Is man who lives with girlfriend & nails her daughter @ age 18 a sexual predator?

[MatureDJ]

I was listening to this Tom Leykis segment with a caller who said that he has been living with his girlfriend ever since her oldest daughter was age 12 and then nailed her on her 18th birthday and is now is waiting for her younger daughter, currently age 15, to turn 18 to nail her too. Female callers are calling that guy a "sexual predator".

 

[Urbanyst]

No.

A sexual predator is a rapist. Unless you rape someone you are not a sexual predator.

 

[Billtx49]

Don't know about being a predator, but acting out because of his own selfish motives may qualify him as one.

In some states it could be incest because of affinity if they were married. Even though he and GF are not married, he has been living with her and kids for six years. Here again although most states do not have it, in some states they may be considered a common law couple if they were holding out as being married, or a family unit making the Incest via affinity arguement possible.

He is definitely lacking in common sense and decency at any rate.

 

[Alvafe]

Don't know about being a predator, but acting out because of his own selfish motives may qualify him as one.

In some states it could be incest because of affinity if they were married. Even though he and GF are not married, he has been living with her and kids for six years. Here again although most states do not have it, in some states they may be considered a common law couple if they were holding out as being married, or a family unit making the Incest via affinity arguement possible.

He is definitely lacking in common sense and decency at any rate.

or the girls really, ****ing they mom BF is kinda **** no?

but in teh end of the day you have 2 problems, first possible is a lie, and most likely if I dude could pull that out he would stay pretty quiet about it and keep going with a 18 Yo girl, if there is consend of the girl that is hardly his fault alone

 

[speed dawg]

I was listening to this Tom Leykis segment with a caller who said that he has been living with his girlfriend ever since her oldest daughter was age 12 and then nailed her on her 18th birthday and is now is waiting for her younger daughter, currently age 15, to turn 18 to nail her too. Female callers are calling that guy a "sexual predator".

Not a sexual predator, but definitely a weird f*cker who is best avoided, by all.

 

[sazc]

Good gawd, yes!
He's taking on a fatherly role with the intention of grooming these girls so that they allow him to fvck them as soon as he won't go to jail for it.
Child molestors GROOM their victims. Yes, he is a child molester. It's NOT that difficult and should not be defended because he is 'a guy'
Sh1t!

 

[Bible_Belt]

Yes, the actual felony charge is called "grooming." Talking to an underage girl with the intent to try and fvck her when she's legal is a felony, even if no sex acts ever actually happen. Merely the intent is the crime.

 

[Urbanyst]

Good gawd, yes!
He's taking on a fatherly role with the intention of grooming these girls so that they allow him to fvck them as soon as he won't go to jail for it.
Child molestors GROOM their victims. Yes, he is a child molester. It's NOT that difficult and should not be defended because he is 'a guy'
Sh1t!

Yes, the actual felony charge is called "grooming." Talking to an underage girl with the intent to try and fvck her when she's legal is a felony, even if no sex acts ever actually happen. Merely the intent is the crime.

I'm going to have to go ahead and disagree with both of these posts.

If your intent is to have sex with someone over 18. That is not being a predator.

The guy has no intent to have sex with an underage girl. He has intent to have sex with a girl that is 18 years old. Even if the law considers that a felony, it is still based on false logic.

 

[sazc]

I'm going to have to go ahead and disagree with both of these posts.

If your intent is to have sex with someone over 18. That is not being a predator.

The guy has no intent to have sex with an underage girl. He has intent to have sex with a girl that is 18 years old. Even if the law considers that a felony, it is still based on false logic.

HE'S GROOMING THEM SO HE CAN FVCK THEM WHEN THEY TURN 18! What's NOT sexual predator/child molester about that?

Do you really think he's living in the same house with them and acting SOLELY like a typical father figure to them? Related or not, men who take on the role of FATHER FIGURE dont turn around and fvck their step daughters just because they cant get put in jail for it.

He is absolutely grooiming them, as any sexual predator/child molester would. ABSOLUTELY.

@Urbanyst do tell...... So you would totally move in with a female, who had two underage daughters, present yourself as HER man, help her grow the children into women for 8ish years, and then turn around and stick your d1ck in them, without an issue?

 

[Bible_Belt]

Yeah, I was talking about the law, which I do think is overly broad and unconstitutional. Imagine the age of consent is 18 and a smoking hot 17 y/o girl walks down the street. Every guy who says hello to her is thinking about fvcking her, I guarantee. Did they all just commit felonies by saying hello?

The guy in the OP is probably a creep, but the mother of those girls had years to notice what was going on and get her daughters away from him. She is not without blame, herself.

 

[Billtx49]

The guy in the OP is probably a creep, but the mother of those girls had years to notice what was going on and get her daughters away from him. She is not without blame, herself.

Agree 100%. My BPD Ex was being banged regularly by her stepfather when she was 16 - 17. When they finally talked about it her mother blamed her… Probably did that to keep him from doing time if the law heard about it and to keep daughter quiet about it. A really messed up situation and 25 years later mother and daughter were still not talking to each other…
The mother usually knows. Whether she admits it or not and what she does about it is another story.

 

[Alvafe]

why everyone is thinking the girls was so naive and innocent like they don't know any better?

 

[sazc]

Agree 100%. My BPD Ex was being banged regularly by her stepfather when she was 16 - 17. When they finally talked about it her mother blamed her… Probably did that to keep him from doing time if the law heard about it and to keep daughter quiet about it. A really messed up situation and 25 years later mother and daughter were still not talking to each other…
The mother usually knows. Whether she admits it or not and what she does about it is another story.

Guys....if this is your girls story you need to friend zone her. Molestation of any kind, at any age, unless there was SPECIALIZED after care administered, is a huge red flag and the person should ONLY ever be a friend.
That person is permanently damaged goods, with an extremely warped sense of what a relationship is.

I know these are harsh words, and I have full empathy for these people. But molestation is a violation of the idea of a relationship, fundamental trust, someones body and so many other things. It damages heavily.

You can't white knight it. Only professional help will correct

 

[Billtx49]

Very good advice sazc.
I did not know about the effects of the earlier damage done years ago when I was with her. I really do now though after the aftermath of that encounter wore off.

 

[Once Bitten]

If I were the girl's parent, I would not let my 15 yo. girl be seen running around the house dressed like that in the first place. That's just a breach of decency.
I have a girl that age, she knows better than to do that. She knows it's a bad idea. Sounds like bad parenting in the first place on her mom's part.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

I didn't listen to it but right away I questioned whether this is legit or not.

 

[nikkisixx]

No.

A sexual predator is a rapist. Unless you rape someone you are not a sexual predator.

exactly. nail it, knock it up and mom, knock up mom's mom thats a real train dude. date the little one openly and laugh at the cops when she orders her "diet coke please" and let her call you dad, the works player. guilt is the enemy of your sex life, love machine, and fun in general.

 

[sazc]

Serious question. Don't take offence, or get upset.

Are you a single mother? I think you said that. I forget.

If so, you are merely concerned for your own strategy. Not the father, and not the kids.

You want men to compromise their sexual strategy to fit yours. And you are using shame here, as is typical of women and white-knights.

He's a "predator" according to such gaylords. He merely traded up to anybody with a clue.

lol, 'something to do with my own strategy', that you would even suggest that tells me that you are either grossly uneducated or you are simply disgusting and perverted.

Mabe you have no capacity for empathy? Or maybe you're just a lucky SOB who has never been molested by someone and/or have no friends that have admitted that they were molested by someone - because 1 in 4 people will have been molested in their lifetime. My ex was molested at 12 by his scoutmaster....because his scoutmaster had a 'sexual strategy'? really?

A girlfriend of mine was molested at 14 by her 18 year old step brother, another girlfriend of mine was molested for YEARS by her own father. By your definition, my two girlfriends were rightly fvcked by men who had 'sexual strategies'...is that right @dessade? Really?

John Phillips, a member of the Mamas and the Papas, started having sex with his daughter at the age of 19, and that went on for years. He raised her to TRUST him, waited until she was legal, and then stuck it in her. Completely appropriate and part of his 'sexual strategy' as a male @deesade?

Serious question - do you get out much or actually pay attention to LIFE? You literally run around these board and think you know it ALL and you have the be all and end all answer for everyone. the insinuation that this has ' something to do with my strategy' - fvcking ridiculous.

You guys can run around on these boards and call all women sluts, wh0res, b1tches, branch swingers, etc, but you should REALLY have some respect and empathy for children who are being groomed so an ADULT can fvck them when they are legal.

Look up grooming. Super easy, Google. Maybe you will learn something.

https://www.google.com/webhp?source...v=2&ie=UTF-8#q=predator+grooming+definition&*

Definition: Grooming - Grooming is the predatory act of maneuvering another individual into a position that makes them more isolated, dependent, likely to trust, and more vulnerable to abusive behavior. Description: Grooming is a insidiouspredatory tactic, utilized by abusers.Nov 4, 2015

What is grooming a child?
Child grooming is befriending and establishing an emotional connection with a child, and sometimes the family, to lower the child's inhibitions for child sexual abuse. It lures minors into trafficking of children, illicit businesses such as child prostitution, or the production of child pornography.

gross ignorance, truly

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

No.

A sexual predator is a rapist. Unless you rape someone you are not a sexual predator.

Whatever he is, he is one evil son of a *****.

 

[Urbanyst]

Whatever he is, he is one evil son of a *****.

I disagree.

He is not murdering people or actually doing any real harm.