Sad I missed the boat on young girls..

[Infern0]

Well the guy from lord of the rings and game of thorones too, but again celebrity status weights as much as the right height, a squared jaw, broad shoulders and a full head of hair all togheter.

I believe op at the most could star in a tv show as public.

Op is probably a lazy skinny fat slob so yeah you are probably right.

Point is its on him to get off his lazy ass and sort himself out. Because that's unattractive at any age.

 

[wifehunter]

Forget about it... Age is just a number.

 

[Elastoplast]

Op is probably a lazy skinny fat slob so yeah you are probably right.

Point is its on him to get off his lazy ass and sort himself out. Because that's unattractive at any age.

I'm not actually part of my getting better has been doing rigorous exercise, I do preparatory gymnastics every other day.

I'm not big like weight lifting big but fairly toned.

Still 30 year olds in clubs, it's just not happening, you are invisible to young girls.

 

[Infern0]

I'm not actually part of my getting better has been doing rigorous exercise, I do preparatory gymnastics every other day.

I'm not big like weight lifting big but fairly toned.

Still 30 year olds in clubs, it's just not happening, you are invisible to young girls.

I'm 29 and I KNOW this isn't true.

Maybe YOU are invisible. It's not because you are 30 though.

 

[SteR]

I'm not actually part of my getting better has been doing rigorous exercise, I do preparatory gymnastics every other day.

I'm not big like weight lifting big but fairly toned.

Still 30 year olds in clubs, it's just not happening, you are invisible to young girls.

Haha, absolute nonsense. If you're invisible in clubs I guarantee you it's not your age.

No offense OP, but it seems you're incredibly attached to this idea that you're "too old". Any time you're supposedly dismissed, you automatically jump to your age.

That's fine if that's how you want to play it.. but it's not the truth.

Just to add to the evidence already provided, I've seduced more girls aged ~18-21 since turning 30 than I ever did in my twenties, and that's not even me actively going out of my way to look for them - most of the time they've been the ones trying to get my attention.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Still 30 year olds in clubs, it's just not happening, you are invisible to young girls.

So you've been struggling with mental illness, which is unfortunate, you've had, in your own words, no experience with women and you've already verbally disqualified yourself from having what you really want.

Yet, there are a bunch of healthy, successful guys here who have experience with women, and are telling you that you can have exactly what you want, just like they do.

You don't seem to understand the concept of self-limiting belief.

Watch this.

 

[bigneil]

(In my) observation, there simply are no 30 year olds in these clubs hooking up with young girls. Even a perfect 30 year old will be outgunned by a handsome young 21 year old with old money.

Elastoplast = EyeBRollin/Jaylan warning. This is yet another attempt for her to push her "young guys with daddy's money are hot" agenda. And she's off by 20 years. Again.

And again with the overqualification of "handsome, young (redundant) 21 year old with old money" (i.e., no need for young guys to have jobs). Pathetic. Try again, Latisha.

Latisha should try going to a strip club and seeing the age differences. I know a girl who was 20 who went on a trip with a guy who was 80. Oh wait, they don't accept EBT cards there.

 

[bigneil]

There simply are no 30 year olds in these clubs hooking up with young girls. Even a perfect 30 year old will be outgunned by a handsome young 21 year old with old money.

(As I pick up 19 year and 20 year old women at Hooters, stealing them from 21 year old boy toys, some with money - at age 46, and I'm far from perfect).

 

[Elastoplast]

bigneil I'm not this person you are claiming me to be you can run an IP check.

I never said anything was wrong with a 30+ year old hitting on or getting with an 18-22 year old, just that in my world I see them crash and burn in the way I'd like to experience it. Even one guy I know who was a slayer as a young man and recently broke up with his long term gf, doesn't have the same thing as he did as a young man and I mean in a social context.

You mention strip clubs, yes of course I imagine in that environment that can be the case, I'd find strippers unfulfilling, nothing wrong with getting with them if that floats your boat (although I imagine they are tough to hook up with).

Yet, there are a bunch of healthy, successful guys here who have experience with women, and are telling you that you can have exactly what you want, just like they do.

Yes but I want a little more than just the sex, I'd like it to occur naturally, so going out, socialising, making memories etc. and then naturally meeting and hooking up with girls, I was a popular guy and nearly participated in all of this if not for my illness, so I saw it with my very own eyes not my imagination.

Just having sex with a hot girl 10 years younger than me is not going to exactly fulfill me, socialising, going out with friends girls and guys, having fun and then hooking up with one of them would, except for the one catch is I'm 31 and not 20-25, so I'd stick out like a sore thumb.

I personally don't feel ok being older trying to hook up with young girls, if you can get over this and enjoy it, kudos to you.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Just having sex with a hot girl 10 years younger than me is not going to exactly fulfill me, socialising, going out with friends girls and guys, having fun and then hooking up with one of them would, except for the one catch is I'm 31 and not 20-25, so I'd stick out like a sore thumb.

How do you know you won't be fulfilled if you have no experience? How do you know how 'difficult' it is to pull a hot chick if you've never done it? You've taken this thread in a complete circle.

Work out what you want and work out what you need to do to achieve it.

At the moment you're just making excuses for everything you don't have.

 

[Elastoplast]

How do you know you won't be fulfilled if you have no experience?

Because I'm not in my prime wanting to hook up and have relationships with prime girls, in a context where everyone is in their prime.

I'm not a virgin but the very few experiences I've had are not worth talking about, precisely because they were not socialised.

So paying for sex with a hot 19 year old, while ok, would not fulfill me.

 

[Elastoplast]

Some guy here will tell you that age doesnt matter and that he still scores 18yrs old girls at 50, credit to him but personally I wouldnt feel that relaxed to deal with someone that probably doesnt even realize whats going on, knows nothing about movies or media I like, and has basically a group of friends who make it all more complicate for us.

I think this hits the nail on the head. I'm not sure I feel comfortable with it, it's not social programming since I have no issue if someone does it but its more personally psychosocial/biological.

I thought 30 was ancient when I was an 18-20 year old let alone 31. So in that sense I feel yes the boat has sailed.

 

[Elastoplast]

When I was 22, I dated an 18 year old. I was wracked with the thought that "this is the last time I will be able to have sex with an 18 year old". No joke

I went to a big house party aged 25 which started with a dinner and we (the 25 year old mostly male group) were deliberately separated from the 18 year olds (mostly female group) by the parents so that we didn't hook up with them, so that's not a foregone conclusion. Again I had to leave mid party because I was unwell.

That's the last time I went to party with 18 year olds present.

 

[bigneil]

I think this hits the nail on the head. I'm not sure I feel comfortable with it, it's not social programming since I have no issue if someone does it but its more personally psychosocial/biological.

I thought 30 was ancient when I was an 18-20 year old let alone 31. So in that sense I feel yes the boat has sailed.

You're basing things on how you felt when you were totally naïve? Why stop there? Why not ask a 1 year old how old 30 is?

18 year old women love 30 year old men.

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

You have to love how people are bringing up celebrities to counteract the whole point of the thread and @bigneil is losing it yet again.

As for OP, find hobbies and get out there. I think you can still date and get with girls who are in their mid or late 20s and have a very fun time doing it. Don't be that older guy that lusts after college girls and gets seen as a creep.

 

[Infern0]

You're basing things on how you felt when you were totally naïve? Why stop there? Why not ask a 1 year old how old 30 is?

18 year old women love 30 year old men.

I agree with op.

When I was 18 I was looking at 30 ulyear olds such as Jennifer Aniston and Angelina Jolie and others and thinking ew they are so old. I wouldn't sleep with them if they paid me.

Op

Sort yourself out mate.

 

[Elastoplast]

I agree with op.

When I was 18 I was looking at 30 ulyear olds such as Jennifer Aniston and Angelina Jolie and others and thinking ew they are so old. I wouldn't sleep with them if they paid me.

Op

Sort yourself out mate.

So yea basically it's over I missed the boat, ****ing sad for me...

Not sure I can really get over this one, and not sure I can make up for it by going for girls my age, since that just makes me feel like **** too.

 

[Infern0]

So yea basically it's over I missed the boat, ****ing sad for me...

Not sure I can really get over this one, and not sure I can make up for it by going for girls my age, since that just makes me feel like **** too.

Time to lay down and rot I guess.

 

[Elastoplast]

Time to lay down and rot I guess.

No... just accept that I'll never fulfill my desires and experience women particularly young women in my life and move on.

 

[bigneil]

At age 46, I just spent the night with a gorgeous 26 year old and did a Roaring 20's modeling shoot. I had never laid a finger on her after several shoots, but I couldn't let that opportunity slip away. It's now or never in that situation.

So in the past 6 weeks I've spent the night with 4 beautiful girls ages 19, 20, 22 and 26.

Note that the 19 and 26 year olds were throwing themselves at me after seeing the photos I took of the 20 year old.