ONS with hotty weird texts afterwards

[QuadDeuces]

OK waited a day and sent a text asking if she would be interested in a second date to get to know eachother, she read it 1.5h ago but no response. Ouch.
Guess that's gonna be a No.

I think I should have gone ghost to keep ultimate frame and not go beta.

 

[devilkingx2]

OK waited a day and sent a text asking if she would be interested in a second date to get to know eachother, she read it 1.5h ago but no response. Ouch.
Guess that's gonna be a No.

I think I should have gone ghost to keep ultimate frame and not go beta.

maybe she was just interested in an ONS? maybe she just didn't get to messaging you yet because she's busy or overthinking it

in any case, delete her number so you don't spend any more time thinking about this and move on, if you ever hear from her again bang her again lol

 

[devilkingx2]

Anyway upon arrival home I wanted to show my buddy her pics then I realised she unmatched me at tinder.
I thought, well f*ck it, don't cry over spilt milk, she was probably using me to get back at an ex or something.

I didn't text her all day and at 5pm she sent me an angry text, How I treat women bad, and guys like me is the reason she doesn't want to do ONS anymore.

I sent her, I don't understand what do you mean?

She said: I loved it yesterday but this morning you were extremely selfish, I felt like I was used as a blow up doll this has made me feel werid and turned off.

sounds like she was just salty you didn't text her fast enough and jumped to some conclusions

 

[QuadDeuces]

sounds like she was just salty you didn't text her fast enough and jumped to some conclusions

Well I normally text relatively soon after a ONS/Hook up. But since this chick was in the upper range of attractiveness and I thought she is probably used to receiving love letters and flowers 5 minutes after every guy she fvcks.

Anyway next.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Banged a super hotty last night, hb9, perfect body, perfect face, single and in the field for a while.
I didn't ask the questions I didn't want to know the answers of but she gave me impressions she has been single for a over a year and loving it.
Lots of ****tests, lots of men hitting on her in the bar we went.

She took me home at 2am, and sex was surprisingly good. She busted 3 I busted 2 fwiw.

This morning I woke up horny as **** next to her, I ripped out a condom and banged her again whilst she was half asleep.
She loved it.

Well done mate. Le'ts dissect.

Didn't want to linger longer than my expiry date so I hit the shower, kissed her lips and asked her do I see you again, she said yes with a smile and I hit the door at 10am.

It's needy af to ask a woman if you will see her again. Of course you will (in your mind). You already weakened your standing here.

Anyway upon arrival home I wanted to show my buddy her pics then I realised she unmatched me at tinder.
I thought, well f*ck it, don't cry over spilt milk, she was probably using me to get back at an ex or something.

Gentlemen don't kiss and tell. You ****ed a stranger on the first night and now you're pedestalizing her looks. Not good.

I didn't text her all day and at 5pm she sent me an angry text, How I treat women bad, and guys like me is the reason she doesn't want to do ONS anymore.

I sent her, I don't understand what do you mean?

She said: I loved it yesterday but this morning you were extremely selfish, I felt like I was used as a blow up doll this has made me feel werid and turned off.

I sent her: I'm disappointed to hear you didn't think it was a success.

Now 3h later she sends me: It doesn't matter anymore XXX

This was a test and you failed. The correct response is that you had a nice time and will talk to her soon, ghost, then ask her out in a few days. Always fall back to this. Instead you're already into her frame about sharing feelings and sappy ****. You're out already, pal. You blew it.

I would wait a week and ask her out. It's always the default plan. You have to get comfortable with the idea that you may have already blown this or she's just crazy.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Anyway next.

Winner winner chicken dinner.

 

[devilkingx2]

Gentlemen don't kiss and tell.

lmao. bros talk about girls, not kissing and telling is something you tell girls.

 

[EyeBRollin]

lmao. bros talk about girls, not kissing and telling is something you tell girls.

Bros also want to bang your girl behind your back. Call me paranoid.

 

[devilkingx2]

Bros also want to bang your girl behind your back. Call me paranoid.

you need a new set of bros, your bros should be people who always have your back

 

[ubercat]

Funny I ve had it go the other way on a ONS few times. Chicks cuddled up to me like a limpet all night long then gone weird the next day like I was following her around. Which I guess I'd wot she s telling herself. I don't think there is a perfect follow up play. It just depends on which particular itch they were trying to scratch.

 

[QuadDeuces]

LOL.
I blew it indeed.

Received a semi formal text back at 11pm.
"Sweet 'Quaddeuces' I'm sorry but I don't think we match afterall and I would hereby leave it like this and not proceed it any further, with kindest regard, hb9"

Sent back:
No problem bye

Deleted number.
Like I said, next.

 

[The Duke]

Lets assume the OP didn't give off any vibe that all he wanted to do was use her once and be done with her. I'm not seeing where this was the case. And lets not forget this is 2017, where women use men for sechs as well.

Most of the times when I've been in similar situations and had a girl get hateful the day after its all about buyers remorse. Reality has now set in, they are in a less sechsual stable emotional state, and they are regretting their actions. And what do the majority of females and society do?????......BLAME THE MAN. ITS ALWAYS HIS FAULT. This is how weak people feel better about themselves(men included).

And don't forget that this girl willingly hopped into bed knowing full well how things could end up. If she didn't want to take that risk, then she should have fuhked her vibrator instead. ;-) Stop putting all the blame on the guy.

As long as you did nothing wrong, I wouldn't be surprised if she doesn't call you up in a week wanting to see you. That's how you will know for sure she is effin nutz! I've had it happen.

 

[Sho-No-Luv]

LOL.
I blew it indeed.

Received a semi formal text back at 11pm.
"Sweet 'Quaddeuces' I'm sorry but I don't think we match afterall and I would hereby leave it like this and not proceed it any further, with kindest regard, hb9"

Sent back:
No problem bye

Deleted number.
Like I said, next.

You did NOT fuuck her right. She did NOT cvm!

 

[QuadDeuces]

You did NOT fuuck her right. She did NOT cvm!

Worrying about whether your d game is good enough to make a girl come or not is a beta trait.
I'd rather have a woman in a state of mind that she's worried if I didn't cvm than the other way around.

I actually had a fvckbuddy tell me this. She loved to cvm dont get me wrong but she told me she feels truly attractive and fulfilled when I came. But she knew I had 2 other women during that time too so she was on her toes because of competition.

In monogamous LTRs women get more selfish.

But regarding this ONS it could definately be she faked it 2/3 times and went back to her main guy, we'll never know, we'll never care.