TheFixer14
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 15, 2016
- Messages
- 352
- Reaction score
- 150
- Age
- 32
While it's not like I have women knocking on my door constantly, I've dated a decent bit. I known a good amount of women as well. I used to see dating as this very exciting thing. You could meet so many different women. A cool chick. A southern chick. A "spicy" chick and etc.
But after my last to encounters in the dating field I have begun to question the entire process and what the point of it even is.
Like I said I saw dating as something very exciting. But slowly it's become something that isn't even fun. I've come to realize that dating is more trouble than it's worth.
My issues with dating start with just how superficial it is. I've had women go out with my just because I am black, just because we were from the same state, just because I like anime, just because I am a writer, just because I am cute and etc. At first I saw this as a compliment. But I've come to realize that women go out with guys for bull**** reasons. I'm a pretty good looking guy, but I'm not Adnois. So say if I am a better match for a woman, but some Brad Pitt looking mother ****er is right next to me, who will get the first chance?
Women go by these bull**** rules too. Like if you follow up too quickly or too late, you're done. If you say one wrong thing, you could be done. You can't even get to the point with a woman to know if something meaningful will happen because most won't give you that chance.
So what will I do? I've decided to put even more focus on my goals in life. I already have dedicated a lot of time and I am seeing more results. But I am going to double down even more if that's possible.
I am going to an acting master class taught my an actor who's taught some very esteemed actors. I am going to continue to audition for roles. I am going to work on my feature film that I wrote and plan on directing and starring in. I am going to finish up a few graphic novels and ship them out to publishers (I am already a published author). I am going to work on my pitch for an animated series (got a big pitch coming soon).
I'm also going to do things that I enjoy. I plan on eventually getting back into racing go kart and open wheel dirt cars. I want to get back into Kung Fu. And I'll hang around with my roommate and watch anime.
Point is that I am just going to do what I want to do. I have no intention of getting married. I would like kids. But if it doesn't happen then I'm okay with that. I do enjoy sex. But I'm okay to go without for a while.
I don't plan on pursuing dating. I'm just so disenchanted with the whole process. I'm happy for couples or guys who enjoy dating. But I suppose it's just not me.
I haven't felt this free in a long time.
But after my last to encounters in the dating field I have begun to question the entire process and what the point of it even is.
Like I said I saw dating as something very exciting. But slowly it's become something that isn't even fun. I've come to realize that dating is more trouble than it's worth.
My issues with dating start with just how superficial it is. I've had women go out with my just because I am black, just because we were from the same state, just because I like anime, just because I am a writer, just because I am cute and etc. At first I saw this as a compliment. But I've come to realize that women go out with guys for bull**** reasons. I'm a pretty good looking guy, but I'm not Adnois. So say if I am a better match for a woman, but some Brad Pitt looking mother ****er is right next to me, who will get the first chance?
Women go by these bull**** rules too. Like if you follow up too quickly or too late, you're done. If you say one wrong thing, you could be done. You can't even get to the point with a woman to know if something meaningful will happen because most won't give you that chance.
So what will I do? I've decided to put even more focus on my goals in life. I already have dedicated a lot of time and I am seeing more results. But I am going to double down even more if that's possible.
I am going to an acting master class taught my an actor who's taught some very esteemed actors. I am going to continue to audition for roles. I am going to work on my feature film that I wrote and plan on directing and starring in. I am going to finish up a few graphic novels and ship them out to publishers (I am already a published author). I am going to work on my pitch for an animated series (got a big pitch coming soon).
I'm also going to do things that I enjoy. I plan on eventually getting back into racing go kart and open wheel dirt cars. I want to get back into Kung Fu. And I'll hang around with my roommate and watch anime.
Point is that I am just going to do what I want to do. I have no intention of getting married. I would like kids. But if it doesn't happen then I'm okay with that. I do enjoy sex. But I'm okay to go without for a while.
I don't plan on pursuing dating. I'm just so disenchanted with the whole process. I'm happy for couples or guys who enjoy dating. But I suppose it's just not me.
I haven't felt this free in a long time.
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