This is a story of a man that in my eyes was one of the most Alpha men I had come across.
Since I was a child to just recently, his presence and personality personified a very high valued man.He still is, just not the same.
Yes, You may have guessed it. My father, is a man from a third world country with a high status. An educated man who gets what he wants. A principled man that would bend backwards for no one. A great orator and a great communicator. My father has been a leader in every circle he has participated in. Everyone looks to him to solve problems and he does it naturally. Men respect him and women admire him. I saw it all.
He was very strict with us as children as he had a reputation to maintain and wanted kids like him. His wife, my mother, was his biggest admirer. He had her in such a place that she would do anything for him. Not out of fear only but because she yearned him so much. EVERYTHING was done for his pleasure. EVERYTHING she did was to appease him and she did this happily. He never wavered or broke his frame. He remained strong and steadfast.
The Fall
What i've realized as of late is that he has succumbed to my mother. He isnt that stern man anymore with her. "my way or the highway" is not the code. Nearly everything my mother says he does. If my mother is annoyed (for her own mistake), he doesn't bother putting her in check, instead tries to reconcile. Its unbelievable change i never thought I would ever see in my father.
For example, my mother and father went to a holiday recently. He spent a total of $25,000. He came back and he looked distraught, tired and stressed whilst my mother looked rejuvenated, re-energized and totally refreshed.
Another example would be my father giving red roses to my mother recently. This came as a huge shock.He NEVER did this even though she used to beg him to.
Literally everything she asks for is done.
Having done all these things for my mother, you'd think shed be totally head over heels for him. However, its not the case. Ive suddenly noticed, after 29 years of marriage that my mother isn't as keen as she once was. She starts problem for no reason and doesn't respect my father as much as she used to. She takes digs at him in front of everyone and he just takes it.
This is the man who never heard a no from his wife. A wife that did and said everything he wanted without him saying it. Alas that is not the case anymore.
I guess the thing ive learnt from this is that the game is never over until you are dead. You must remain in your frame forever and never weaken up.
Women will literally suck the life out of you with no remorse if you give in to them.
Since I was a child to just recently, his presence and personality personified a very high valued man.He still is, just not the same.
Yes, You may have guessed it. My father, is a man from a third world country with a high status. An educated man who gets what he wants. A principled man that would bend backwards for no one. A great orator and a great communicator. My father has been a leader in every circle he has participated in. Everyone looks to him to solve problems and he does it naturally. Men respect him and women admire him. I saw it all.
He was very strict with us as children as he had a reputation to maintain and wanted kids like him. His wife, my mother, was his biggest admirer. He had her in such a place that she would do anything for him. Not out of fear only but because she yearned him so much. EVERYTHING was done for his pleasure. EVERYTHING she did was to appease him and she did this happily. He never wavered or broke his frame. He remained strong and steadfast.
The Fall
What i've realized as of late is that he has succumbed to my mother. He isnt that stern man anymore with her. "my way or the highway" is not the code. Nearly everything my mother says he does. If my mother is annoyed (for her own mistake), he doesn't bother putting her in check, instead tries to reconcile. Its unbelievable change i never thought I would ever see in my father.
For example, my mother and father went to a holiday recently. He spent a total of $25,000. He came back and he looked distraught, tired and stressed whilst my mother looked rejuvenated, re-energized and totally refreshed.
Another example would be my father giving red roses to my mother recently. This came as a huge shock.He NEVER did this even though she used to beg him to.
Literally everything she asks for is done.
Having done all these things for my mother, you'd think shed be totally head over heels for him. However, its not the case. Ive suddenly noticed, after 29 years of marriage that my mother isn't as keen as she once was. She starts problem for no reason and doesn't respect my father as much as she used to. She takes digs at him in front of everyone and he just takes it.
This is the man who never heard a no from his wife. A wife that did and said everything he wanted without him saying it. Alas that is not the case anymore.
I guess the thing ive learnt from this is that the game is never over until you are dead. You must remain in your frame forever and never weaken up.
Women will literally suck the life out of you with no remorse if you give in to them.
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