The Duke
Master Don Juan
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Recently I’ve had two exes try and wiggle their way back into my life and sit here just shaking my head at how they could do such a thing as both of them are in committed relationships.
Ex #1:
This one lived with me for almost 5yrs. She moved out when I refused to marry her over a year ago. She then went and found a replacement and moved in with him! Over the past 2months she has been sending me messages thru faKebook. I just keep it “surface” and am careful not to lead her on. Finally she told me that she screwed up leaving me, has huge regrets, and doesn’t think she will ever find a guy that makes her feel like I did, or has so much to offer. It was great hearing all this, but I was careful not to let it go to my head. Women will tell you all sorts of great stuff when they want something from you.
She asks if we can meet up and talk so she can get some closure. I agree to do so and it ended up being a 3hr conversation at a bar. I only agreed to meet to help her gain closure and put “us” behind her. I truly want nothing but happiness for her, but I can’ t go back to her. It would have been so easy to fuhk her that night and every time I looked at her big fake BOOBIES and nice little body I wanted to! Her body language painted a clear picture that she would have been down for whatever I wanted.
During the entire conversation I’m wondering where her current guy is whom she lives with. I try to get her to talk about him and she skirts my questions. I’m guessing the current guy was out of town. She did say that the new guy puts her on a pedestal and is always really nice to her, yet this doesn’t keep the tingles going! I never put her on a pedestal, cared less than she did about our relationship, and was at a times a di_k to her. New guy could stand to get in the gym as well so I have him beat in that category as well.
But what really bothers me the most is here is a woman that has a guy at home that takes good care of her and she is out trying to branch swing back to me. I’m sure she is giving this guy the cold shoulder, ***** attitude, closed off, and probably little sechs. Meanwhile this guy is wondering what the hell he did wrong.
Ex #2:
I was married to this one and she is now remarried. She has always hoped I would get back with her but that will never happen. We have a relationship where we rarely talk to each other, but if the other needed something serious we would both be there for each other. Well she had an alcohol induced fight at a bar with her husband. So she gets in her car and starts driving towards my house 45minutes away. About half way to my house she calls me in tears. I can’t even understand her. I assumed she was trying to tell me her dad died and she asked if she could come to my house so I agreed.
Once she gets to my place I realized her dad didn’t die and she was here because she got into it with her husband. Meanwhile he is blowing up her phone for 2hrs non stop and has no clue where she is at. Basically the problem boiled down to her husband being beta and a *****. She has the wrong guy. She isn’t happy in her marriage and resentment is setting in. Another key note here is they have 3somes(M-F-M). She isn’t into it as much as he is and that is starting to become an issue. What kind of guy wants to see his wife get railed by another cahk????? Yeah she married a faggot.
I sent her home and told her she needed to work on her marriage. But once again, here is an emotional woman running back to the man she values hoping she could rekindle something with me.
It took me a lot of years to truly believe that even “good” women are fully capable of this type of behavior and do so often. FaKebook and text messages make it so easy to keep the connection with multiple men going. Had I been a lesser person I would have fuhked both of these girls. I’ve also been that guy who did take advantage of the situation by fuhking a married woman who was having issues with her beta husband.
I share this to hopefully enlighten some of those who aren’t aware that things like this happen, and even good girls do this. I also want to reiterate how important it is to act like a man in a relationship. Keep your emotions in check, don’t put her on a pedestal, care less about the relationship than they do, always practice some form of push/pull, be a challenge, be a di_k to them at times. Every time I wasn’t this way, I failed. I see it with every other male as well.
Ex #1:
This one lived with me for almost 5yrs. She moved out when I refused to marry her over a year ago. She then went and found a replacement and moved in with him! Over the past 2months she has been sending me messages thru faKebook. I just keep it “surface” and am careful not to lead her on. Finally she told me that she screwed up leaving me, has huge regrets, and doesn’t think she will ever find a guy that makes her feel like I did, or has so much to offer. It was great hearing all this, but I was careful not to let it go to my head. Women will tell you all sorts of great stuff when they want something from you.
She asks if we can meet up and talk so she can get some closure. I agree to do so and it ended up being a 3hr conversation at a bar. I only agreed to meet to help her gain closure and put “us” behind her. I truly want nothing but happiness for her, but I can’ t go back to her. It would have been so easy to fuhk her that night and every time I looked at her big fake BOOBIES and nice little body I wanted to! Her body language painted a clear picture that she would have been down for whatever I wanted.
During the entire conversation I’m wondering where her current guy is whom she lives with. I try to get her to talk about him and she skirts my questions. I’m guessing the current guy was out of town. She did say that the new guy puts her on a pedestal and is always really nice to her, yet this doesn’t keep the tingles going! I never put her on a pedestal, cared less than she did about our relationship, and was at a times a di_k to her. New guy could stand to get in the gym as well so I have him beat in that category as well.
But what really bothers me the most is here is a woman that has a guy at home that takes good care of her and she is out trying to branch swing back to me. I’m sure she is giving this guy the cold shoulder, ***** attitude, closed off, and probably little sechs. Meanwhile this guy is wondering what the hell he did wrong.
Ex #2:
I was married to this one and she is now remarried. She has always hoped I would get back with her but that will never happen. We have a relationship where we rarely talk to each other, but if the other needed something serious we would both be there for each other. Well she had an alcohol induced fight at a bar with her husband. So she gets in her car and starts driving towards my house 45minutes away. About half way to my house she calls me in tears. I can’t even understand her. I assumed she was trying to tell me her dad died and she asked if she could come to my house so I agreed.
Once she gets to my place I realized her dad didn’t die and she was here because she got into it with her husband. Meanwhile he is blowing up her phone for 2hrs non stop and has no clue where she is at. Basically the problem boiled down to her husband being beta and a *****. She has the wrong guy. She isn’t happy in her marriage and resentment is setting in. Another key note here is they have 3somes(M-F-M). She isn’t into it as much as he is and that is starting to become an issue. What kind of guy wants to see his wife get railed by another cahk????? Yeah she married a faggot.
I sent her home and told her she needed to work on her marriage. But once again, here is an emotional woman running back to the man she values hoping she could rekindle something with me.
It took me a lot of years to truly believe that even “good” women are fully capable of this type of behavior and do so often. FaKebook and text messages make it so easy to keep the connection with multiple men going. Had I been a lesser person I would have fuhked both of these girls. I’ve also been that guy who did take advantage of the situation by fuhking a married woman who was having issues with her beta husband.
I share this to hopefully enlighten some of those who aren’t aware that things like this happen, and even good girls do this. I also want to reiterate how important it is to act like a man in a relationship. Keep your emotions in check, don’t put her on a pedestal, care less about the relationship than they do, always practice some form of push/pull, be a challenge, be a di_k to them at times. Every time I wasn’t this way, I failed. I see it with every other male as well.