Thinking of sending a girl these texts: to do or not to do?

[Chamber36]

Met her on thursday. Told her she looked like a valkyrie. She said that was the best compliment she'd gotten all day. She invited me for a cigarette outside. I followed and she approached me. Told her I wouldn't know what to do with a girl like her. She said: "I don't believe that". I said: "Actually I would". She laughed. She said: "Let's talk about what you could do with me inside". I tell her: "How about a sample?", and we make out.

Inside I offer her a short of Jaeger, and we chat for a while. I ask her if she goes to the gym, feel up her ass and tell her it's supernatural. She laughs. I get her number in front of her lesbian lover who was getting jealous. I tell her its a disgrace I have to stay until closing time. Upon talking to her later I tell her I'll ask my boss if I can leave early. I approach her later and give her the confirmation. She says: "gimme 2 minutes". While I'm cleaning up I see her friend lose patience and basically drag her out. I go in the doorway and she mouths to me: "Sorry". I go back inside. She comes in later under the guise of asking for a biking helmet. Then says sorry again. I tell her I'll text her and she gives me another kiss on the lips.

So the next day I text her: "I could have eaten you up yesterday". She responds with a kiss smiley. Few hours later I say: "I would like to enjoy your presence tomorrow night". She says she has to work. I tell her "Then you have to tell me when you have time beautiful".

So now it's been 2 days since I sent that text. I don't expect her to send me something now. I woke up this afternoon thinking of senidng her: "In all my days I've never met a hottie like you".

Then maybe sending: "If you were to grace me with your aura I would be honored".

Third text I came up with: "And if you were to sit on my face causing me to suffocate I would die a happy man".

Now I'm feeling quite anxious because I feel like I gotta keep her warmed up. Today would have been the day to simply call her on the phone because she kept telling me to call (as opposed to texting). I simply didnt have time today and I don't know when I will.

So guys how about your opinions? She is an HB9 Valkyrie class and she was coked up a bit, which sort of made it all the more surprising that I was getting all these IOI's from her as cocaine usually makes girls arrogant.

 

[sazc]

you already told her "tell me when you have the time" now wait till she tells you. and while you are waiting, pursue other females. if you send her another text you are going to start to look a little desperate.

 

[dustmuffin]

Don't send her those texts. You have already put her on a pedistal. Quit kissing her a ss. Wait a week and ask her out in a normal way. Hey I'm going to xwz on Thursday you should come.

 

[Reykhel]

Surely he's being facetious with those texts.....

Although it appears she didn't take it that way with the over complimenting. You'll get away with that talk
if you're better looking than she is (and supremely confident).....if you've value is clearly higher than hers then you can talk like that almost saying "we both know I'm better
looking than you, but by lavishing you with these comments I'm almost bringing you up to my physical status and there we can both
bask as two accomplices to the lie. Let's fvck"

However, if you're not as good looking as she is, or if she's on the fence about you/your value then the flattery may briefly work in the short
term as it mixes with the alcohol and givers her a rush and an ego boost. But she will quickly come to her senses (or her friend will snap her
out of her temporary stupor ) and she will realize that you were of lower value. She can't respect lower value grovelers.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Stop texting, now.

Ask her out. Texting is never "clever" or smooth.

 

[lizardking82]

You told her she's a valkyrie, then you told her to let you know when she has time. I know it may sound like something simple to do, but the fact you are in doubt and posting about this makes you understand this **** can mess up with your head. Dude, relax. You did your part. She likes you to a certain point. Let her come to you know. IF she wants, she will. Right now, what you try to do is try to look at this as a done deal. Learn to enjoy the process and not be all that attached to whether you will actually **** her or not. This ruins it for a lot of men, they badly wanna **** her and get anxious and whatever chance there is, they **** it up with texts like the one you are about to send. Don't send it for your own good.

 

[Chamber36]

Yeah its just a bit tough considering her ass and her beauty.

Hard not to send her a message...

 

[lizardking82]

Yeah its just a bit tough considering her ass and her beauty.

Hard not to send her a message...

You're a Master Don Juan, dude. Her ass? You will find a better ass in two weeks. Let it go and you will actually stand a chance of her asking herself "why did he stop kissing my ass? Does he want my ass? If so, why isn't he inquiring about it? Let's see what's goin' on here" and she will release a sweet bait towards you. Your lack of accessability makes your presence more valuable to her.

 

[wifehunter]

Walk away. Work on yourself.

 

[Skyline]

Sexual texts are so risky. You send too much and you come off as desperate with no options. You don't send any and she could have second thoughts.

The only way you can do sexual texts is if you ease into it. If she reciprocates, then you have found a gem. Those texts are just off the bat sexual. That is a big no. You have to start out with light flirting.

I would wait.

It's clear to me that you don't know how to do it so I would ease off and save the escalation and flirting for in person. Practice sexual texting on a girl that you don't care about.

 

[Chamber36]

What do you mean clear that I dont know how to text sexually?

If my gut tells me to send her a text I find it really difficult not to text at all though tbh. Yesterday would also have been a great time to call though, but there was no time. I'll have to try another time this week I think.

Also don't understand why would anyone advise to wait a week before calling.

 

[Glassguy]

What do you mean clear that I dont know how to text sexually?

If my gut tells me to send her a text I find it really difficult not to text at all though tbh. Yesterday would also have been a great time to call though, but there was no time. I'll have to try another time this week I think.

Also don't understand why would anyone advise to wait a week before calling.

You're problem is you dont have anyone else to spin. All of your eggs are in this one basket and that is not a good thing.

You have told her that you're interested. If you send ANYTHING else, wait a week and ask her out. Nothing more.

Do not send those beta pvssy text messages and take this chick off the d@mn pedestal. You're acting desperate because you are desperate.

Go find more chicks and spin plates.

 

[dude99]

Met her on thursday. Told her she looked like a valkyrie. She said that was the best compliment she'd gotten all day. She invited me for a cigarette outside. I followed and she approached me. Told her I wouldn't know what to do with a girl like her. She said: "I don't believe that". I said: "Actually I would". She laughed. She said: "Let's talk about what you could do with me inside". I tell her: "How about a sample?", and we make out.

Inside I offer her a short of Jaeger, and we chat for a while. I ask her if she goes to the gym, feel up her ass and tell her it's supernatural. She laughs. I get her number in front of her lesbian lover who was getting jealous. I tell her its a disgrace I have to stay until closing time. Upon talking to her later I tell her I'll ask my boss if I can leave early. I approach her later and give her the confirmation. She says: "gimme 2 minutes". While I'm cleaning up I see her friend lose patience and basically drag her out. I go in the doorway and she mouths to me: "Sorry". I go back inside. She comes in later under the guise of asking for a biking helmet. Then says sorry again. I tell her I'll text her and she gives me another kiss on the lips.

So the next day I text her: "I could have eaten you up yesterday". She responds with a kiss smiley. Few hours later I say: "I would like to enjoy your presence tomorrow night". She says she has to work. I tell her "Then you have to tell me when you have time beautiful".

So now it's been 2 days since I sent that text. I don't expect her to send me something now. I woke up this afternoon thinking of senidng her: "In all my days I've never met a hottie like you".

Then maybe sending: "If you were to grace me with your aura I would be honored".

Third text I came up with: "And if you were to sit on my face causing me to suffocate I would die a happy man".

Now I'm feeling quite anxious because I feel like I gotta keep her warmed up. Today would have been the day to simply call her on the phone because she kept telling me to call (as opposed to texting). I simply didnt have time today and I don't know when I will.

So guys how about your opinions? She is an HB9 Valkyrie class and she was coked up a bit, which sort of made it all the more surprising that I was getting all these IOI's from her as cocaine usually makes girls arrogant.

You are already smothering her and you haven't even had a date yet. Too thirsty. She is going to start avoiding you is she hasn't already

 

[AlphaNate]

Jesus, this thread lost me at the ****ing title.

 

[lizardking82]

Jesus, this thread lost me at the ****ing title.

 

[Chamber36]

How is flattery suddenly not a valid form of game anymore?

Everybody just has to be a giant douchebag now in order to fvck women?

Some women respond to flattery, some don't. I never flattered my ex about her looks, because she didn't consider herself worthy of that type of praise. Therefore I didn't waste it on her.

Other women I do consider worthy of praise. And so I praise them. Why not tell them what I want to tell them.

I don't see how that makes a man beta.

Game is complicated and I admit that I have trouble with text-game, but really if a girl deserves it you can never go wrong with compliments or flattery.

 

[lizardking82]

How is flattery suddenly not a valid form of game anymore?

Everybody just has to be a giant douchebag now in order to fvck women?

Some women respond to flattery, some don't. I never flattered my ex about her looks, because she didn't consider herself worthy of that type of praise. Therefore I didn't waste it on her.

Other women I do consider worthy of praise. And so I praise them. Why not tell them what I want to tell them.

I don't see how that makes a man beta.

Game is complicated and I admit that I have trouble with text-game, but really if a girl deserves it you can never go wrong with compliments or flattery.

Nope. You are just trynna find reasons why you should send her that text message. Your fear of losing her as an option is driving you and possibly the lack of other options OR as good/better options than her in your life, too. Dude, flattery is something you do when you get reciprocation from the other side. Noone is saying don't flatter her, just don't do ANYTHING anymore FOR NOW. Anymore flattering her ass and she'll go into "I got him" thinking mode and you don't want that. Women are bad power managers LOL

 

[Chamber36]

Yes thats true.

I don't want her to be in "I'm better than him" mode. Thing is though, she was responsive to flattery, it's basically all she has responded to so far. Even the last text "I could have eaten you up", she responded to.

Problem is I am losing momentum now. Like I said, it would have been nice to call her last monday, sadly though I didn't have time. I suppose it is good I didn't send those texts though.

Just a real dilemma. I'll have to consider that she might have just been using me to make her girlfriend jealous or that she might really be busy.

I told her to tell me when she's free though, so it's just quite agonizing waiting like this. I do feel better about it though than if I had asked: "When are you free?", and then been ignored.

Making a statement: "Then you have to tell me when you're free" is more of a blatant observation than a question, so doesn't necessarily require a response. Eating myself up on the inside though. She was pretty nice. A lot of fun too.

I might feel better if I could just express myself and get it out of my system, lol.

 

[lizardking82]

Dude, she is not better than you. She got a piece of ass and a cute face. Basically, that's all most women got anyways. "Then you have to tell me when you're free" means "I wanna **** you so hard your brains fall in the floor, so tell me when we can do that" and she gets that 100%. She gets it, man, she knows you're after her *****. Stand back, have a beer and go compliment some other chick that could actually respond better

 

[Chamber36]

Dude, she is not better than you. She got a piece of ass and a cute face. Basically, that's all most women got anyways. "Then you have to tell me when you're free" means "I wanna **** you so hard your brains fall in the floor, so tell me when we can do that" and she gets that 100%. She gets it, man, she knows you're after her *****. Stand back, have a beer and go compliment some other chick that could actually respond better

That's true. I could find one of those within a week. Just have to stay well rested and looking fresh then that will be sorted out. I meet a chick or 2 almost every weekend. This one was just hotter than the rest and would have been an easier lay than the rest. Only problem was the jealous lesbian girlfriend lol. That's why I'm like this.