Yea... of course. These things are a royal pain in the @ss. It's a full day process, of back and forth. But you have to stick to your guns. I really liked this one, freaking hot as hell, smoking bod, best BJs I've ever had. Smart, we had a lot in common, but I am not going to get tied down with anyone.
She'll be back.
Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
And what does that tell you about the majority of men? No wonder we have the problems we do. Attractive women don't handle rejection very well, and its not something they have to deal with very often in life. They are so accustomed to getting their way.
I like variety, and I really don't see any point in promising exclusivity. If I don't feel like dating other women I won't, why the fvck should I have to 'promise' that I won't. The first thing I say to women that want me to commit to a relationship is, "I have a better idea, why don't you be such an awesome chick that I don't want to see other women."
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Or in turn dig her, adapt your mindset, and enjoy the ride.
I've heard that one before. If that attitude had worked for any of those guys, one of them would still have her. But she didn't have enough respect for them to keep wanting them herself.
No problem with that. As long as you are remaining true to yourself and desire, and not acting out of fear spawn by previously negative experience(s).
This would be a very arrogant thing to actually say to a woman you are involved with...imo.
i just saw your response to this question..nvrmind
A beta will cry that the relationship is over after only 3 months and claim there will never be another like her. No more awesome BJ's, etc.
The only way a DJ can walk away with a grin is to not get emotionally invested. This might sound cold, but the way most women try and play men today and considering what's at stake, it's best to keep it friendly and full of secks. Once that goes sour or gets old, time to next and move on. Most women are way too fvcked up today to play it any other way in my opinion.
