Listen_to_Olly
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For most guys on here, getting hot girls is something they would love to do. I’ve noticed that a lot of you on here have false beliefs about getting hot girls and the media might have played a role in that as well. It’s tricky, on one hand it helps to have good looks, money, and even tight game but on the other hand, a lot of guys that get hot girls don’t have really have those things. This comes from my experience, what I have noticed among guys that get hot girls, and I feel that the true experts in this community will see that I am telling the truth.
There are high value guys and then there are guys that get hot girls, they aren’t always the same.
The CEO of some startup in Silicon Valley is high value, but he won’t necessarily get hot girls.
The guy on the corporate ladder who has a fancy job is high value, but he won’t necessary get hot girls.
Which is why when someone brings up how an intelligent engineer can get so many hot girls, I can’t help but laugh. On paper, the venture capitalist at Silicon Valley and the engineer with a six figure salary are high value guys. Add in decent looks and okay game, these guys might have some options with women but they won’t get hot girls.
For some odd reason though, some bartender or bouncer at a nightclub gets hot girls. The model photographer gets hot girls.
In regards to pay and prestige of profession, this doesn’t hold a candle to being an investment banker or venture capitalist but these guys are still doing better with women. Why is this the situation?
Because these guys have value in an area that hot girls value.
Hot girls don’t value coding, how smart you are, they don’t even care about who’s doing what at Silicon Valley, they couldn’t tell you what a venture capitalist does, they don’t know **** about Wall Street, and they don’t know **** about engineering in most cases. Most hot girls only slightly care about that stuff once they are getting older and seeing their value diminish but in that case they are looking for a marriage.
Hot girls do value partying, getting wasted, consuming alcohol, taking selfies at a club, and most of all; the games that revolve around social status. There is a reason why at a lot of universities, at least in America, most of the good looking girls tend to be in sororities. Who has value in Greek Life? The guy who is in a well respected house and has some degree of social respect there or the sports star on campus, that is the guy who has slept with the hottest sorority sisters.
Now what can determine this? It’s easy, location and the culture of a place.
Put a fraternity brother in an upscale area of NYC and I am sure @bigneil will have a field day with him and get hotter girls than him. Put that same fraternity brother in his college town where he can ride his Greek Life status, he has the advantage there.
What hot girls value somewhat varies based on where you are, your job if you want to get hot girls is to have some degree in status in things they value but the good thing is that it can vary, it's up to you to decide.
Working in nightlife is generally a sure fire way to get hot girls in most cases because most hot girls from 18-23 value getting drunk and having that sort of fun.
But the truth about guys who get hot girls is they realized this and capitalized on it. These guys rushed fraternities, got those bartending gigs, maybe played in a band, got into photographing models, or did whatever they could to put themselves in a situation to appeal to hot girls. They might not have had the top tier looks or even top tier game but this is how they managed to get hot girls.
Think it’s too much and makes you a try hard for doing it?
Think you’re too cool or alpha to waste time with any of that? Fine, have fun sitting all by yourself on a Saturday night reading novels as you meditate and think about the meaning of life while one of these guys is sleeping with a hot girl.
We keep lying to ourselves by trying to “learn game”, work out, and better our lives yet tell ourselves that only losers build the lifestyle to attract women. My take is, you’re on a dating and game forum asking for advice on how to get better with women or even discussing it, if your goal isn’t to get hot girls then why not spend the time you would spend posting here to do math problems instead?
I say that actually putting yourself in a position to get hot girls is more admirable than trying to act like you're too alpha for that stuff yet discussing in-depth psychology of women on a game forum.
There are high value guys and then there are guys that get hot girls, they aren’t always the same.
The CEO of some startup in Silicon Valley is high value, but he won’t necessarily get hot girls.
The guy on the corporate ladder who has a fancy job is high value, but he won’t necessary get hot girls.
Which is why when someone brings up how an intelligent engineer can get so many hot girls, I can’t help but laugh. On paper, the venture capitalist at Silicon Valley and the engineer with a six figure salary are high value guys. Add in decent looks and okay game, these guys might have some options with women but they won’t get hot girls.
For some odd reason though, some bartender or bouncer at a nightclub gets hot girls. The model photographer gets hot girls.
In regards to pay and prestige of profession, this doesn’t hold a candle to being an investment banker or venture capitalist but these guys are still doing better with women. Why is this the situation?
Because these guys have value in an area that hot girls value.
Hot girls don’t value coding, how smart you are, they don’t even care about who’s doing what at Silicon Valley, they couldn’t tell you what a venture capitalist does, they don’t know **** about Wall Street, and they don’t know **** about engineering in most cases. Most hot girls only slightly care about that stuff once they are getting older and seeing their value diminish but in that case they are looking for a marriage.
Hot girls do value partying, getting wasted, consuming alcohol, taking selfies at a club, and most of all; the games that revolve around social status. There is a reason why at a lot of universities, at least in America, most of the good looking girls tend to be in sororities. Who has value in Greek Life? The guy who is in a well respected house and has some degree of social respect there or the sports star on campus, that is the guy who has slept with the hottest sorority sisters.
Now what can determine this? It’s easy, location and the culture of a place.
Put a fraternity brother in an upscale area of NYC and I am sure @bigneil will have a field day with him and get hotter girls than him. Put that same fraternity brother in his college town where he can ride his Greek Life status, he has the advantage there.
What hot girls value somewhat varies based on where you are, your job if you want to get hot girls is to have some degree in status in things they value but the good thing is that it can vary, it's up to you to decide.
Working in nightlife is generally a sure fire way to get hot girls in most cases because most hot girls from 18-23 value getting drunk and having that sort of fun.
But the truth about guys who get hot girls is they realized this and capitalized on it. These guys rushed fraternities, got those bartending gigs, maybe played in a band, got into photographing models, or did whatever they could to put themselves in a situation to appeal to hot girls. They might not have had the top tier looks or even top tier game but this is how they managed to get hot girls.
Think it’s too much and makes you a try hard for doing it?
Think you’re too cool or alpha to waste time with any of that? Fine, have fun sitting all by yourself on a Saturday night reading novels as you meditate and think about the meaning of life while one of these guys is sleeping with a hot girl.
We keep lying to ourselves by trying to “learn game”, work out, and better our lives yet tell ourselves that only losers build the lifestyle to attract women. My take is, you’re on a dating and game forum asking for advice on how to get better with women or even discussing it, if your goal isn’t to get hot girls then why not spend the time you would spend posting here to do math problems instead?
I say that actually putting yourself in a position to get hot girls is more admirable than trying to act like you're too alpha for that stuff yet discussing in-depth psychology of women on a game forum.
