I wanted to show her that I am strong independent male ;D. I did not want her to think that without her I am doomed and can not take care of my own life -- my previous girl thought that if she leve me I will not groom, grow dirt and eventually die of hunger.
Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Let her. The act of investing into your relationship will grow her feelings towards you. She has to invest so let her. Do a man task for her as well so you don't end up "using" her. LIke wash a car or offer to paint or something.
They do it because you take care of them, and they know you like it and it makes you feel more like a man.
she ALREADY thinks you are strong and independent, she offered to do your laundry because she is attracted to you and knows this and doing laundry is an act of kindness. acts of kindness show appreciation and affection. this is GOOD. allow her to do your laundry, and do something nice for her out of the blue like clean her car and wash it and when she makes a big deal about you doing it just nonchalantly tell her, well you do my laundry all the time so i wanted to do something for you.....
