The real deal on L.A women

TheFixer14

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So there seems to be this dream that L.A is the land of milk and honey when it comes to women. That they are nice, hot, big breasted blonde bimbos. There are certainly some women like this here for sure. The majority of them are not. Here's my experience with them.

#1: L.A women have attitude issues
I'm taking a master acting class right now and I only like three of the girls in that class. Meaning that only three of the girls seems like genuinely nice. And one of these girls is from Serbia. The others aren't bad people per say, but they all have some kind of attitude issues that turns me off. I had a scene partner who was pretty cute, but I found her fake and never got along with her. We had it out this week and her real self came out when she brought out the claws. It looked like was going to help out the scene. But she got an audition so we didn't even get to do it on the last week. But I am used to things not going my way.

Even a woman at my office showed her ****ty attitude. I knew that she wasn't cool when the first day that I met her she said that paying the $160 for the monthly parking fee was hard because she needs to pay for her makeup. Mind you we make around $2000 every two weeks.

Most women here live a very superficial life. It's partly due to the entertainment industry. Women are judged on their looks. If you are not a good actress, but look pretty you will work. Look at Megan Fox. She is a bad actress, but straight men can barely tell because she is hot. Even without makeup Megan Fox is hot. I was in class today and watching the woman in a scene. She isn't a bad actress and towards the end she did pretty good. But she wasn't doing anything special and I was thinking in my head "wow she looks good." So the industry kinda started all this.

So with that in mind most of these women are only thinking about themselves. So they have no time to really care about anyone outside of them.

#2: They are not as hot as you think
Yes, there are hot women here. But I'd say one out of 25 women that you mean here are hot. The rest range from cute, plain Janes, and straight up fat and ugly women. Most of the women here wear HEAVY makeup. That woman from my office? I remember talking to a co worker about how she was hot and then after meeting her we talked about how she isn't as hot as we thought.

What changed? We got a good look at her and saw how much her face was covered in war paint. Makeup is just not fair. It activates something in us and cheats us. I don't know about you guys. But I've always preferred women who don't wear make up.

Look at most Hollywood actresses. Most of them are attractive, but only a few are truly hot. Scarlett Johansson, Megan Fox, Charlize Theron, Olivia Wilde, Jessica Alba, Marion Cotillard (and she is a French actress first), Margot Robbie, Felicity Jones, Kristen Stewart, Blake Lively, and Vanessa Hudgens. And out of all of these actresses, the only ones that are Academy award winners/nominees are Charlize Theron, Marion Cotillard, and Felicity Jones.

The Amy Adams, Natalie Portmans, Jennifer Lawrences, and Brie Larsons of the world are attractive as hell and I'd love to spend the night with any of them. But they aren't the hottest. And they are also better actresses than most of the people on that list.

#3: They are not easy
I thought that it would be easier to get laid in L.A. And it is to an extend solely because of volume. But the women here are not easy. They have high standards. The 80/20 rule is in full effect here. A five thinks that they could get with an A list actor in the right situation. A seven could for sure spend one night with one. And that same seven could get into a relationship with a millionaire who isn't famous pretty damn easily. Hell, Matt Damon married a bartender who is cute, but below what he has gotten and what he could get.

So if you come here you are competing with all of them. Good game might get you a ONS. But if you want to casually date her or have an LTR? HAHAHAHA. Good luck.

#4: They don't care about you
They really don't care about you. L.A women will crush your soul and not blink an eye. Why? Because they can. Feminism is huge here. Everything is on there side. So they can get away with poor behavior. I remember going to this really stuck up bar once and this woman just blew me off in the rudest way possible.

They don't care about what affect they have on you. I tried to explain some things on my end to my chick scene partner and she was like "apologize". She was not an understanding girl at all.

So there you have it. Stop dreaming about L.A girls. In the end they make you kinda jaded. Most guys who live here know what's up.

There are some true beauties here for sure. But as far as interior quality, this city lacks that. That's why I've gotten so down on dating. I have to deal with all of this. Most guys here are not very into dating. The only issue is that we all have libidos.
 
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one thing you left out

single guys outnumber single women by a lot!
That's in most major cities and online dating! Most women in these cities go out for attention, that's why I don't go clubbing. AFAIK, Los Angeles or anywhere in Southern California has women turning their hypergamy up to and past eleven!
 

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LA is cool but its also a scum pit. And I will be 100% honest when I say the women there are not that special at all. And actually there is beauty everywhere. You will find basically the same ratio of attractive to unattractive everywhere you go. The main differences being in poverty. The poorer side usually are less attractive due to lower health levels, worse hygiene, etc. Now, I guarantee you a poor mexican neighborhood in LA will have naturally more hotties then a poor backwoods sector out in the appalachians. But if you take your average cali girl and average texas or NY girl. looks wise they will be similar but women from the south will always have that southern sun glow. However there are some super hot pale beauties up north. And this is coming from a guy who loves tan bishes
 

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I got family in LA, they hate it. Personally it looks like a ugly city. Friends told me it was overrated and so did other random people I conversed with
 

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I got family in LA, they hate it. Personally it looks like a ugly city. Friends told me it was overrated and so did other random people I conversed with
I love la lol. I live in Nashville and it's a ****hole. Well the entire eastern half of America is **** lol.
 

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Never had one but I'm sure LA v@ginas look and smell like every other one in the world.
 

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Watch from 37:38 - 39:20. I've never been to LA but from that it seems like the people are sh!t lol
 

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Never had one but I'm sure LA v@ginas look and smell like every other one in the world.
I don't know, man. Some of them got that roast beef look and rotten sardine smell.
 

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I don't know, man. Some of them got that roast beef look and rotten sardine smell.
lol I've seen the roast beef look before. Always wondered what caused it.
 

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Not surprised.... It's much the same down here in OC. Feminism has destroyed our society/culture.
 

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That's in most major cities and online dating! Most women in these cities go out for attention, that's why I don't go clubbing. AFAIK, Los Angeles or anywhere in Southern California has women turning their hypergamy up to and past eleven!
This is the sad truth. In most clubs women are dancing with each other and hanging around each other, not men.
 

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Overall this is pretty accurate.

Average guys will be depressed in LA but the player types and producers will have a sore d*ck. LA women want guys who are very good looking and have a nice car. If you have those things, you will absolutely clean up.

No one should move to LA just because they think the women are hot. The women there are much harder to pull than in other cities. If you go to Portland you'll have a much easier time getting laid because they don't have their heads stuck up their azz there. And plus, the women in LA are low quality. The hot ones are there to get into "acting", i.e. they don't have an education and want to make money based on their looks. When they don't get acting gigs, they become strippers/waitresses. These girls are so incredibly vapid. I lived in LA for a while cause I was in grad school, but got out as soon as I could. It's not worth the amount of money you have to spend to live there.

From time to time, I do like visiting LA because I have friends there. It can be a lot of fun if your focus isn't women. I like checking out Universal Studios, Hermosa Beach, and OC. But I would never live in LA again. It's not a good city if you're a professional who doesn't work in the entertainment industry.
 

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Overall this is pretty accurate.

Average guys will be depressed in LA but the player types and producers will have a sore d*ck. LA women want guys who are very good looking and have a nice car. If you have those things, you will absolutely clean up.

No one should move to LA just because they think the women are hot. The women there are much harder to pull than in other cities. If you go to Portland you'll have a much easier time getting laid because they don't have their heads stuck up their azz there. And plus, the women in LA are low quality. The hot ones are there to get into "acting", i.e. they don't have an education and want to make money based on their looks. When they don't get acting gigs, they become strippers/waitresses. These girls are so incredibly vapid. I lived in LA for a while cause I was in grad school, but got out as soon as I could. It's not worth the amount of money you have to spend to live there.

From time to time, I do like visiting LA because I have friends there. It can be a lot of fun if your focus isn't women. I like checking out Universal Studios, Hermosa Beach, and OC. But I would never live in LA again. It's not a good city if you're a professional who doesn't work in the entertainment industry.
I literally ****** the **** out of this hot blonde in Hollywood that got me drunk on her own expense. She was shocked that I wasn't in LA for acting and she also told me that she was trying to get an acting job as well. Judging how much **** I get on this site, my experience debunks this whole post. Every major city has its pros and cons tbh.
 

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And plus, the women in LA are low quality. The hot ones are there to get into "acting", i.e. they don't have an education and want to make money based on their looks. When they don't get acting gigs, they become strippers/waitresses.
Back in the late '80s, I was out of college living in the area doing aerospace engineering (i.e., the OTHER big industry out there) and one evening, a gang of us from work went to some nightclub in the city center where there was "oil wrestling" (that was a bit of a fad then, LOL), and all the working chicks there were actress wannabes that needed to make the rent. I don't know if I've ever seen a sexier group of women live. The chicks got tips by going around to the men and licking their ears, and I still get horny thinking about that.
 

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I got family in LA, they hate it. Personally it looks like a ugly city. Friends told me it was overrated and so did other random people I conversed with
Agreed! The price of housing is ridiculous and not worth the little bump in pay relative to normal areas. That said, the weather is great; the activity I liked the most when I lived there was skiing; obviously there are better cities for that, most notably Denver.
 

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It sounds like you are describing any attractive woman in the US, except the not easy part.

I thought LA women were great. That's because I was living in Man Jose. Compared to the women in Silicon Valley, LA women seem extremely friendly and outgoing.
 

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Not surprised.... It's much the same down here in OC. Feminism has destroyed our society/culture.
I've heard that it's worst in the OC. I was only there briefly for one day in Huntington Beach so I couldn't properly gauge it. But I've heard that it's extremely vapid.

Overall this is pretty accurate.

Average guys will be depressed in LA but the player types and producers will have a sore d*ck. LA women want guys who are very good looking and have a nice car. If you have those things, you will absolutely clean up.

No one should move to LA just because they think the women are hot. The women there are much harder to pull than in other cities. If you go to Portland you'll have a much easier time getting laid because they don't have their heads stuck up their azz there. And plus, the women in LA are low quality. The hot ones are there to get into "acting", i.e. they don't have an education and want to make money based on their looks. When they don't get acting gigs, they become strippers/waitresses. These girls are so incredibly vapid. I lived in LA for a while cause I was in grad school, but got out as soon as I could. It's not worth the amount of money you have to spend to live there.

From time to time, I do like visiting LA because I have friends there. It can be a lot of fun if your focus isn't women. I like checking out Universal Studios, Hermosa Beach, and OC. But I would never live in LA again. It's not a good city if you're a professional who doesn't work in the entertainment industry.
Great post. L.A has a lot going on and a lot of career opportunities so it's easy to not make women the primary goal here. But guys here of course want to date and then you go dance with some awkward seven who stops dancing with you because you don't have the moves.

If I wasn't in the entertainment industry I wouldn't be here. Even then I may move to New York once I am more established in the industry.

It sounds like you are describing any attractive woman in the US, except the not easy part.

I thought LA women were great. That's because I was living in Man Jose. Compared to the women in Silicon Valley, LA women seem extremely friendly and outgoing.
I've never been to NorCal. I heard that the women there a lot more forward than the women in L.A.
 
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