Toxic friends, friends ****blocking?

[Von]

Something happened me a while ago....

I took a selfie (group pic) of a girl friend of mine (girl A), another girl friend and me.

We posted on FB. Got alot of likes, compliments etc... the usual... the girls are pretty and I looked good with a good photoframe.

It's here that things get weird and friendship toxic.

A guy friend (who liked the picture) suddenly is Facebook friend with her.

I see that and I am alright... 2 days later...

The guy call me... tells me how Girl A added him on Facebook, he has the proof of it... than he goes asking my relationship with her, if she available, if we have plans coming up etc..., how she never respond to a message (or she messaged him) than how he got a promotion etc..

I told him: I am sure you added her, which he said nononono. (I never asked the proof)

I had plans with Girl A the next week, which I never said to the guy... when I confirmed with her... she write: your guy friend wanna come. (so they facebook message each other).

Anyway, I wrote her: ''don't know him much other than he has a girl friend'' which she wrote ''got it''

I am really dissapointed, any way we have great friend in commons so I can't ignore him all the time... but I decided to cut girl A and him from my life.

In the past on FB, each time I would add a picture of me with a girl... he would private message me: Omg, you always with so hot woman, you have to introduce me etc...

He has a girlfriend on top of that (and a pretty one)

Once, he wanted to introduce me a chick... It went initially well with the chicks... but he would never allow us privacy, than would kino her hard, and say to me... gotta me sure she's coming home safe etc etc...

So I guess, he can't control his testoterone... 2 girls I know who meet him told me he sounded fishy.

Anyway.... Girl A is gone for me (she mentionned once how her ex was a toxic, her mom told me how difficult she is etc..)... so I guess she attract crazy guys. My move is to not see her

It's sad to have people like that in your life, best thing to do.... Cut them, and cut them from your circle so they don't damage you.

What you think?

 

[Billtx49]

Something happened me a while ago....

I took a selfie (group pic) of a girl friend of mine (girl A), another girl friend and me.

We posted on FB. Got alot of likes, compliments etc... the usual... the girls are pretty and I looked good with a good photoframe.

It's here that things get weird and friendship toxic.

A guy friend (who liked the picture) suddenly is Facebook friend with her.

I see that and I am alright... 2 days later...

The guy call me... tells me how Girl A added him on Facebook, he has the proof of it... than he goes asking my relationship with her, if she available, if we have plans coming up etc..., how she never respond to a message (or she messaged him) than how he got a promotion etc..

I told him: I am sure you added her, which he said nononono. (I never asked the proof)

I had plans with Girl A the next week, which I never said to the guy... when I confirm with her... she's your guy friend wanna come. (so they facebook message each other).

Anyway, I wrote her: ''don't know him much other than he has a girl friend'' which she wrote ''got it''

I am really dissapointed, any way we have great friend in commons so I can't ignore him all the time... but I decided to cut her and him from my life.

In the past on FB, each time I would add a picture of me with a girl... he would private message me: Omg, you always with so hot woman, you have to introduce me etc...

He still had a girl friend.

Once, he wanted to introduce me a chicks... It went initially well with the chicks... but he would never allow us privacy, than would kino her hard, and say to me... gotta me sure she's coming home safe etc etc...

So I guess, he can't control his testoterone... 2 girls I know who meet him told me he sounded fishy.

Anyway.... Girl A is gone for me (she mentionned once how her ex was a toxic, her mom told me how difficult she is etc..)... so I guess she attract crazy guys (I am one too lol )

It's sad to have people like that in your life, best thing to do.... Cut them, and cut them from your circle so they don't damage you.


What you think?

The right frame to have guy. Sounds like they're getting ready to bounce to each other.
Only keep high quality people in your life. The low quality ones are not worth your attention.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Best thing to do is be confrontational. Get right on up in his face and tell him to quit being a ****block. How can you call someone like this a friend? These are the weakest people imaginable. They act like they are all high and mighty, but when push comes to shove, they're utter wimps who will backstab you just like a woman would regardless of your history together.

 

[Trump]

Something happened me a while ago....

I took a selfie (group pic) of a girl friend of mine (girl A), another girl friend and me.

We posted on FB. Got alot of likes, compliments etc... the usual... the girls are pretty and I looked good with a good photoframe.

It's here that things get weird and friendship toxic.

A guy friend (who liked the picture) suddenly is Facebook friend with her.

I see that and I am alright... 2 days later...

The guy call me... tells me how Girl A added him on Facebook, he has the proof of it... than he goes asking my relationship with her, if she available, if we have plans coming up etc..., how she never respond to a message (or she messaged him) than how he got a promotion etc..

I told him: I am sure you added her, which he said nononono. (I never asked the proof)

Mistake. He wanted to get you rattled over a pretty girl and you showed your emotions.

I had plans with Girl A the next week, which I never said to the guy... when I confirmed with her... she write: your guy friend wanna come. (so they facebook message each other).

Anyway, I wrote her: ''don't know him much other than he has a girl friend'' which she wrote ''got it''

Mistake. I would have said "how does he know we are are going on a 1 on 1 date alone?"

I am really dissapointed, any way we have great friend in commons so I can't ignore him all the time... but I decided to cut girl A and him from my life.

In the past on FB, each time I would add a picture of me with a girl... he would private message me: Omg, you always with so hot woman, you have to introduce me etc...

He has a girlfriend on top of that (and a pretty one)

Once, he wanted to introduce me a chick... It went initially well with the chicks... but he would never allow us privacy, than would kino her hard, and say to me... gotta me sure she's coming home safe etc etc...

So I guess, he can't control his testoterone... 2 girls I know who meet him told me he sounded fishy.

Anyway.... Girl A is gone for me (she mentionned once how her ex was a toxic, her mom told me how difficult she is etc..)... so I guess she attract crazy guys. My move is to not see her

It's sad to have people like that in your life, best thing to do.... Cut them, and cut them from your circle so they don't damage you.

What you think?

Bro guy friends aren't really "friends" and they don't have your best interest at heart. They wouldn't mind if you were dead if they could sleep with your pretty gf as a result. Guy friends are people who you have common interests with and may or may not speak at your funeral. Don't expect them to "care" or "help" you with women.

 

[Von]

Went to the movies with a group of common friend.

You could see he wasnt happy and even ashame.

The girl and the guy are dead personally to me. The girl wasnt even à date but her behaviour and his behaviour were total redflag.

I acted like I was above it, had my fun with the group. Totally ignored him

He's gone.

To being confrontational... War is the last resort when diplomacy fail. If I am confrontanal, it means he touched my émotions. Also, I don't want to hurt the good friends I have, or been seen has the bad guy (cause in their. Head nothing happened)

Like a réd flag women, any ounce of energy you put in dealing with "toxic" is a waste. Some battles can only be won by walking away

 

[LastManstanding]

Something happened me a while ago....

I took a selfie (group pic) of a girl friend of mine (girl A), another girl friend and me.

We posted on FB. Got alot of likes, compliments etc... the usual... the girls are pretty and I looked good with a good photoframe.

It's here that things get weird and friendship toxic.

A guy friend (who liked the picture) suddenly is Facebook friend with her.

I see that and I am alright... 2 days later...

The guy call me... tells me how Girl A added him on Facebook, he has the proof of it... than he goes asking my relationship with her, if she available, if we have plans coming up etc..., how she never respond to a message (or she messaged him) than how he got a promotion etc..

I told him: I am sure you added her, which he said nononono. (I never asked the proof)

I had plans with Girl A the next week, which I never said to the guy... when I confirmed with her... she write: your guy friend wanna come. (so they facebook message each other).

Anyway, I wrote her: ''don't know him much other than he has a girl friend'' which she wrote ''got it''

I am really dissapointed, any way we have great friend in commons so I can't ignore him all the time... but I decided to cut girl A and him from my life.

In the past on FB, each time I would add a picture of me with a girl... he would private message me: Omg, you always with so hot woman, you have to introduce me etc...

He has a girlfriend on top of that (and a pretty one)

Once, he wanted to introduce me a chick... It went initially well with the chicks... but he would never allow us privacy, than would kino her hard, and say to me... gotta me sure she's coming home safe etc etc...

So I guess, he can't control his testoterone... 2 girls I know who meet him told me he sounded fishy.

Anyway.... Girl A is gone for me (she mentionned once how her ex was a toxic, her mom told me how difficult she is etc..)... so I guess she attract crazy guys. My move is to not see her

It's sad to have people like that in your life, best thing to do.... Cut them, and cut them from your circle so they don't damage you.

What you think?

Dude... people like this will not only try to intercept a potential female in your life, but are also prone to be your future Ex GF's "shoulder to cry on"

His actions show a lack of respect for you. Anyone I know that is good with women won't do that ****. They're good with women because they have internalized the fact that there is "A F***ton of them for everybody." I got rid of all those friends man.

Hang out with some real OG's get them laid, they will get you laid. Simple as that.