just doesnt seem right to me, why would you want an ex back, if she´s an ex there is a reason for that, either she messed up (and in that case not worth your time anymore) or you messed up and in that case use that experience to find an even better woman where you will now know how to act.

 

[Roober]

Am I incorrect in thinking that trying to get ANY ex back is just plain wrong for any man? Teaching or preaching that just doesnt seem right to me, why would you want an ex back, if she´s an ex there is a reason for that, either she messed up (and in that case not worth your time anymore) or you messed up and in that case use that experience to find an even better woman where you will now know how to act.

His videos may be titled that or similar, but even he says no contact is about working on yourself. Often times, you won't want her back or you will find someone even better

 

[Juanto]

His videos may be titled that or similar, but even he says no contact is about working on yourself. Often times, you won't want her back or you will find someone even better

Fair enough then.

 

[Infern0]

Am I incorrect in thinking that trying to get ANY ex back is just plain wrong for any man? Teaching or preaching that just doesnt seem right to me, why would you want an ex back, if she´s an ex there is a reason for that, either she messed up (and in that case not worth your time anymore) or you messed up and in that case use that experience to find an even better woman where you will now know how to act.

I'm of the opinion that if it's YOU who messed up, i.e were too beta etc and SHE was just being a typical female, cleaning up your act then them coming back and you have a good RS is fine.

But if it was HER that messed up then yeah, get rid.

it's contextual.

 

[wifehunter]

I don't get that vibe from him at all.

On the other hand he's not one of those "i'm so ****ing alpha it's my way or the highway" type idiots either.

It's subtle, I picked it up after a few months. It took awhile. He's good at hiding it.

 

[bigneil]

I'm of the opinion that if it's YOU who messed up, i.e were too beta etc and SHE was just being a typical female, cleaning up your act then them coming back and you have a good RS is fine.

But if it was HER that messed up then yeah, get rid.

it's contextual.

In my relationship, the key point was at the 3 month mark where I threatened to end it, she called my bluff and then we ended it. We both truly regretted it. I waited 8 days and apologized and she accepted (with a couple of conditions that were more of a formality than anything substantial, as she had the upper hand at that moment). We got back together and the next 3 months haven't featured any hint of a breakup. We both just agreed we want to stay together. She quickly confessed her love after that breakup btw, and we had the best sex by far over the next month. You can only employ this preemptive breakup strategy once, but it can set the hook. They say we only fall in love through rejection.

 

[Trunks]

Corey Wayne reminds me of hipster baristas at local coffee shops: they act really nice and polite, with an air of importance, "I got this" kind of attitude. I can only be so thankful that the coffee justifiably comes at a 300% mark-up due to their expertise.

 

[bigneil]

I've generally used Corey's advice in dealing with the latest love of my life, in particular:

1) The woman should do 70-80% of the texting (this came true for the past 2 months. It was 50% for the first 4 months).
2) By date 7 she should say "I love you" (first) - this happened on date 7 exactly.
3) She should be the one to bring up commitment - this happened on date 10.
4) The best way to get her attention is to remove yours (I employed this during a 14 day absence in November, a 15 day absence in December, and a breakup in January and arrived at true love in February and March, with a vacation planned for April).
4) You must love in such as way that the other person feels free - CRITICAL - there have been two key points in my relationship where she cancelled our plans and seemed to be in a position where it would have been easy to point out a pattern of failure, but in both cases I offered her my full support, and I literally felt (and read, and later performed tactile analysis of) her gush with romance. It is trusting in and supporting her that makes true love emerge.

I noticed this at work also. When someone trusts in you, you often try harder to prove them right.

 

[Juanto]

I've generally used Corey's advice in dealing with the latest love of my life, in particular:

1) The woman should do 70-80% of the texting (this came true for the past 2 months. It was 50% for the first 4 months).
2) By date 7 she should say "I love you" (first) - this happened on date 7 exactly.
3) She should be the one to bring up commitment - this happened on date 10.
4) The best way to get her attention is to remove yours (I employed this during a 14 day absence in November, a 15 day absence in December, and a breakup in January and arrived at true love in February and March, with a vacation planned for April).
4) You must love in such as way that the other person feels free - CRITICAL - there have been two key points in my relationship where she cancelled our plans and seemed to be in a position where it would have been easy to point out a pattern of failure, but in both cases I offered her my full support, and I literally felt (and read, and later performed tactile analysis of) her gush with romance. It is trusting in and supporting her that makes true love emerge.

I noticed this at work also. When someone trusts in you, you often try harder to prove them right.

She cancelled on you and you offered her support? Can you explain this part?

 

[kronreiff]

This guy is a generalized youtube wh*re. Keep your game & frame and walk your path in life doing what you have to do and what you enjoy doing. Pvssy will come and go, so have fun while it lasts. However, never lose sight of YOU, your mission and your goals.
With or without a female or Corey Wayne., TAKE CARE OF YOU is the number one mission of a DJ.

 

[bigneil]

She cancelled on you and you offered her support? Can you explain this part?

Her uncle died.

Remember, there are four combinations of trust:

1) You trust her and she is trustworthy (good)
2) You trust her and she is not trustworthy (bad)
3) You don't trust her and she is trustworthy (bad)
4) You don't trust her and she is not trustworthy (bad)

So, given a choice between trusting her and not, which will you choose? Obviously, the only way to win is to trust her. That said, it's no guarantee, so trust but verify.

 

[bigneil]

PS - As Corey says "What you fear, you attract, but what you look at disappears".

 

[wifehunter]

PS - As Corey says "What you fear, you attract, but what you look at disappears".

Is nonsense.

 

[bigneil]

Is nonsense.

No, it's called a self fulfilling prophecy.

If every night you say to your girl "You didn't sleep with that hot guy you know, did you? Promise?" that makes it more likely that she does it.

Out of interest, why do you consider this bad?.

Why is it bad if she isn't cheating on you but you accuse her of cheating on you?

I've noticed two things with girls:

1) If I accuse her of something and I'm wrong, I lose points.
2) If I trust her about something even though it appears she is wrong, I win points.

 

[Bokanovsky]

I've generally used Corey's advice in dealing with the latest love of my life

Out of curiosity, did Corey Wayne teach you things like "you have to find two strippers and give them $500 each" or did you come up with that all by yourself?