What you say when a girl doesn't counter offer.

[wifehunter]

Dispite what love doctors and coaches say... No counter offer = playing hard to get or not interested.

Either way say: "Have a good day!" and walk away. If she's just playing hard to get, she'll chase. If not, no big loss.

 

[BeTheChange]

See...now you've got yourself a solid plate.

Confident persistence is key. Unless she actually says "LEAVE ME ALONE" everything else is a green light. All these guys advocating dropping a girl just because she flakes once or doesn't counter offer are mindfvcking themselves out of a harem of decent chicks. Good on you Payaso. Keep it up.

 

[Floydispink01]

"No. You're not a slvt. You're my slvt."

Great response mate.

 

[Floydispink01]

I had a last minute flake last week. Sent me some long winded message saying she's had a tough day in work etc etc. I didn't bother responding.

She seen that I read it and sent me a follow up text the next day to try and reschedule.

I read that and didn't respond either.

 

[icantgetlaid]

Dispite what love doctors and coaches say... No counter offer = playing hard to get or not interested.

If a girl doesn't accept a date/doesn't counter offer .. i'll go no contact for a week or so. If i don't hear back from her during no contact, i'll give it one more shot before perma-nexting. And she'll have to display REALLY responsive & enthusiastic behavior during this second contact in order for me to continue to invest anymore time in her.

One of the 10 commandments in the DJ bible should be: Anything other than an overt 'yes' means 'no'.

In *almost* every situation where a girl initially declined a date (even with a counter offer, and even if she did end up accepting a date at a later time) it was almost *always* an uphill battle on my part that required more effort/time than it ended up being worth.

I was watching a youtube video (it is difficult to locate or i would link it here) ... and it was amazing the lengths girls were willing to go to spend time with a guy that got their attention: They would ditch their friends on the spot, they would alter any plans they had, they would go to alleys/cars for sex, get in strange guys cars they just met ... etc. When a girl is interested, she'll go above and beyond to make herself available.

 

[sazc]

"No. You're not a slvt. You're my slvt."

Great response mate.

yep, this had me chuckling as well lol

 

[sazc]

If a girl doesn't accept a date/doesn't counter offer .. i'll go no contact for a week or so. If i don't hear back from her during no contact, i'll give it one more shot before perma-nexting. And she'll have to display REALLY responsive & enthusiastic behavior during this second contact in order for me to continue to invest anymore time in her.

One of the 10 commandments in the DJ bible should be: Anything other than an overt 'yes' means 'no'.

In *almost* every situation where a girl initially declined a date (even with a counter offer, and even if she did end up accepting a date at a later time) it was almost *always* an uphill battle on my part that required more effort/time than it ended up being worth.

I was watching a youtube video (it is difficult to locate or i would link it here) ... and it was amazing the lengths girls were willing to go when they saw a guy they were attracted to. These girls would ditch their friends, even while their friends were telling them they were crazy, not to go, etc. they would get in a car with a complete stranger, go to alleys for sex, etc. WHEN A GIRL IS INTERESTED YOU BECOME THEIR #1 PLAN.

if I counter it is because, I just happen to be busy, butI like you and want to see you, and am trying to convey that to you
if I dont counter then it's because I am not interested OR I'm playing a game to see how interested you are in me

That's just me, I cant speak for all chicks.

I agree with going NC and waiting and seeing. Turning a 'no counter' chick into a plate means you have to continue to chase her so you can ask her out. I suppose if you can successfully bed her, its worth it. It just seems like you are spending time on something that doesn't have high probability of working out, at all.

 

[sazc]

I had a last minute flake last week. Sent me some long winded message saying she's had a tough day in work etc etc. I didn't bother responding.

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This is what you want to do. Have standards. Set the standard. If she responded the next day to reschedule, then she is interested. It's up to you to decide what to do with that.

 

[wifehunter]

if I counter it is because, I just happen to be busy, butI like you and want to see you, and am trying to convey that to you
if I dont counter then it's because I am not interested OR I'm playing a game to see how interested you are in me

That's just me, I cant speak for all chicks.

I agree with going NC and waiting and seeing. Turning a 'no counter' chick into a plate means you have to continue to chase her so you can ask her out. I suppose if you can successfully bed her, its worth it. It just seems like you are spending time on something that doesn't have high probability of working out, at all.

Is too much chasings. Lol!!!

 

[way2smart]

See...now you've got yourself a solid plate.

Confident persistence is key. Unless she actually says "LEAVE ME ALONE" everything else is a green light. All these guys advocating dropping a girl just because she flakes once or doesn't counter offer are mindfvcking themselves out of a harem of decent chicks. Good on you Payaso. Keep it up.

This! I have had many many real life examples when a girl said she was busy on a particular day and didn't counter offer. I just ask her when she is free and we meet up.

This is the conversation i had with a solid 9 which I am currently banging:

Me: Hey how is your day going?
Her: Good, how about yours?
Me: Good. Do you like sushi?
Her: Yes, why?
Me: How about a dinner at a sushi place tomorrow at 8?
Her: Can't I have workout session at gym (NO COUNTER OFFER)
Me: Ok, how about Sunday at 8pm?
Her: Sure, that works.

We met then I ended up banging her on the second date and every other day since.

If I acted too butt hurt and nexted her after no counter offer then I would be missing on a great chic

 

[Dash Riprock]

This! I have had many many real life examples when a girl said she was busy on a particular day and didn't counter offer. I just ask her when she is free and we meet up.

This is the conversation i had with a solid 9 which I am currently banging:

Me: Hey how is your day going?
Her: Good, how about yours?
Me: Good. Do you like sushi?
Her: Yes, why?
Me: How about a dinner at a sushi place tomorrow at 8?
Her: Can't I have workout session at gym (NO COUNTER OFFER)
Me: Ok, how about Sunday at 8pm?
Her: Sure, that works.

We met then I ended up banging her on the second date and every other day since.

If I acted too butt hurt and nexted her after no counter offer then I would be missing on a great chic

You can avoid the whole "no counter" thing by simply asking when she's free. A revision on the above text chain:

Me: Hey how is your day going?
Her: Good, how about yours?
Me: Good. Do you like sushi?
Her: Yes, why?
Me: Let's go to Sushi Zan Mai, when you free?
Her: I'm free on Sunday night.
Me: Sure, that works. Let's do 8. Talk soon.