Pursuing girls you don't like at all

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So there's a girl I want to ****. She's probably a 7, but she's "my type," so to me her looks are higher than a 7.

Problem? Can't stand her. She's literally said to me that she's perfect. Red flag, I know. I won't go into all the other personality traits of hers that are awful.

Do I even bother with this? What would you guys do?
 

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There was once a girl that would hang around with me and my buddies (she was my friend's cousin), and her and I did not get along at all. Cheap shot comments all the time to each other. Hated this girl. Then we fvcked. And fought during the sex. Literally arguing throughout the whole thing. This happened about 5 times over a month long period. That was literally it.

It was worth it for the hilarious story of how we would fight, but that's about it. I wouldn't put much effort into it, but why not if it falls in your lap.
 

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Good story. I can imagine the sex with this chick would be angry lol
 

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So there's a girl I want to ****. She's probably a 7, but she's "my type," so to me her looks are higher than a 7.

Problem? Can't stand her. She's literally said to me that she's perfect. Red flag, I know. I won't go into all the other personality traits of hers that are awful.

Do I even bother with this? What would you guys do?
Only a loser would pursue a woman he doesn't like. It's dishonest to her and yourself and a sign of desperation. Shouldn't you have an abundance of women you DO like?
 

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Lol

"Women are just for sex. Ignore everything else." -SS

"You should only pursue women you like and care about." -SS
 

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Yes, women you care about are just for sex.

It's really bad karma to spend time with a woman you don't care about. That's the problem with finding a girl you love. Women you would previously have fallen in love with make you yawn.
 

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Worthless
 

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Lol

"Women are just for sex. Ignore everything else." -SS

"You should only pursue women you like and care about." -SS
sosuave isn't just one person. and the latter is terrible advice in general, whereas the former is only good advice if you're not looking for anything long term or serious
 

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Lol

"Women are just for sex. Ignore everything else." -SS

"You should only pursue women you like and care about." -SS
I agree with the first but not with the second. I don't like or care about every woman I date, but I do want to **** them. That is my main goal. You start liking and caring and that's when the trouble starts.
 

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So there's a girl I want to ****.

Problem? Can't stand her. She's literally said to me that she's perfect. Red flag, I know. I won't go into all the other personality traits of hers that are awful.

Do I even bother with this? What would you guys do?
Does... not... com....pute.
 

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Why not? You've never met a hot girl you wanted to **** even though she's a c*ntwaffle?
some people don't want to fvck girls whose personalities they don't like, they just go soft at the thought of it
 

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Does... not... com....pute.
yeah it seems weird to me too, depends on how your dating strategy works

if you're the kinda guy that never gets laid before date 4 and likes to pay for the dates, I can see why you wouldn't want to bother gaming someone with a nice body and a terrible personality lol.

or if you're looking for more than someone to bang once and forget about
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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yeah it seems weird to me too, depends on how your dating strategy works

if you're the kinda guy that never gets laid before date 4 and likes to pay for the dates, I can see why you wouldn't want to bother gaming someone with a nice body and a terrible personality lol.

or if you're looking for more than someone to bang once and forget about
Here's the thing. If you are only interested in the body then there will soon be a toy/ robot on the scene to take care of all your needs. Now envisage yourself with this fancy version of the blowup doll, and ask yourself whether anything be missing.
 

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So there's a girl I want to ****. She's probably a 7, but she's "my type," so to me her looks are higher than a 7.

Problem? Can't stand her. She's literally said to me that she's perfect. Red flag, I know. I won't go into all the other personality traits of hers that are awful.

Do I even bother with this? What would you guys do?
That's a tough one bro. Normally I would say go for it but if you can't stand her personality, even if she is attractive, I would move on.
 

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yes, there would be no audience for my jokes
Well, they are making inroads in the field of AI. You might never distinguish between pre-programed responses and real ones. Mind you, a lot of people might as well be robots today given the failure to think for oneself.

Yes, no humor, no love, and no appreciation of poetry.:rolleyes:

Phenomenal is the interface
Between crumbling land and crashing surf,
Where misty spray rises on sun-lit gleams
To coat the world in a border-like dream.
Here gannets on the up-draught glide and race
Out to sea and back to their nesting turf.
And here a painter on the harbor heads
Captures the scene which can hardly be said,
Where a bird appears like a psyche winged,
Plunging from black lava pock-marked cliffs
To catch the wind and the ecstatic lift,
To the marvel of spectators beneath.
 
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Mind you, a lot of people might as well be robots today given the failure to think for oneself.
agreed x1000, it's annoying when people try so hard to avoid thinking about stuff.

Phenomenal is the interface
Between crumbling land and crashing surf,
Where misty spray rises on sun-lit gleams
To coat the world in a border-like dream.
Here gannets on the up-draught glide and race
Out to sea and back to their nesting turf.
And here a painter on the harbor heads
Captures the scene which can hardly be said,
Where a bird appears like a psyche winged,
Plunging from pock-marked black lava cliffs
To catch the wind and the ecstatic lift,
To the marvel of spectators beneath.
try this one on for size(random poem I liked):

I was angry with my friend;
I told my wrath, my wrath did end.
I was angry with my foe:
I told it not, my wrath did grow.
And I water'd it in fears,
Night & morning with my tears:
And I sunned it with smiles,
And with soft deceitful wiles.
And it grew both day and night.
Till it bore an apple bright.
And my foe beheld it shine,
And he knew that it was mine.
And into my garden stole,
When the night had veil'd the pole;
In the morning glad I see;
My foe outstretched beneath the tree.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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