How to react when she responds?

[James184]

So,last Saturday I went to a friend's birthday party.I was at the top of game that night and played my cards correctly so the girl I liked approached me first.Needless to say half a hour later we were making out,this dragged on through the whole night.She studies at another city,about 5 hours from my hometown but visits ever week/week and a half for 3-4 days.She went away to her college the day after and since then has been texting me on a daily basis.I try to keep the conversations as short as possible until she comes back this Thursday.

I confess I too am really into her however a thing I have learned here is that under no circumstances must you tolerate behavior you don't like from any woman or she will do it again sooner or later.So today after a couple of texts about 6 hours ago she stopped responding.It didn't bother me at first however I saw her online 2-3 times throughout this time span up to now.Of course I'm not gonna bother until she texts me again but my question to you is what should my reaction be?

At first I thought just completely ignoring it would be the way to go but I want to find a way to demonstrate that I am not ok with this kind of sh*t,disappearing without justifying why for such a long time that is,without sounding butthurt.Also,should I take my sweet time responding to her?

 

[KingofPuss]

She has a life and you have a life. Sometimes I don't realize when people have texted me. It happens.

Youve known this girl for barely any length of time, and neither of you have an investment in each other. Let her reach out to you when she does, and until then keep going about your business. Trust your gut, it sounds like you have a good understanding of the DJ ways

 

[Dan Bautista]

Either she is trying to create drama by purposefully ignoring you and making this obvious at the same time to get you pissed or she's actually busy and can't get back to you.

Personally, I would not text her back because if she is trying to create drama then she'll only be encouraged to do so even more by your texts and if she actually is busy, she'll eventually text you back.

 

[James184]

She has a life and you have a life. Sometimes I don't realize when people have texted me. It happens.

Youve known this girl for barely any length of time, and neither of you have an investment in each other. Let her reach out to you when she does, and until then keep going about your business. Trust your gut, it sounds like you have a good understanding of the DJ ways

I believe that what you mean by that is that I should take a step back,relax and not put that much thought into it,which I am completely fine with.It is true that we barely know each other so I can't really tell if this is something she does on a regular basis.The fact that this was the first time it happened though made me wonder if I should take any kind of action when she reaches out again.

Either she is trying to create drama by purposefully ignoring you and making this obvious at the same time to get you pissed or she's actually busy and can't get back to you.

Personally, I would not text her back because if she is trying to create drama then she'll only be encouraged to do so even more by your texts and if she actually is busy, she'll eventually text you back.

I always give women the benefit of the doubt,the first time that is so I guess it is the latter.I really don't see a point in texting again until she reaches out though.

 

[Dan Bautista]

I believe that what you mean by that is that I should take a step back,relax and not put that much thought into it,which I am completely fine with.It is true that we barely know each other so I can't really tell if this is something she does on a regular basis.The fact that this was the first time it happened though made me wonder if I should take any kind of action when she reaches out again.




I always give women the benefit of the doubt,the first time that is so I guess it is the latter.I really don't see a point in texting again until she reaches out though.

Absolutely don't text back. If she's interested and genuinely busy, she'll text you back. If this is her trying to create drama by purposefully ignoring you and you don't respond to it, she'll eventually realize she has failed and will text you back.

If she has lost interest, however, she won't and that's when you know it's time to move on.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This is completely retarded. Getting "mad" someone hasn't texted you in a few hours is just stupid and will lead to you acting needy and desperate sooner rather than later.