Eternal_water
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Thus far I am glad to say I do not yet have oneitis and still having sex with her.
I'm 25 and I lost my virginity last night.
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lol golden.
I find it slightly ironic you say that on this forum.
Nevertheless pretty awesome.
This was huge. At 25, you were facing a lifetime of being a virgin if you hadn't strived to improve yourself at the gym. Try eating organic as well and congrats. I was almost 20 when I lost my virginity and when I called my best friend and said "Guess what?" he said "You got laid. I could tell by your tone of voice".
mrgoodstuff
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I lost my virginity at 16. It seemed like everything in the world appeared different afterwards to me. Anyway my dad could tell as I was walking home from 100 ft away that I had got some. I guess it was in my swagger.
Scars
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There is some truth to this.. I've noticed when I'm spinning many plates, getting sex from multiple woman at the same time, your confidence is through the roof. Maybe it's the pheromones, or whatever.. but you just give off this vibe like "I got it". Woman also pick on this... if I'm getting tons of sex, then the more woman I meet who want to engage in sex... it's like feast or famine sometimes. But you get the ball rolling, it just snowballs from there. Suddenly you don't have to overthink everything, if a woman is putting up a bunch of sh!t tests you just move on to your other side chick.. simple as that. You're no longer "faking" it. You're just living the dream.
mrgoodstuff
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It's true. Have you ever had a long enough drought to wear this effect off? It seems like when you are "dry" of pvssy, that it is very hard to get some. When you are "wet" of pvssy it is very much easier and others want to give it to you.
"if i had her you can have her man it don't matter" the weeknd
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Absolutely, when I lost my virginity at 21 without much effort after a lifetime of worrying and perceived inadequacy, suddenly all her friends were coming to check me out at work, and I could have probably f*cked them without overthinking it. I didn't, alas. Now I'm on a dry spell which has chicks practically running from me, they can smell the dryness lol
Mike32ct
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Dry spells are self-perpetuating. (I'm in a record-breaking one now.). I'm not sure of the exact mechanism that makes it so. I'm guessing that there is some extremely subtle awkwardness/neediness/creepiness that creeps in (pun intended) to the guy's vibe, body language, facial expressions, etc.
For example, the guy already getting laid may be completely unaffected by her low cut top and D boobs. But the horny dry spell guy's eyes might get big and drift south while talking to her lol. And she picks up on this unconsciously and sets off a less than comfortable red flag.
So while I harp on looks a lot, I do acknowledge that some very subtle body language things are potentially going on beyond your conscious awareness and hers.
That's why it's so important to "ride the wave" and enjoy the "feast" portion of the feast/famine cycle, whether it's hooking up with the same girl multiple times or having multiple hookups with different women.
As we said, congrats to OP and "ride the wave" for all it's worth!
For example, the guy already getting laid may be completely unaffected by her low cut top and D boobs. But the horny dry spell guy's eyes might get big and drift south while talking to her lol. And she picks up on this unconsciously and sets off a less than comfortable red flag.
So while I harp on looks a lot, I do acknowledge that some very subtle body language things are potentially going on beyond your conscious awareness and hers.
That's why it's so important to "ride the wave" and enjoy the "feast" portion of the feast/famine cycle, whether it's hooking up with the same girl multiple times or having multiple hookups with different women.
As we said, congrats to OP and "ride the wave" for all it's worth!
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Thatfeel21
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Right! This should be a topic in of itself. Im currently in a drought, my first one since 2010, with no forseeable escape. Im almost embracing it because I feel like I NEED to accept the fact that things may dry up from time to time in a mans life. A man can either act extra thirsty, or learn to manage the drought in a more effective way. Doing the latter.
mrgoodstuff
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You can "pay" someone to get you "wet", but I still think it makes a difference... It's going to be better that a lady gave it to you because she WANTED to and that she DESIRED you.
Scars
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I wouldn't pay a hooker personally just to get over a "dry spell". It doesn't feel like an accomplishment to me, and I would probably be more insecure about it and it would probably have a negative effect.
I think this is why it's important to secure some solid FWB's. I had a ton of them before I signed the dotted line to the "family" life.. now that' I'm out of it, I'm back to square one. But I had a solid 3-4 chicks, that whenever they weren't dating someone else (and even sometimes then) were always down to fvck, and there was no "catching feelings" or any of that crap. We both knew what the deal was.
But yeah... once you start getting ***** it seems to just magnetize towards you afterwards.
I think this is why it's important to secure some solid FWB's. I had a ton of them before I signed the dotted line to the "family" life.. now that' I'm out of it, I'm back to square one. But I had a solid 3-4 chicks, that whenever they weren't dating someone else (and even sometimes then) were always down to fvck, and there was no "catching feelings" or any of that crap. We both knew what the deal was.
But yeah... once you start getting ***** it seems to just magnetize towards you afterwards.
Mike32ct
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I wouldn't go the hooker route either for several reasons.
1. Generally limited to one hour unless you pay big $$$.
2. She hates you and just wants to get it over with and collect the $, even if she pretends to be nice to you.
3. Legal concerns
4. Feeling worse afterwards that you had to resort to this.
1. Generally limited to one hour unless you pay big $$$.
2. She hates you and just wants to get it over with and collect the $, even if she pretends to be nice to you.
3. Legal concerns
4. Feeling worse afterwards that you had to resort to this.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
That's why I said the "wet" from someone who desired to do it is going to be much more effective. This is the type of attention you need to be soaking up, not the attention from a hooker who is TOLERATING your presence and doing her job...
Thatfeel21
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Thats the one thing I would never do. Im decent looking, make good money, educated, drive a nice car, and slowly getting my gym physique back. How is it any fun paying for it? I rather just continue to get wet using my right hand
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Bingo-Player
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sex is just one of those things that you want so much when you don't have it
and then when you have it its just like ffs was that it
unless its with a chick you really want, whos good in bed but a lot of them arent and are quite stiff in the sack which makes it boring
and then when you have it its just like ffs was that it
unless its with a chick you really want, whos good in bed but a lot of them arent and are quite stiff in the sack which makes it boring
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
A boring lay that is somewhat trainable is 200% better than your hand... Plus you get in puzzzy, which is very very important to our male essense.
But what about all of the racist escort ads that have all of these restrictions of seeing certain types of clients (i.e. no blacks, etc...). Does that imply that even on that level she's desiring certain types of guys over others? If a woman is getting physical with you doesn't that mess with your mind, no matter what the premise of that is? If you were really repulsive, or clearly in her category of exclusion, then you'd be passed as a client.
Most escorts collect the money before they provide the service. If she really wanted to do that, then she could just show you the door after she got the money or make excuses. The limiting issue means you are in control of the whole thing since you know she's going to be gone.
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Not everywhere it's illegal, or if it's legal it's actually enforced rigorously. In fact I think indoors operations are less likely to be enforced.
I can say though, you forgot 5. So I'll write it.
5. The escort could have demons that could attack you and cause you to get a panic attack. She could be involved in black magic and be evil.
If that's the case then you are ****ed.
That one reason is good enough for me to stay away. The other reasons are lame and wouldn't stop me objectively if I wanted to see an escort. You get good and bad service out there and she's there to please you. In a spiritual vacuum where there are no evil spirits or demons I'd say it sounds like a good idea since you have immediate access to a warm woman's body. That messes with your mind.
The fun is in the fact that you got a woman to submit to your carnal desires over money and she can't say no to you. You can only say no to her sexual advances. For that brief moment you feel like you can do anything to her and she has to take it and all you did to set it up was throw some money at her. It's like she's your b1tch. You are paying her to be your b1tch and nobody can do anything about it when you are with her.
When I was with the escort ( 2 years ago), it was like she was my hor for that moment and you just get off on her like she's your b1tch.
But just because it's fun doesn't mean it's safe on the mind. I can say that I had a nervous breakdown and that, while I thought she was my b1tch, it looks like I was the b1tch of evil spirits around her because I got sorely tormented afterwards for at least over a month.
Up to this day, I haven't met any other guy to corroborate that they got attacked by devils after dealing with a prostitute, except on the exorcist TV (Bob Larson). Go figure.
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