I'm done with dating

[Reykhel]

Hmmm.. You provide no substance in the conversation but I admire the envy you have for this man. You're using your own experience as a way to justify that all men will act the same way you did, and that's just false. No man will get tired of sex if all he seeks for is sex from a women while he pursues his own goals and adventures. Men aren't all built the same and not all of them think the same. Many men could be addicted to sex so it may never get old to them. Other men don't need substance, intelligence ect from a women if they are already knowledgeable in their own way. From your posts I can sense the insecurity in you. Don't put in to much investment into a women.

Could you elaborate on why you believe you see envy here, my good man?

I don't believe @Tenacity is been driven by envy. What does he have to be envious about the other poster. Is he envious of not haven written thread after thread of pure regurgitated theory. Is he envious of not being the red pill theory king. I don't see it.

Your empty claim would make your intentions seem dubious.

I don't disagree on all of the rest of your post though.

"Men aren't built the same and they don't all think the same"

Agreed. And masculinity is more complex and deep than the binary beta and alpha that's the basis of many posters' theory speak.

 

[SmooveMooves]

My issues with dating start with just how superficial it is. I've had women go out with my just because I am black, just because we were from the same state, just because I like anime, just because I am a writer, just because I am cute and etc. At first I saw this as a compliment. But I've come to realize that women go out with guys for bull**** reasons. I'm a pretty good looking guy, but I'm not Adnois. So say if I am a better match for a woman, but some Brad Pitt looking mother ****er is right next to me, who will get the first chance?

Women go by these bull**** rules too. Like if you follow up too quickly or too late, you're done. If you say one wrong thing, you could be done. You can't even get to the point with a woman to know if something meaningful will happen because most won't give you that chance.

So what will I do? I've decided to put even more focus on my goals in life. I already have dedicated a lot of time and I am seeing more results. But I am going to double down even more if that's possible.

Am I the only one whose a bit confused? Dating IS superficial in itself. Sometimes I mess around with a woman just because she has a nice ass or is submissive. How is this any different then what you described. As for a 'Bradd Pitt looking mf taking your bítch,' that's how life works in all aspects. If you aren't up to the task you can bet someone else is. Its the same thing men take advantage of if they're smart. That's why we preach self-improvement here rather than pickup.

You taking a bigger focus on your goals should have already been a thing. It shouldn't have taken a few bad dates to push you there. Always strive for your goals and put women as a back burner goal. You will start to see that they will fall into your lap then. There's no need to consciously 'take a break.'

 

[Poon King]

Folks, for the sake of clarity I'll respond to this.

The charge of irascibility: this is such a common shaming/ controlling tactic used by women when the man is being assertive and the woman feels like she's losing control of the frame or and the issue or debate at hand.

She will "mind read" the man and accuse him of being angry for example.....now this tactic ONLY WORKS IF THE MAN TAKES THE BAIT. For example he might go "what's this dumbazz saying? I'm not fvcking angry!" And in that moment he does actually get irritated. And she goes "aha see?" Then the man does get angry as he realises he fell into her trap...

The result? The debate or issue at hand becomes forgotten and now the issue is the man getting angry and reactive. If there is anyone else around they will now side with the woman and she can now bask in been seen as the injured Party.

This poster uses this tactic in so many of his threads. Take note. And take not of how often the women around you will use it.

I see the poster has implied something to the effect of:
"If a certain woman agrees with you, then you must be a faggot"

Folks do you think that statement comes from the mind of:
1. A rational , mature, secure intelligent man
Or
2. A bitter, snipey, immature, emotional child.

The answer is clear as day

When you make a hobby out of b!tching about men on the Internet.. you prove you have a WEAK FRAME.

Your frame is weak. Think about it.. if you can't even disagree with some random dude on the Internet without having a meltdown... what chance do you have with a woman?

Have you not noticed that I'm a man of RESULTS? I care about getting what I want. Do you really think I give a flying f*ck if a certain "tactic" is mostly used by women? RESULTS are all I care about.

There are two types of people in this world:

• People who get what they want and get results
• People who whine and b!tch about other people

Guess which one you are?

Everyone is laughing at your pathetic beta sensitivity and you don't even realize it.

Cry more.

"Men aren't built the same and they don't all think the same"

Agreed. And masculinity is more complex and deep than the binary beta and alpha that's the basis of many posters' theory speak.

Something beta males tell themselves to feel better about being beta males.

 

[TheFixer14]

Am I the only one whose a bit confused? Dating IS superficial in itself. Sometimes I mess around with a woman just because she has a nice ass or is submissive. How is this any different then what you described. As for a 'Bradd Pitt looking mf taking your bítch,' that's how life works in all aspects. If you aren't up to the task you can bet someone else is. Its the same thing men take advantage of if they're smart. That's why we preach self-improvement here rather than pickup.

You taking a bigger focus on your goals should have already been a thing. It shouldn't have taken a few bad dates to push you there. Always strive for your goals and put women as a back burner goal. You will start to see that they will fall into your lap then. There's no need to consciously 'take a break.'

You seem to be.

You may be okay with it being superficial, but I am not. And you may be okay with a woman choosing another guy over bull**** reasons, but I am not.

And it's a matter of taking a bigger focus on my goals as I've always put that first anyway. But the time and energy that I'd put into women will be put into that too. Let's be honest, women take away from your time and energy. Going to the club, bars, even day gaming takes away from your main focus.

It's not a break, I just don't want to go on dates anymore period. I'm tired of going out with a woman and feeling like I've wasted my time.

 

[Tenacity]

When you make a hobby out of b!tching about men on the Internet.. you prove you have a WEAK FRAME.

So by that logic you have a weak frame because all you do is "bytch" about white knights and beta males all day. If they are happy doing whatever the fvck they are doing, why do you care lol? Just because they don't fit your one-dimensional definition of what a "man" or a cartoon character "Alpha Male" is supposed to be.

.. if you can't even disagree with some random dude on the Internet without having a meltdown... what chance do you have with a woman?

Wow @ the fvcking irony lol. This is coming from a guy that can't have a simple disagreement with a guy over the internet without resorting to his "beta fag.got" name calling.

Have you not noticed that I'm a man of RESULTS?

No, I haven't noticed SHYT because you haven't posted, detailed, nor listed any fvcking RESULTS you have had in your life.

- You've posted no pic of yourself
- No pic of your fitness progression
- No pic of any plate you've had in 2016
- No pic of any decent car you are driving
- No field report
- No information on any woman you've dated
- No information on a hot, exciting, career you are in

You have posted NOTHING. ZIP. NADA.

All you do is post the same regurgitated bullshyt over and over.

PlayHerMan, when are you going to answer my question related to WHY did you come back to Sosuave? You were banned before on here for being a TROLL/FRAUD. If you are so Alpha, why did you come back?

For example, I was banned on City Data for having extreme views. I was also banned on a Political Forum for having extreme views lol. But did the fvck I go back crawling for them to let me back in? Did I create another username trying to fit back in? Hell no.

If you are so ALPHA.....why did you come back to Sosuave after you were banned? Answer the question. I mean come on, wouldn't that be the biggest "beta fa.ggot" move of all time to come crawling back to a website that banned you ?

 

[SmooveMooves]

You seem to be.

You may be okay with it being superficial, but I am not. And you may be okay with a woman choosing another guy over bull**** reasons, but I am not.

People choose partners based on traits they prefer. Just as you. Women choose the best mating options, just as you.

 

[CMNILS87]

You're being way too hard on yourself. It's not you as a man, women in western society are crazy and skiddish as ****. Then again I'm in the northern midwest and I meet a lot of women that are desperate for a decent guy that owns his ****.

That set aside,
Are you a fun guy? Do you think dates are suppose to be formal where you talk bull**** and hope they like you? It sounds like that honestly


Way too much Ego tripping in this thread and bull**** back and forth. This all comes back down to Actions speak louder than words. If everything was fine and you were cool regardless there would be no reason for you to post some meltdown post. Sounds like a couple girls bailed after 3-4 dates and you got pissed?

I have a main girl, talking to 2 others, possibly scared off another one being too secusl right away, a FWB, another girl disappeared after 5 dates. It's all about numbers and plugging away till you have a decent amount of women to choose from.

 

[TheFixer14]

People choose partners based on traits they prefer. Just as you. Women choose the best mating options, just as you.

Stop defending women.

You're being way too hard on yourself. It's not you as a man, women in western society are crazy and skiddish as ****. Then again I'm in the northern midwest and I meet a lot of women that are desperate for a decent guy that owns his ****.

That set aside,
Are you a fun guy? Do you think dates are suppose to be formal where you talk bull**** and hope they like you? It sounds like that honestly


Way too much Ego tripping in this thread and bull**** back and forth. This all comes back down to Actions speak louder than words. If everything was fine and you were cool regardless there would be no reason for you to post some meltdown post. Sounds like a couple girls bailed after 3-4 dates and you got pissed?

I have a main girl, talking to 2 others, possibly scared off another one being too secusl right away, a FWB, another girl disappeared after 5 dates. It's all about numbers and plugging away till you have a decent amount of women to choose from.

Truth. Women here have been tainted by feminism. L.A women just want to snort coke off of the club promoter's ****.

I am a pretty fun guy. I don't go on formal dates and I have no idea how you got that vibe from my post LMAO. The two dates I went on with this one girl were ice skating and she invited me to a comedy shows. The one date that I went on with another girl was go kart racing. I am a pretty laid back chill guy (at least that's what I've been told).

You know what happened? I went on a few dates recently that opened my eyes a bit. I felt that I wasted my time, money, and emotions on two girls and got nothing in return.

You see, I don't see women as something worth "plugging away" at. I rather put that energy back into myself. The quality women out here isn't worth that. I rather leave it up to chance at this point.

 

[Reykhel]

When you make a hobby out of b!tching about men on the Internet.. you prove you have a WEAK FRAME.

Your frame is weak. Think about it.. if you can't even disagree with some random dude on the Internet without having a meltdown... what chance do you have with a woman?

Have you not noticed that I'm a man of RESULTS? I care about getting what I want. Do you really think I give a flying f*ck if a certain "tactic" is mostly used by women? RESULTS are all I care about.

There are two types of people in this world:

• People who get what they want and get results
• People who whine and b!tch about other people

Guess which one you are?

Everyone is laughing at your pathetic beta sensitivity and you don't even realize it.

Cry more.



Something beta males tell themselves to feel better about being beta males.

Oh dear. I have to say I DID cry more....and I nearly choked on my beer laughing at this post.

Interesting to see him unravelling and clutching at straws now.

This clown has described HIS VERY OWN EXACT ACTIVITY AND PATTERNS OF BEHAVIOUR ON THIS SITE.

Folks if you have any doubts about what projection is, this is a wonderfully illustrated text book example.

He stated a while ago that sosuave is a HOBBY for him and it's clear how much he bytches about men (repeats beta codependent phaggot beta codependent phaggot.....how many times?) .....not to mention how much he bytches about women.....

FOLKS, by his own words.....it's clear he knows he has a weak frame

This narcissist is full of HATE. He hates men and he hates women. An invalidator and a a value thief.

My favorite part of his post is when he realises he's being found out and he feels people are laughing at him. He then obviously tries a pathetic attempt to project that insecurity on to me.

That shyte don't wash with me pal.

You've revealed what you are.

The one who accuses everybody of been a beta phaggot everytime they get triggered....?

Reveals their beta phaggot status

Cry more Buffoon King

 

[C00lAF]

Spicy fooking thread,just how i like it

 

[C00lAF]

@Tenacity @Poon King yall need to stop bashing on each other everytime you meet in a thread.
Imho you both have some good tips over all,but you need to stop fighting like middle school girls,do you call yourself mature/adult in irl lolz? @poon just give him the fvcking pics and ends this everlasting argument.

 

[CMNILS87]

You know what happened? I went on a few dates recently that opened my eyes a bit. I felt that I wasted my time, money, and emotions on two girls and got nothing in return.

You see, I don't see women as something worth "plugging away" at. I rather put that energy back into myself. The quality women out here isn't worth that. I rather leave it up to chance at this point.

This right here. How much money have you spent on these women and why do you have all these "emotions" invested in these women? You know they're dating other guys and playing the field. Why have a meltdown, when you know they're low quality. This was me 2 years ago. I'd put all eggs in a basket with a girl after a few dates and she'd disappear. Whether it was texting too much, talking about feelings, blah blah blah.

Emotions have no place in the dating market. You become like every other guy that's desperate for sex and you'll reek of it. Girls just want to have fun.....literslly that's all they care about. They want emotions, and feelings, and tingles for you to create.

You have to be the source of emotions, not have emotions.

 

[TheFixer14]

This right here. How much money have you spent on these women and why do you have all these "emotions" invested in these women? You know they're dating other guys and playing the field. Why have a meltdown, when you know they're low quality. This was me 2 years ago. I'd put all eggs in a basket with a girl after a few dates and she'd disappear. Whether it was texting too much, talking about feelings, blah blah blah.

Emotions have no place in the dating market. You become like every other guy that's desperate for sex and you'll reek of it. Girls just want to have fun.....literslly that's all they care about. They want emotions, and feelings, and tingles for you to create.

You have to be the source of emotions, not have emotions.

I had to spend money for my own ticket to ice skating and go kart racing. I accidentally paid for both of us during ice skating.

How is this a meltdown? Because I don't want to date?

Maybe all of this works for you. But it isn't for me. All you are saying is the same **** that has been said for years. You can keep at it. But I'm out.

 

[CMNILS87]

I had to spend money for my own ticket to ice skating and go kart racing. I accidentally paid for both of us during ice skating.

How is this a meltdown? Because I don't want to date?

Maybe all of this works for you. But it isn't for me. All you are saying is the same **** that has been said for years. You can keep at it. But I'm out.

I thought it wasn't for me as well..... it's a process dude and you need to read the DJ bible. You're still emotionally invested in women you don't know, it's the Crux of the beta and it's how society raised most of us.

You can build yourself up and increase hobbies, looks, job. Women can be throwing themselves at you. Maybe that'll work. But even if you look the part to a sexy girl, the minute you open your mouth and she realizes you can't grt past the 2nd or 3rd date, you're at a huge impasse in your sexual/intimate life and don't have any game. You need game and you gotta practice. Trust us and follow the experienced ones around here.

 

[TheFixer14]

I thought it wasn't for me as well..... it's a process dude and you need to read the DJ bible. You're still emotionally invested in women you don't know, it's the Crux of the beta and it's how society raised most of us.

You can build yourself up and increase hobbies, looks, job. Women can be throwing themselves at you. Maybe that'll work. But even if you look the part to a sexy girl, the minute you open your mouth and she realizes you can't grt past the 2nd or 3rd date, you're at a huge impasse in your sexual/intimate life and don't have any game. You need game and you gotta practice. Trust us and follow the experienced ones around here.

Once again, you are not saying anything special.

And I don't care. I am going to do what I want to do.

 

[CMNILS87]

Once again, you are not saying anything special.

And I don't care. I am going to do what I want to do.

Hahaha ok good luck. Another thing, why are you here to complain but not take advice and improve yourself? If you're here to complain, but then go and do whatever you want..,.why post??? The only people that like to complain, but not actually want a solution are.... women.

 

[Reykhel]

Hahaha ok good luck. Another thing, why are you here to complain but not take advice and improve yourself? If you're here to complain, but then go and do whatever you want..,.why post??? The only people that like to complain, but not actually want a solution are.... women.

You're spot on. I got the exact same vibe from his post that you got. Tried to offer him a different perspective...

.....and he gets all defensive.

You're right, he just wants a good old moan.

Leave him to it.

No use throwing pearls at swine

 

[TheFixer14]

Hahaha ok good luck. Another thing, why are you here to complain but not take advice and improve yourself? If you're here to complain, but then go and do whatever you want..,.why post??? The only people that like to complain, but not actually want a solution are.... women.

Why do you care?

And your shaming tactics won't work on me.

 

[TheFixer14]

You're spot on. I got the exact same vibe from his post that you got. Tried to offer him a different perspective...

.....and he gets all defensive.

You're right, he just wants a good old moan.

Leave him to it.

No use throwing pearls at swine

Because you are both tools and I don't **** with tools.

Notice that I am not having convos with other posters like this. Why is that?

And I NEVER asked for advice in this thread.

 

[CMNILS87]

Because you are both tools and I don't **** with tools.

Notice that I am not having convos with other posters like this. Why is that?

And I NEVER asked for advice in this thread.

Because you're acting like a teenager. We're all giving you advice on how to fix your problem and we actually truly want you to succeed in a lacking part of your life. Your rebuttal to all of it is....."**** you guys, women are stupid, I'm gonna do my own thing". Just like an adolescent teenager. We give you the knowledge, but youll go out on your own and complain some more, post a few more threads ad not get anywhere.