"I am so busy for now"

[lizardking82]

When a woman says she is busy in her life right now, be that with work or school (not "busy and can never talk" kind), do they just mean they're not into you enough for them to make time or there are cases where they are really so ****in' busy? LOL and how can you tell?

 

[Glassguy]

It means she is too busy FOR YOU right now. All you can do is leave it open and don't initiate any contact....see if she reaches out. She probably has low interest and if she sees you not sticking around she might reach out.

If Brad Pitt wanted to go out with her do you think she would still be too busy?

 

[lizardking82]

She studies medicine, first year and I know those people are quite busy in general. She has found time to initiate contact several times and has gone sexual and we will meet first time in 2 days.

Although @Glassguy got a pretty good point with the Brad Pitt thing thing there...

 

[ubercat]

Means you ve dried up my vag like the Sahara and I'm too busy fvcking my bad boy x right now.

 

[lizardking82]

Means you ve dried up my vag like the Sahara and I'm too busy fvcking my bad boy x right now.

Meh, she a virgin, 19 years old, no bad boy. You could argue that I don't know any of these, but I usually do notice this ****.

 

[lizardking82]

You are missing my point, mate.

Point is that she isn't meeting your needs.

Which is fine. Game other women too.

One thing that I don't understand is tailoring your game specifically for one woman. From a LTR compatibility viewpoint, it merely means that you aren't compatible.

She won't be a stable-plate. Or she will, and you will be unsatisfied.

Game other women too, and soon enough you will probably be too busy for her. That is the natural way of things.

Don't try to push a square peg into a round hole. Go with the flow.

Appreciate that, spinning plates is absolutely always going on for me and right now I am dating three other girls except for this one which has not turned yet into a "dating her" thing (will on Friday). And you're right, I will probably be too busy for her very soon, work and dating combined. I was just asking in case it happens in the future.

 

[dude99]

When a woman says she is busy in her life right now, be that with work or school (not "busy and can never talk" kind), do they just mean they're not into you enough for them to make time or there are cases where they are really so ****in' busy? LOL and how can you tell?

Not interested in you. When they dont have time "right now" too busy for dating etc.... they are sugar coating them saying they are not interested.

Do not invest time or energy.

 

[ubercat]

Wow she came with her own certificate of virginity that's handy. DeeSade s on the money. If she's busy she's not useful so you go get busy. If you've got three other plates I'm surprised you haven't heard all this before. If you want the definitive list of excuses go read the thread on what women say and what they really mean

 

[RangerMIke]

Women who like you and are busy, will offer alternatives. If you ask a chick out and she doesn't say yes or counter she isn't interested. Best just move on to other women... you can circle around to that one if you like, and sometimes I'll make another pass later, but truth is most of the time you get another no... if you ask again after getting shot down twice you really are wasting your time.

 

[bigneil]

It means she did triple anal last night.

 

[Trump]

When a woman tells me she is busy in her life right now, I say "Oh that's too bad, I wanted to take you to Vegas first class and stay in the penthouse suite for 2 weeks, but if you are too busy, maybe next time."

Granted if they are in medical school, its a little different. But notwithstanding a man's height and hair, every girl has their price.

 

[JohnChops]

You are missing my point, mate.

Point is that she isn't meeting your needs.

Which is fine. Game other women too.

One thing that I don't understand is tailoring your game specifically for one woman. From a LTR compatibility viewpoint, it merely means that you aren't compatible.

.

Indeed, your game should havd the same basis behind it with room for adaptability to the situation. However, your core game should be defined by masculine properties .

 

[Krueg]

You could give her the benefit of the doubt. But if she does really like you, I'm sure she would make time...

 

[Glassguy]

You could give her the benefit of the doubt. But if she does really like you, I'm sure she would make time...

If they're interested they will counter offer. At worst case they will need to check their schedule and then counter offer.

Period. Don't waste time. Ask them out, if they act flakey, save your time and move on. It's better than adding to the "how to handle a flake" thread later, because that's what your asking for if you keep pursuing her.

 

[Dingo]

Would she be "to busy" for Brad Pitt or whoever the equivalent is now days ?

 

[wifehunter]

Sh!t test.

Walk away.

 

[nismo-4]

Your princess is in another castle.

She's too busy right now because she ain't trying to see you. She wouldn't be too busy for Channing Tatum, and you wouldn't be too busy for Kate Upton, barring a family emergency. You'd damn sure reschedule. She didn't reschedule. Red flag.

Walk away. Drop interest, go after another woman. Maybe she'll call you, but don't hold your breath.

Case closed.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

When a woman says she is busy in her life right now, be that with work or school (not "busy and can never talk" kind), do they just mean they're not into you enough for them to make time or there are cases where they are really so ****in' busy? LOL and how can you tell?

This is absolutely next material. You do not want to be that puppy dog waiting to be tossed a bone. Maybe in a month or so, you can send out a 'pinging' text. Sometimes she may be concerned, at around this time, you have forgotten her. Odds are, she has well and truly forgotten you. Most of the time you would well and truly have forgotten her anyway.. unless she made quite the impression on you...

 

[lizardking82]

Guys, I think you got carried away a bit too fast here. She did not say she is too busy to meet me, in fact I am meeting her this Friday. She just said "I am very busy with school now and if something starts between us, I do not know if we can meet all that often". I found that interesting

 

[Roober]

Everyone is busy. If she says she is too busy, she is just too busy for you.

Guys, I think you got carried away a bit too fast here. She did not say she is too busy to meet me, in fact I am meeting her this Friday. She just said "I am very busy with school now and if something starts between us, I do not know if we can meet all that often". I found that interesting

As her interest grows, she will naturally want to see you more. If she is super busy in med school, that is perfect for plate status. You can nail her 1-2 times a week, just don't get emotionally invested.