To Maximize her Accepting your Date Offer...

[bigneil]

Simply pick a restaurant in her neighborhood that she has heard of. And it can't be a chain.

Search the internet for "Best restaurants (her town)". Send an offer for a specific day and location, and then if she accepts you can settle on the time.If you are on a budget, choose drinks and appetizers at the bar in lieu of a formal dinner.

This strategy rarely fails, and more importantly it shows initiative. Ideally you will have never been there and she can show you around the area, making it worth your effort as you learn something. What is better than taking a lady to a new neighborhood and sampling the best they have to offer?

 

[TheGambino]

Mostly girls really don't give a sheit where im taking them.

Convo goes like this when we met a for a coffee and we decide to make it a night out when we want to hang longer.

Me: So theres a nice pub in city X, like a 20 min drive, totally the music and vibe we are looking for !
Her: Oh nice sounds good, I really don't mind where we go Ill follow you.

 

[Billtx49]

Mostly girls really don't give a sheit where im taking them.

Convo goes like this when we met a for a coffee and we decide to make it a night out when we want to hang longer.

Me: So theres a nice pub in city X, like a 20 min drive, totally the music and vibe we are looking for !
Her: Oh nice sounds good, I really don't mind where we go Ill follow you.

Find out what type of food she likes on that coffee date, then put the bigneil suggestion into play next date..

 

[l_e_g_e_n_d]

"How To Maximize her Accepting your Date Offer..."

Once you begin with this question, you have indirectly pedestalized her and surrendered frame before your interaction began. Bad thinking here. Rather:

"DARE HER TO REJECT YOUR DATE OFFER ... "

 

[dustmuffin]

First dates for me usually are a bit more flexible. Might offer a couple of days. I get my girls on OLD so the initial interest level might be low or high. After I go out with them once I start doing a specific day. The key is to get the first date and hook them with your good looks and charm. I don't go to chains. There are loads of interesting districts in my town of over 1 million.

I did get a date today by being very direct and dominant. Her profile said she liked to be dominated sexually. Green light to go full on dominant. Told her to meet me at a bar a certain day. She immediately accepted even though the bar is 40 minutes from where she lives. It's close to me. I plan on getting a few drinks in her, take her home tie her up and spank her a ss. She also asked what she should wear. I told her something se xy.

I think the key is tailoring your pitch to the woman. I'm always very direct in asking for the date. It works very well.

 

[bigneil]

Mostly girls really don't give a sheit where im taking them.

Convo goes like this when we met a for a coffee and we decide to make it a night out when we want to hang longer.

Me: So theres a nice pub in city X, like a 20 min drive, totally the music and vibe we are looking for !
Her: Oh nice sounds good, I really don't mind where we go Ill follow you.

You meet for coffee? Like one of her girlfriends? You think they don't mind that you are taking them on girlie dates?

 

[bigneil]

"How To Maximize her Accepting your Date Offer..."

Once you begin with this question, you have indirectly pedestalized her and surrendered frame before your interaction began.

Well gee, when you sleep with 100 fugly girls I can see where you might not care whether one of them accepts your offer. However, when you only ask out HB8+ women and you care whether they show up, you might focus on getting her to accept instead of being cheap.

Anyhow, as usual, I'm basing this on an actual example of a hot girl who I met Saturday and who agreed to go on our first date Friday.

 

[ubercat]

WTF dinner is a terrible first date..

 

[l_e_g_e_n_d]

Well gee, when you sleep with 100 fugly girls I can see where you might not care whether one of them accepts your offer. However, when you only ask out HB8+ women and you care whether they show up, you might focus on getting her to accept instead of being cheap.

Anyhow, as usual, I'm basing this on an actual example of a hot girl who I met Saturday and who agreed to go on our first date Friday.

LOL. You don't get much hot azz, do you?

 

[bigneil]

LOL. You don't get much hot azz, do you?

Is that a joke? Just in case:

October - HB9 (age 20)
October - HB7 (age 45)
November - HB9 (age 19)
November - HB9 (age 21)
December - HB8 (age 26)
December - HB9 (age 23)
January - HB8 (age 40)

Their photos were officially rated, one scored 99%.

Question: If you can bed hundreds of women, why not pick one you like?

 

[bigneil]

WTF dinner is a terrible first date..

Maybe when you're living with your mommy. As a man in his 40's, I take women to a place they will remember on the first date. Not Starbucks. Not Chick Fil A. Not my dorm.

In my latest example, my second text asked her out and her first text accepted.

 

[l_e_g_e_n_d]

Is that a joke? Just in case:

October - HB9 (age 20)
October - HB7 (age 45)
November - HB9 (age 19)
November - HB9 (age 21)
December - HB8 (age 26)
December - HB9 (age 23)
January - HB8 (age 40)

Their photos were officially rated, one scored 99%.

Question: If you can bed hundreds of women, why not pick one you like?

Rated by whom? LOL. Why are you ratings girls by anonymous internet strangers if you are allegedly banging them?

I noticed the ages of these girls changed when you edited your post. You're a mess.

 

[ubercat]

No point getting into this the reasons why are all over the board. Your particular version of game is a bit specialised to make good general advice.

 

[bigneil]

Rated by whom? LOL. Why are you ratings girls by anonymous internet strangers if you are allegedly banging them?
I noticed the ages of these girls changed when you edited your post. You're a mess.

Dude, are you really a male? What man (laughs out loud) in his every deliberation?

What age changed? The photos were rated by a professional photo rating service that I pay for. Rated by consensus. These aren't the fat, black, single moms who you pork by the bakers dozen while dining on their EBT cards.

Yes, I'm the biggest mess who ever dated a 10 (see photo).

 

[fastlife]

"You seem cool. Let's grab drinks sometime"

[Super vague--girls almost always agree]

"Actually I'm free tonight if you want to drop by for a glass of wine. You're not secretly crazy, are you?"

[Seens spontaneous. Girls usually qualify here. If she seems more innocent, I might say something about sitting on my front porch].

So far it seems to be a high percentage play; I'd guess that if a number texts back there's a 80% chance she agrees to come over or reschedules; probably ~20% flake but that's cool cause I don't have to leave the house. 100% of my 'dates' end up back at the house. But I also have a good location. Most of the girls I meet live within 5-10 minutes.

 

[bigneil]

"You seem cool. Let's grab drinks sometime"

[Super vague--girls almost always agree]

Wait, you're saying people should be super vague??

That's how you get the phone number maybe, but this is not how you get a definite date, letalone on the first text she sends.

You're saying to invite them to your place the first date?? That sounds creepy.

Actual example:

Me: "It was nice to meet you Saturday night."
Her: (no reply - this made me think it was over so I went for broke)
Me: "Hey I was going to grab a bite to eat at (trendy place near where she lives) and maybe check out (other trendy place next door) if you'd like to join me Friday evening."
Her: "I'm sorry I didn't reply sooner but I would love to go Friday! What time?"
Me: "See you at 8:30. I made reservations".
Her: "I'm excited!!"

Tell me what was wrong with this? Why would you not want the first date to be memorable?

 

[l_e_g_e_n_d]

Dude, are you really a male? What man (laughs out loud) in his every deliberation?

What age changed? The photos were rated by a professional photo rating service that I pay for. Rated by consensus. These aren't the fat, black, single moms who you pork by the bakers dozen while dining on their EBT cards.

Yes, I'm the biggest mess who ever dated a 10 (see photo).

1) Your girls are not 9s or 10s. More like 6s if you are referring to the girls you posted in other threads. If you wish to photo exchange, I'll send you real 8s and 9s via PM. I'm not about to post pics in a forum to expose the identities of girls that I plate, unlike you, which shows you probably had no real relations with them to begin with.

2) Among posting pics of women (who you allege to have banged), your defensiveness of their looks, your pedestal-ing of women to coerce them into first dates, and your "editing" of the ages of the women you banged in Post 10 and thus caught lying, your insecurity is palpable.

3) You use daddy game, and get used for upfront resources, while others bang the same girls for free.

4) You buy affections of women. This is called pandering.

5) You lack the fundamental understanding of game by creating ridiculous threads like this.

As I said champ, you are a mess.

 

[fastlife]

Wait, you're saying people should be super vague??

Compliance ladder. Every girl will agree to some vague future meetup--then you hit her with something definite & she's more likely to say yes to that too.

That's how you get the phone number maybe, but this is not how you get a definite date, letalone on the first text she sends.

See below.

You're saying to invite them to your place the first date?? That sounds creepy.

I think buying dinner for someone you don't know is creepy--frame is everything. If she's attracted, nothing you do or say is creepy--as long as it's within your frame.

Why would you not want the first date to be memorable?

Memorable =/= Effort, Expense, Anything external to you & the girl.

Girl#1:

Girl #2:

 

[fastlife]

Girl #3:

Girl #4:

Girl #1 Flaked. She has a boyfriend lol--try again later.
Girl #2 Rescheduled to meet her for drinks. Met another girl I liked better that night and flaked on her.
Girl #3 Came thru.
Girl #4 Came thru & brought wine

Total expense ~$2.50. Instead of just assuming something won't work, I'd encourage guys to go for what they want--you can always take a step back.

Note--I'll be deleting the images sometime over the next couple days.

 

[El Payaso]

Nothing a woman loves more than a free meal.