Ex threatens to bring "friends" to my house..

[Chev.Chelios]

She moved out a year ago..
Still has some random chit here not worth anything.. dishs, coffee maker etc..

Recently I got a female friend as a roomate, girl iv known for 10 years

Ex blew her lid.. crying and theatening me with everything.. Because I got a roomate..
Sadly she used to be a sweet girl now she hangs with the gangster thug crowd now.. such a waste. Iv been in no contact for almost a month now, which sucKS because I don't see my son anymore but if I don't do what she says I won't see him anymore, and I flat out refuse to do anything for her lol, now she's telling all her family and friends how terrible a person I am and everyone hates me.. ahhh chiitttt oh well.

Couple things she's said
- you lost your chances of ever seeing your son again..
- I have alot of people pissed at you i'm coming over with people Saturday I'm getting my **** one way or another..

I'm putting all her BS on the porch, it's not even worth anything and she never wanted it until this new chick moved in. She just wants her way, and is now assembling a group of chode tattoo thug orbiters to come bang my door down.. a couple days ago she left a note saying she's getting a police escort, now it's a gangster faggot escort?

Soo I'm a little tripped out now.. I don't feel like getting into legal trouble knowing these fvcked up court systems nowadays, I don't want to let her in my house lol.

- Anybody have any experience with this?
- is it okay to stab someone trying to bang down your door without going to jail?
- is this grounds for a restraining order?

Basicley there's nothing of hers in the house and she wants to come in with faggots, iv never been through this kind of thing before and just really worried about doing things correctly and not ending in legal trouble, iv heard stories of people defending themselves and these little chicken chit laws get them in trouble, and I'm far to busy for that. Then again my ego wants to destory these fvcks..

I'm coming to get my **** outta that apartment one way or another so unless you guys wanna have problems and have me bring somebody with me to get it i suggest you or Aaron hit me back and give me mine and his dad's ****. You guys are really low lives of you think you're gonna post up all comfy in that apt with all my **** in there. Let me know, I'm off saturday so I'll bring somebody with if you don't let me get my stuff and you both won't be happy about it

Bring some people** i got a lot of people pissed that will come up there and get my **** for me. Really sick of you ****in with me. Puttin your babies pictures and clothes on the porch like he ain't ****. Try me Chev@

 

[wifehunter]

Go camping.

 

[Alvafe]

tell her when they came to bring some beer.

feh, serious, its not for her to decide if you can or not see your son again, if she is in such bad people and you are willing to take care of the kid here is your chance

also care to explain excatly what is happening? you said a lot and means nothing at the same time, btw one thing is important she said or she text that? I would simple consider a lie, but is its a text time to aks for restrition order on her and make some paper trail for her threatening you

 

[Chev.Chelios]

Update.. she broke into my house and took a bunch of stuff when i was gone hahahah

Filed a police report cops didn't even care..

 

[Dr.Suave]

Seems women get a free pass these days for almost anything

 

[lizardking82]

Hm, ****ed up situation. It's like, I wanna tell you "your son is kinda gone with this crazy ***** now", but I am not a parent so I don't know if I should.

 

[xstang77]

Update.. she broke into my house and took a bunch of stuff when i was gone hahahah

Filed a police report cops didn't even care..

That bull**** man, I went through some drama with my bpd ex and white trash neighbors over the summer then a couple months later I noticed my mailbox was vandalized and someone stole a $60 package of mail I got addressed to me off my porch, called the police and they didn't do squat didn't come look at it or anything.

 

[derricklerrick]

Should've invested into a little hidden camera in your house as soon as you got the threats. It's still not late so install one as soon as possible because she might return. The only reason she did this is because she thought she would feel better afterwards but she probably won't and will most likely come back to further damage.

 

[dustmuffin]

Should've invested into a little hidden camera in your house as soon as you got the threats. It's still not late so install one as soon as possible because she might return. The only reason she did this is because she thought she would feel better afterwards but she probably won't and will most likely come back to further damage.

Not a bad idea, You could also get an alarm. Simply safe is a cheap option. I have met crazy women but a different type of crazy.
If the group of thugs comes over don't let them in, call the police and tell them there are people trying to break in. They might come.

It's funny, when I lived in the rich part of town if I called the police they were there in 5 minutes or less. Now I live with the hispanics. They might show up in half an hour. So basically I'm on my own. I do own several handguns and have a baseball bat.My state will let you shoot anyone that breaks into your house if you feel your life is in danger.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

Seems women get a free pass these days for almost anything

Oh yeah if I pulled some chit like that I'd be in jail lol

Hm, ****ed up situation. It's like, I wanna tell you "your son is kinda gone with this crazy ***** now", but I am not a parent so I don't know if I should.

Yeah dawg its tough, kind of already braced myself losing him a long time ago.. alphas males fck btches and the betas take care of them..(there's alot of dudes begging to be with this chick) sounds completely ****ed but having that awful belief really helps. Cause after going through all this pain and torture it's turning me into an animal of an *******..

I make cash under the table, so child support wont nab my ass.

They way I see it is.. if the female has the balls to leave the cave for her own/new man's cave, so be it have a ball! just don't come back to my cave with the law on your side and suck out my resources. As far as I'm concerned I failed as a little ***** cave man and she went off to find a new baws..


The government getting men to fork over money to single mothers disgusts me (I know some girls do need it do to real pos dads) but alot of girls just do it because they get into a stupid fight and rationalize being single, while the dad trys everything to fix chit (me) and still getting burned in the end, woly fck!

When any girls says she loves being single or doesn't need a "man" is so chalk full of chit I want to cry omg lol
Zillions of Men busted they're ass and died in global wars to put everything in place for this new secure, comft society we all get to enjoy now. 100 years ago a b!tch would die thinking like that.

/rant
Had a very stressful day from this, writing helps

 

[9Volt]

She moved out a year ago..
Still has some random chit here not worth anything.. dishs, coffee maker etc..

Recently I got a female friend as a roomate, girl iv known for 10 years

Ex blew her lid.. crying and theatening me with everything.. Because I got a roomate..
Sadly she used to be a sweet girl now she hangs with the gangster thug crowd now.. such a waste. Iv been in no contact for almost a month now, which sucKS because I don't see my son anymore but if I don't do what she says I won't see him anymore, and I flat out refuse to do anything for her lol, now she's telling all her family and friends how terrible a person I am and everyone hates me.. ahhh chiitttt oh well.

Couple things she's said
- you lost your chances of ever seeing your son again..
- I have alot of people pissed at you i'm coming over with people Saturday I'm getting my **** one way or another..

I'm putting all her BS on the porch, it's not even worth anything and she never wanted it until this new chick moved in. She just wants her way, and is now assembling a group of chode tattoo thug orbiters to come bang my door down.. a couple days ago she left a note saying she's getting a police escort, now it's a gangster faggot escort?

Soo I'm a little tripped out now.. I don't feel like getting into legal trouble knowing these fvcked up court systems nowadays, I don't want to let her in my house lol.

- Anybody have any experience with this?
- is it okay to stab someone trying to bang down your door without going to jail?
- is this grounds for a restraining order?

Basicley there's nothing of hers in the house and she wants to come in with faggots, iv never been through this kind of thing before and just really worried about doing things correctly and not ending in legal trouble, iv heard stories of people defending themselves and these little chicken chit laws get them in trouble, and I'm far to busy for that. Then again my ego wants to destory these fvcks..

Nuff said.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I gotta say, I really like your attitude about all of this.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

Thanks man, really am trying to become a better fvcking man..

 

[ubercat]

If u ve got a relative u trust get them to open a bank account. Deposit in cash. Withdraw in cash. If the kid needs shoes buy shoes with cash drop shoes off.

 

[Desdinova]

Couple things she's said
- you lost your chances of ever seeing your son again..
- I have alot of people pissed at you i'm coming over with people Saturday I'm getting my **** one way or another..

Update.. she broke into my house and took a bunch of stuff when i was gone hahahah

That a fvcking mess.

The way I see it, you have two options...

1) Fight to have more time with your kid. That's gonna cost you some hard-earned cash
2) Write the whole thing off. Give her the money you're legally required and cut all contact with her and your son. Move to a new place and don't tell her where.

Take away the power she has over you. Either get the law on your side to see your son, or cut him out of your life. Either way will remove power from her. It's a 5hitty choice to make, but it'll be in your best interest to choose one of these.

Nobody here is going to judge you if you decide to give up your son. We know things are stacked against men when it comes to custody.

 

[devilkingx2]

I'm up for a revenge robbery if you are

 

[backseatjuan]

You gotta cut contact with her. Change phone number, place of living, perhaps even city. You will contact her anyhow, but when you do use different phone.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

That's the only way, nc is %100 the only way to heal, coming from a guy that spent a year trying to work around it for the kids sake. I haven't healed much, very fvcking pissed.

Every word she says is pure manipulation now.

Btw that text she sent me was supposed to go to my roomate lol

I'm coming to get my **** outta that apartment one way or another so unless you guys wanna have problems and have me bring somebody with me to get it i suggest you or chev hit me back and give me mine and his dad's ****. You guys are really low lives of you think you're gonna post up all comfy in that apt with all my **** in there. Let me know, I'm off saturday so I'll bring somebody with if you don't let me get my stuff and you both won't be happy about it

Bring some people** i got a lot of people pissed that will come up there and get my **** for me. Really sick of you ****in with me. Puttin your babies pictures and clothes on the porch like he ain't ****. Try me Aaron@

Roomate never talked to her once, and she wants to kick her ass for no reason, because she's fvcking pycho, then I call her up to try and calm Her down so she doesn't start anymore ****( my month long no contact her her in tears everyday hahah) She ends up crying and btch in me out and ends up giving me her new address to see oliver..
So what I do? I go over there like a dumb fvck.. and been severely depressed ever sence, she keeps starring at me with those blue eyes and obviously isn't over it, I'm not over her, this chit sucks..

Yesterday she texted want to see baby?
I say yes
And she says you sure?
Little later I say yes again..
Then she sends along flake text, oh I have to go see a friend in jail and my brother has an interventing, sorry spaced that.

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Woly fcking fvxk this btch can burn in hell

 

[FwoGiZ]

And this gentlemen, is exactly why marriage and making kids is an insane risk to sabotage your own happiness.
I hate to say man, but you are not gonna win that fight. It's not just her that's against you, but the whole system. Specially if you mostly make money under the table, you can't prove you got your **** together. But the good thing is you can hopefully hard reset your life elsewhere? I would... change is good. It just sucks for your kid but in the end, he'll be better off than if he had to live in total chaos between both his parents trash talking at each others.
I would keep the house locked, with alarm system and IP cams (30-50$ online) and call the cops at any show of her since she's obviously hostile. Then I'd plan a move where she has no idea and just disappear, into a different country.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

That's pretty much it, no winning. The law should have no business getting into family affairs so much, I bet if the gov got the fvck away from familys and let father's handle there own issues things would shape up,

These woman have everything handed to them on a silver plater