BackInTheGame78
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Biggest issue I see with men is they spend 95% of their time, energy and efforts with women trying to convince uninterested women to become more interested rather than spending that time, energy and effort effectively by finding more women who are already interested.
By far this is the one thing you can implement that will have an immediate impact. The girl isn't interested? It's OK...really...just relegate her to the 5% club and actively go out and find more women who are highly interested already. Whether it's online, social circle, cold approaches, warm approaches(service industry people like retail stores, waitresses, etc), etc.
Stop being lazy. Lazy is the reason why guys end up posting the majority of posts in this forum. They think because they have spent time and energy getting a woman to go out with them, get their number, etc they need to make it work, and will go to extraordinary lengths to try and get her to change her mind to prevent them from having to do more work.
This is a TERRIBLE mindset. If you buy a share of stock at $100 and something bad happens to the company they will never recover from and the stock starts falling, you sell it ASAP and get out to cut your losses. Instead, guys do the equivalent of holding the stock and holding the stock and hoping it recovers until it becomes worthless and the company goes bankrupt and you've lost all your money. When you could have only lost $25 out of the $100 and then taken the remaining $75 and invested it into a stock that will make money. Think of your time like this. You only have x amount of hours each week you can spend talking with/dating/fvcking women. Cut your losses and take the remaining time and invest it into something that will produce dividends rather than become worthless...
STOP. JUST STOP. Embrace the work. It will get you laid, it will get you more women than you have time for and it will make you look back and wonder "What the hell was I doing??" thinking about your previous self...
Just stop investing time and energy into these uninterested women, and invest it into yourself...put the work in, talk to and go out with more women and look at it as a numbers game. Which is what it is. The more women you talk with, the more uninterested women you'll find and the more interested women you'll find. The uninterested will always outnumber the interested so handle them appropriately and relegate them to the 5% club.
By far this is the one thing you can implement that will have an immediate impact. The girl isn't interested? It's OK...really...just relegate her to the 5% club and actively go out and find more women who are highly interested already. Whether it's online, social circle, cold approaches, warm approaches(service industry people like retail stores, waitresses, etc), etc.
Stop being lazy. Lazy is the reason why guys end up posting the majority of posts in this forum. They think because they have spent time and energy getting a woman to go out with them, get their number, etc they need to make it work, and will go to extraordinary lengths to try and get her to change her mind to prevent them from having to do more work.
This is a TERRIBLE mindset. If you buy a share of stock at $100 and something bad happens to the company they will never recover from and the stock starts falling, you sell it ASAP and get out to cut your losses. Instead, guys do the equivalent of holding the stock and holding the stock and hoping it recovers until it becomes worthless and the company goes bankrupt and you've lost all your money. When you could have only lost $25 out of the $100 and then taken the remaining $75 and invested it into a stock that will make money. Think of your time like this. You only have x amount of hours each week you can spend talking with/dating/fvcking women. Cut your losses and take the remaining time and invest it into something that will produce dividends rather than become worthless...
STOP. JUST STOP. Embrace the work. It will get you laid, it will get you more women than you have time for and it will make you look back and wonder "What the hell was I doing??" thinking about your previous self...
Just stop investing time and energy into these uninterested women, and invest it into yourself...put the work in, talk to and go out with more women and look at it as a numbers game. Which is what it is. The more women you talk with, the more uninterested women you'll find and the more interested women you'll find. The uninterested will always outnumber the interested so handle them appropriately and relegate them to the 5% club.
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