Not finishing early. Good or bad?

[NSX-R]

So guys i would like your knowledge about this.
Is it good to finish late when you have sex? Personally i can hold it for as long as i want (hours long)without losing hardness and i used to ejakulate when i wanted but with different chicks i have different results.

For example, there was this fantastic blonde bomb with amazing body and fake tits in her mid 30s where i could come every time i wanted like a pornostar.
And then there was this really hot 20 year old one with amazing experience and i couldn't come even if i wanted.

The thing is that the pleasure is always there even if i come or not but i was wondering if there is any other issue. Another thing is that some women i have fcked found this frustrating because they thought i wasn't turned on by them .

 

[Mike32ct]

It's not much of a problem for the guy. Sex can be still be great even if YOU don't finish.

It's only a bit of an issue for HER. If it's just a ONS, it doesn't matter if you F until exhaustion and never come. But if she is a regular plate or gf, she WILL want you to "finish."

 

[asid12345678]

I guess it depends on the girl. Last 2 girls I've been with both "begged" me to stop and insisted I ***. First one, ONS, went on for about 8 hours on and off. So I understand

Second one is an FWB and we only went on for about 20 mins before she told me to stop.

So yeah I guess it depends

 

[fastlife]

Same deal for me. I had one girl who I couldn't last with indefinitely (maybe like 20 minutes tops the first round)--and she wasn't the hottest, the wettest, the tightest, the most technically proficient, or the one I had the most chemistry with--and that was cool, but had its drawbacks as well.

I've found that girls take pride in making you finish--and will work extra hard if you're not an easy finisher & withhold that little bit of validation. BUT they do eventually want that validation; it's never taken me more than a month with a plate so not sure how the dynamics would change beyond that--but most girls get an overwhelming sense of relief when they make you finish.

Some girls dry out & get uncomfortable if you have too much stamina; others are multi-orgasmic and insatiable and will absolutely wear you out--so it's just a matter of finding the one(s) whose sexually chemistry matches your own.

 

[NSX-R]

But what a dj should do ? Finish early or late?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

But what a dj should do ? Finish early or late?

Finish when you want.

 

[Roober]

make her bust a nut first, then you are in the clear.

When I used to have pre-ejac issues, I would pace things all over the place, or find the position I could last the longest. Additionally, when she gets close, change things up. Get her close and then move her away makes it that much more explosive when she does nut.

Women's bodies vary all over the place. I have found about 2 hours to be my magic number when a woman is done or not. I have realized if a woman nuts quickly and then just waits for me, we are not compatible. I need someone who can go with the flow, whether it be 30 mins or 4 hours.

My current plate "says" she has never been with someone like me that can go on for hours. My exgf was a one and done kind of girl, and it was usually quick, like 5 mins quick. Ugh, and I used to think she was good in the sack...

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I think a DJ should please his lady. He should have the reputation of "good d1ck". Thus as long as it takes. You don't have to take extraordinarily long, but you should have the ability if required. She should have an orgasm unless she chooses not to.

 

[NSX-R]

I think a DJ should please his lady. He should have the reputation of "good d1ck". Thus as long as it takes. You don't have to take extraordinarily long, but you should have the ability if required. She should have an orgasm unless she chooses not to.

This is what i also had in mind . When the woman i fck feels a lot of pleasure then i love it and turns me on even more.

Having increased stamina it's good but it can be also frustrating for yourself because you start to thing what is wrong with your D . That's the issue.

 

[sazc]

If you dont care about the chick then dont worry about her orgasm. I mean you will be seen as a chode in her eyes, but, if you dont care about her, you wont care what she thinks either.
If you want her experience to be good then get her to orgasm, then do whatever thing you want to do, and cvm when you want.

 

[Von]

What about performance issues? Say, sometimes you last 5min other times hours... same chicks.

Happens all the time... ive found its when I think during the ac about the act it can be short. But if I am in the moment or think about ice on my d while doing the act... act.. my performance gets longer

How you stabilize and increase your durability?

 

[Juanto]

What about performance issues? Say, sometimes you last 5min other times hours... same chicks.

Happens all the time... ive found its when I think during the ac about the act it can be short. But if I am in the moment or think about ice on my d while doing the act... act.. my performance gets longer

How you stabilize and increase your durability?

I get the same as you