Overachieving and Perfectionist

youngprodigy

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Before I bring up what I'd like to discuss, I think it's important for me to give some background information about myself.
P.S: Long stime viewer, just decided to make an account.

Me: (don't intend on sounding like a douche, just not gonna beat around the bush)
19 y/o currently. Above average when it comes to physically attractiveness (Lean and muscular physique, strong facial features, 6"0 height, full stubble beard, full head of thin brown hair). I'm currently attending post-secondary education at a university and my parents bought me a sports car since I decided to stay local (upper-middle class family). I was pretty popular during middle school although I never really had a main set of friends. I was pretty awkward and beta to the max because I was so concerned of what other people thought of me. I still somehow managed to get the attention of girls, at this point they sorta had to throw themselves at me. I kinda developed a rep of being a "player" but I barely even had game back then. I started experimenting with drugs early but never got addicted other than to weed (social smoker). Most of my guy friends are stoners. Around my senior year is when I started turning my life around. I started working out, working on my social skills and just got obsessed with self-improvement. I'm doing pre-medical in university in hopes of becoming a family doctor (my grades are looking pretty promising currently), I have a part-time job and I'm also highly passionate about body building and cars. Then recently I stumbled upon TRP. I'm more humble about my privileges, and realize not everyone is as fortunate. Thus, I've decided to use my resources to improve myself further and eventually create an empire through my own blood, sweat and tears. I stopped giving women the spotlight in my life (used to be obsessed with them), and don't really care if they're with me or not. I ended a year and a half long relationship with a girl who turned out to be a BDP type of girl, she was really toxic and was turning me super beta. Now I casually spin plates without much effort and see girls as entertainment and pleasure. I lost the bitterness that I had towards them. Now they're literally obsessed with me.

The discussion:
Now this is where my question comes in. I noticed that the more I improve myself, I receive more attention from girls of higher quality (8-10's) considering looks, personality, status and etc. On the other hand, I receive negative reactions from my guy "friends." While I was more submissive and beta, I was more "accepted" and now it's like you can feel the bad vibes, jealousy (didn't want to use this word), and I'm just perceived to be more of a ****ty person. Is this normal or is there something that I might be doing thats causing this to happen. I never flaunt my aspects, never even bring them up while I'm around. Guys that know me know me for my success with the ladies and always ask me how I do it; sort of became a naturalist with the females at this point.

Thanks for the read.
 

old_skoolr

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First off, thanks for posting, refreshing to read someone who is still a teenager, yet smart enough to know what he has, and what he wants to do in life. Its also nice to see your understanding women quickly, and learning the lesson that alot of guys older then you took years to realise.

In regards to your question, your friends sound like a bunch of White knights. It could also mean your outgrowing them. I think you hit the nail on the head with the jealousy thing. Alot of males nowadays have female tendencies, this could be because of your city, being from Melbourne, Australia myself, I always viewed Toronto and Canada in general a very progressive and PC influenced place, more radical feminists, more beta males etc

My advice to you, is that your at the crossroads with your "friends". You can either try and teach them the red pill and see how they take it, or you just stop hanging with them and try and find people like you, who you can relate to. Up to you really.
 

devilkingx2

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Now this is where my question comes in. I noticed that the more I improve myself, I receive more attention from girls of higher quality (8-10's) considering looks, personality, status and etc. On the other hand, I receive negative reactions from my guy "friends." While I was more submissive and beta, I was more "accepted" and now it's like you can feel the bad vibes, jealousy (didn't want to use this word), and I'm just perceived to be more of a ****ty person. Is this normal or is there something that I might be doing thats causing this to happen. I never flaunt my aspects, never even bring them up while I'm around. Guys that know me know me for my success with the ladies and always ask me how I do it; sort of became a naturalist with the females at this point.
you've got **** friends who either hung out with you to make themselves feel better or they're loser betas that are now jealous of your success instead of being happy for you.

your options are to compartmentalize and only hang out with them when girls aren't around and won't come up as a topic, try to teach them how to do better with women so they don't get jealous anymore, or find new friends who are cool
 
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