Tenacity Is Opting Out Of V-Day 2017

[Tenacity]

So I have the following:

- 2 plates that I have setup stuff for V-Day

- 2 plates that were back-ups, but haven't "officially" confirmed

- 2 additional plates that I could have set something up, but they weren't the top priorities

And guess what? I'm opting out this year . I just don't feel like doing the shyt this year man and none of the plates on the table really "excite" me enough. So yup, I'm flaking on them lol. Hell chicks flake all the time, why can't I do it?!

What about you guys? Have you been taking some plates out this weekend and are you going to on V-Day?

 

[bigneil]

So I have the following:

- 2 plates that I have setup stuff for V-Day

- 2 plates that were back-ups, but haven't "officially" confirmed

- 2 additional plates that I could have set something up, but they weren't the top priorities

And guess what? I'm opting out this year . I just don't feel like doing the shyt this year man and none of the plates on the table really "excite" me enough. So yup, I'm flaking on them lol. Hell chicks flake all the time, why can't I do it?!

What about you guys? Have you been taking some plates out this weekend and are you going to on V-Day?

I started another post today basically saying the same thing, but I'm going to give them enough credit (in lieu of my going MIA) to wash any slate they may have clean (in this case there are a handful of girls), so no baggage after V-day.

So do we shut our phones off right now and turn them on in 72 hours on 2/15?

In general I give little gifts here and there, but rarely for occasions such as birthdays, Christmas or Valentine's. It's feeling obligated that bugs me. Remember: this is how women feel when we give them gifts they don't want or deserve! They feel obligated and want to avoid us!

 

[Tenacity]

I started another post today basically saying the same thing, but I'm going to give them enough credit (in lieu of my going MIA) to wash any slate they may have clean (in this case there are a handful of girls), so no baggage after V-day.

So do we shut our phones off right now and turn them on in 72 hours on 2/15?

In general I give little gifts here and there, but rarely for occasions such as birthdays, Christmas or Valentine's. It's feeling obligated that bugs me.

I would usually just take a main plate out on V-Day to a restaurant, movie, and then do some sex shyt afterwards. Dude I don't even FEEL like fvcking none of these chicks lol.

Dude lately I've been going through the motions of just "meeting chicks", but it's just the lack of substance and lack of meaning with them that has me flaking lately. I've honestly been flaking all year, I haven't did any consistent dates since I was talking to that chick late last year. I just don't FEEL like it bro....

 

[bigneil]

Dude I don't even FEEL like fvcking none of these chicks lol.

By chance is your birthday more than 3 months away, and theirs also? That's generally when we don't feel attraction. People are most radiant on their birthday and least radiant on their half birthday. This is when we should hibernate.

I'm thinking of just copying a poem off the Internet and sending the same one to all my b*tches. Im sure they'll think it's sweet or whatever.

The hand-written letter in cursive, even if one sentence, sent snail mail, works wonders.

 

[Tenacity]

By chance is your birthday more than 3 months away, and theirs also? That's generally when we don't feel attraction. People are most radiant on their birthday and least radiant on their half birthday. This is when we should hibernate.

My birthday is in August.

 

[bigneil]

My birthday is in August.

Yes, that's what I figured. Your half birthday is in February, and must be around Valentine's day. My birthday is late July. Your girl's birthday is probably November or May.

 

[Killakittie]

I've been suffering from this myself. I have no interest in talking to woman and have very little interest in sleeping with them.

I'm assuming it's just a phase but I've never felt this way before. Woman just seem so cliche and shallow not to mention their self centered'nes and complete lack of empathy drives me away.

But this is due mostly because of my unplugging and the sobering realization of the level of **** i put myself through from my soon to be ex wife. I'm putting myself first and working on myself for awhile. Ex wife still hasn't completely gone away either.

 

[zekko]

As I've gotten older, I've become increasingly irritated by all the little holidays that are constantly coming around. I'm cool with celebrating birthdays, Thanksgiving, and Christmas. The rest they can get rid of altogether as far as I'm concerned.

Although Halloween and July 4th have some redeeming qualities

 

[9Volt]

So I have the following:

- 2 plates that I have setup stuff for V-Day

- 2 plates that were back-ups, but haven't "officially" confirmed

- 2 additional plates that I could have set something up, but they weren't the top priorities

And guess what? I'm opting out this year . I just don't feel like doing the shyt this year man and none of the plates on the table really "excite" me enough. So yup, I'm flaking on them lol. Hell chicks flake all the time, why can't I do it?!

What about you guys? Have you been taking some plates out this weekend and are you going to on V-Day?

meh. If I was seeing a chick at the moment I'd take her out for Valentine's day. Just some excuse for me to go out someplace. Same chit with friends. someone feels like taking a road trip I'm going because I want to.

If a chick likes valentine's day doesn't mean I'm going to hate it or hide because I don't hide on people's birthdays, christmas etc. and they don't do the same to me.

if you don't want to go out. don't.

 

[Skyline]

I actually like V-Day.

I'm really good at poetry, and writing in general, and women eat that stuff up. I'm surprised people actually pay for the crappy poems in Hallmark cards to be honest.

I usually don't spend anymore than a date, probably less actually.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I'm so lazy lately. I have three girls that come over once or twice a week, we fvck, and they leave. I don't even leave the house. Sometimes one of them will bring me food and cook it. Valentine's Day is for relationships. I'm done with relationships. I just want to have a lot of sex.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I have three girls that come over once or twice a week.

Funny thing, as soon as I posted that, I got texts from what I thought were two one-night stands. So make that five girls, not three. Maybe I have v-day to thank. The new 50 Shades movie is out, too.

 

[Urbanyst]

I have a few women I've seen casually right now. They my or may not be seeing other men.

My plan for Valentines day is to do nothing and see if any of them text me or call me. If they do, I will invite them over and maybe we can have sex or something.

F*ck Valentines day to be honest. Its really only about women and consumerism. Another corporate shakedown holiday where men are forced to spend unnecessary money. F*ck that sh*t. If it was more about men, I might like it more.

 

[BlueAlpha1]

At my job, a bunch of nerds were talking about this holiday and what they will be doing. This eventually morphed into what they spent on diamond rings for their women.

Guy One - A total computer nerd who doesn't understand why his fiance "blows up" at him. He spent $2,000 for his engagement ring, and will be spending another $3,000-5,000 on the wedding ring soon.

Guy Two - The manager, a wannabe thug from "New Yawk" (exaggerated accent and all) talked about how his first ring cost $15,000...and then he got divorced. Find out he has 7 kids by 5 different mothers. Calls himself a pimp because he had a lot of sex in his youth. I call him a slave, because his very respectable $71,000 is poverty wages in his situation and he can't leave. He will be stuck in this sh*tty industry the rest of his life, and he knows it. It's resulted in him complaining endlessly on the job, which is both unprofessional and annoying. Guy also never smiles and is always miserable. But hey, I'm sure he'll have a nice V-Day dinner with his chubby 2nd wife...

Guy Three - Asks me what I'm doing, and I tell him probably nothing because I refuse to spend money on women for this holiday. Asked him who the hell decided that men were supposed to commit to and cater to one women for life anyway? He tells me that's how the "creator" said it was supposed to be. This dude is on child support making $13 an hour working part-time.

Look at what believing in fairy tales has gotten the two blue pill schmucks (guys one and three) their whole lives. And the fake, chest thumping fake alpha (guy two) who never learned humility or personal responsibility has it worst of all.

 

[dustmuffin]

I will be going on a drinks date on valentines day. It's a first date. It's the only time I have free next week. I'm working out with my son 3 days and spending this weekend working on a house.

 

[bigneil]

At my job, a bunch of nerds were talking about this holiday and what they will be doing. This eventually morphed into what they spent on diamond rings for their women.

Guy One - A total computer nerd who doesn't understand why his fiance "blows up" at him. He spent $2,000 for his engagement ring, and will be spending another $3,000-5,000 on the wedding ring soon.

Guy Two - The manager, a wannabe thug from "New Yawk" (exaggerated accent and all) talked about how his first ring cost $15,000...and then he got divorced. Find out he has 7 kids by 5 different mothers. Calls himself a pimp because he had a lot of sex in his youth. I call him a slave, because his very respectable $71,000 is poverty wages in his situation and he can't leave. He will be stuck in this sh*tty industry the rest of his life, and he knows it. It's resulted in him complaining endlessly on the job, which is both unprofessional and annoying. Guy also never smiles and is always miserable. But hey, I'm sure he'll have a nice V-Day dinner with his chubby 2nd wife...

Guy Three - Asks me what I'm doing, and I tell him probably nothing because I refuse to spend money on women for this holiday. Asked him who the hell decided that men were supposed to commit to and cater to one women for life anyway? He tells me that's how the "creator" said it was supposed to be. This dude is on child support making $13 an hour working part-time.

Look at what believing in fairy tales has gotten the two blue pill schmucks (guys one and three) their whole lives. And the fake, chest thumping fake alpha (guy two) who never learned humility or personal responsibility has it worst of all.

Seeing that you told us Guy Two's annual and Guy Three's hourly income, how much does Guy Four (BlueAlpha) make per year? Is that related to his refusing to spend money? I am refusing also, for the record.

 

[zekko]

I am refusing also, for the record.

Really? All those strippers and Valentine's Day is where you draw the line? Lol. I am refusing too, for the record. Actually, that's not entirely true. My girl gets a card every year.

 

[MrAddiction]

By chance is your birthday more than 3 months away, and theirs also? That's generally when we don't feel attraction. People are most radiant on their birthday and least radiant on their half birthday. This is when we should hibernate.

Hey,

Wherefrom Do you get this? Honestly, my First thought was ok another magical girly alike thinking. But Second guessing: my Birthday is in January and all Girls I ever have been interested in - apart from one - had theirs birthday in Oct, Nov or Dec. So where did you get this from?

 

[bigneil]

Hey,

Where from Do you get this? Honestly, my First thought was ok another magical girly alike thinking. But Second guessing: my Birthday is in January and all Girls I ever have been interested in - apart from one - had theirs birthday in Oct, Nov or Dec. So where did you get this from?

Ever since 1985 I have been able to calculate what day of the week a given date is. My teachers in high school used to thumb through the calendar and pick a random day and ask me and I would always get it right.

So for years I would tell people what day they were born if they told me their birthday. Well fast forward to 2010 when suddenly everyone had smart phones. Starting around then, any time I told a (99% of the time female) person what day they were born they would then look it up on their phone and say "How did you know that??" So then they would almost always say "Tell me what day my boyfriend/husband/ex was born" and that was when I noticed that (the best) couples seem to normally be (often precisely) born 3 months apart. So then I realized my own relationships were always 3 months apart and I came up with a theory and every since relationship I've ever had falls into the pattern.

So now when a couple tells me their birthday I'll say things like "You guys started dating in September" - "How did you know??" and you broke up last January but got back together in March" - "Oh my God he is right..."

Then I happened to have a job interview with an Astrologist and he validated everything I said, and our charts looked strikingly similar! I had reinvented Astrology in a simpler form, just by memorizing dates. To me, my rediscovering it validates Astrology and vice versa.

I wrote an app for it this year, mainly to teach myself WebGL.

You can just put your birthday and her birthday in and see your best and worst days of the year. It's been remarkably accurate predicting my current relationship, in fact I predicted the exact day I would fall for her and the day she (will) fall for me (it happens on seasonal boundaries).

https://s3-us-west-2.amazonaws.com/juxtaposeweb/JuxtaposeA/Juxtapose.html

 

[MrAddiction]

Ever since 1985 I have been able to calculate what day of the week a given date is. My teachers in high school used to thumb through the calendar and pick a random day and ask me and I would always get it right.

So for years I would tell people what day they were born if they told me their birthday. Well fast forward to 2010 when suddenly everyone had smart phones. Starting around then, any time I told a (99% of the time female) person what day they were born they would then look it up on their phone and say "How did you know that??" So then they would almost always say "Tell me what day my boyfriend/husband/ex was born" and that was when I noticed that (the best) couples seem to normally be (often precisely) born 3 months apart. So then I realized my own relationships were always 3 months apart and I came up with a theory and every since relationship I've ever had falls into the pattern.

So now when a couple tells me their birthday I'll say things like "You guys started dating in September" - "How did you know??" and you broke up last January but got back together in March" - "Oh my God he is right..."

Then I happened to have a job interview with an Astrologist and he validated everything I said, and our charts looked strikingly similar! I had reinvented Astrology in a simpler form, just by memorizing dates. To me, my rediscovering it validates Astrology and vice versa.

I wrote an app for it this year, mainly to teach myself WebGL.

You can just put your birthday and her birthday in and see your best and worst days of the year. It's been remarkably accurate predicting my current relationship, in fact I predicted the exact day I would fall for her and the day she (will) fall for me (it happens on seasonal boundaries).

https://s3-us-west-2.amazonaws.com/juxtaposeweb/JuxtaposeA/Juxtapose.html

That is interesting.
But: WTF? Are you kidding me?
Accounting to me and my ex girlfriend: "The worst day for them to be together (or the midpoint of their half birthdays in the black region) is June 12"
That is nearly the exact date I ended my nearly 8year LTR! It was one day later.

"The best half of the year (surrounding the purple hand) for this couple is from September 11 to March 11"
That is about the Time our rebound relationship seemed to work. Do I have to mention the first time I ended the relationship was in july? - in so called wintertime.

I Do not believe in astrology - but that gets me thinking.