l_e_g_e_n_d
Banned
- Joined
- Oct 13, 2015
- Messages
- 521
- Reaction score
- 365
For some of you younger DJs who don't don't how to vet, let's go through this methodically:
Any one of her suggestions is a deal breaker. Don't get involved with women like this and then blame the woman, given the dozen prominent, fully-disclosed red flags. The onus is on you to vet properly.
Looks like she had invested into married guys in the past, which already shows her lower caliber, having invested into--and having to voice--married men to begin with.1. If you are married, "on and off", or something in between SAY THAT so the woman you are interested in can make a knowledgeable decision about investing time with you.
The women you want to date don't use the words "pimps."2. For all of you online dating pimps... lol
(Excuse me cause I did need to lol at you...) ...
Flippant.Are your social skills so bad your only hope is to get online and "lie to kick it"?
Very defensive. Lots of bad experiences; and likely damaged.Google "karma".... when you lie to a person for selfish reasons the universe ALWAYS has a way of making you pay for your selfish ways.
She's in circles of garbage, having to voice this.There Are plenty of fish in the sea but how long do you plan on fishing? If you dont have 1 woman beyond satisfied dont add another woman your roaster.
Projection. Do you really want to be a part of this?Know that you have a mother, sister, daughter, niece, cousin. How angry would it make you to find out they were being played, lied to, cheated on???? WEll IF THATS YOU ONLINE PIMP STOP DOING THAT ****.
Projection. She is looking for sex.3. Did you read my profile? I'm not looking for just sex. I get on average 100 messages a day. If all you have to offer is sex don't waste your time messaging me. If you aren't looking to get to know me, hang out, laugh.... DONT MESSAGE ME.
Fantasy. She's is obviously not treated this way needing to voice it.Ask your elder men how they asked women out. They were polite. They opened car doors. They might bring a rose or flowers for their first date. If they were interested they would CALL, not text a novel.
Compensating for 50 lbs. of superfluous weight?I am 100% woman. A good woman. A good mom and an entrepreneur. There aren't a lot of good women left. If you are looking for a slut or a one night stand there are 1000's on this app BUT I AM NOT ONE.
Classless.5. Dont ask me out on a date and ask me to pay. If you can't afford a $20 meal then you need to set up or invite me to a "go for a walk", "it's a beautiful day let's meet in a public place outside" date. GET CREATIVE IF YOU DONT WANT YO PAY FOR A DATE. If you come with that Netflix and chill BS you are going to piss me off.
Not calibrated.6. Netflix and chill dates are for couples. If that's the only way you know how to get girls to have sex with you it's time to develop your social skills and work on your personality.
She's had a ton of bad experiences; likely damaged.7. You can't online pimp for life.... the reality is the longer you run around playing games, the longer the woman for you is just in the sea with the possibility of a clown fish or a shark getting to her first. The longer she is swimming in the sea somebody else just may be "putting a lot of miles" on your woman.
She's selling you to date her on a time constraint? Why?8. Youth doesn't last forever... we don't want you when you can't get out and have fun, your skin is falling off your body and God forebid you are starting to shrivel ??.
Not classy. Rather juvenile.9. If you are small..... get creative, over compensate in other things and/or make investments in toys (I'm just saying)... we just want to be loved so make it work for you.
She's had a ton of bad experiences, and likely damaged.10. If you change your mind after leading a woman on be a man an express that you decided to go another route. (Remember karma)
Flippant personality. Not ideal for any type of relation.Last but not least.... if you are on the down low.... pause.... why are you on the DL in 2016. Dont get involved in another relationship without sharing that you are Bi. Do it!!! It's not fair to keep that a secret.
Any one of her suggestions is a deal breaker. Don't get involved with women like this and then blame the woman, given the dozen prominent, fully-disclosed red flags. The onus is on you to vet properly.
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