The main issue is not meeting enough women

[Pandora]

The source of most guys issues is that most guys are just not meeting enough women. Dating is a numbers game. I cant stress that enough. If you met even 10 new women weekly then your dating issues would be solved. No matter how cool you are a large percentage of the female population will still act funny towards you. Females have all types of head issues and many cant recognize value anyway. Another percentage will like you for you though.

It always fascinates me that i can go up to one girl and she totally blow me off then i go up to another girl who is hotter and she totally digs my vibe. That is just how humans are. Girls like guys for mysterious reasons and dont like others for mysterious reasons. Just the other night i was out and i went up to the hottest girls at the bar. I was shocked when we vibed so well. Amazingly well. This girl was gorgeous. But this was just after i had been totally ignored by a group of 7's and 6s. So if you are reasonably attractive and have decent game all we have to do is play the numbers game.

The main issue is that in our modern society we just dont meet alot of people. We live such isolated lives. It makes it difficult to find women. So we live in a state of scarcity. Scarcity leads to AFC ness. Once we conquer scarcity we are good.

 

[Fruitbat]

I am fairly convinced a lot of the reasons we have the manosphere is because in western countries the male demographic for young to middle age is massively over populated with males. Most mass immigration to western countries is male.

Sure, many are poor but I would estimate it's 60/40 for 20-30 in UK...and every male, both the indigenous and the migrant, want to meet the western female for partnership if they are not married. It's part of the dream. Quite **** for western men and hence women are spoiled and men now need to inject testosterone and wax etc to find a partner as the competition is intense.

Yes, there are some female single immigrants but these are vastly outnumbered. Plus, those females are the upwardly mobile ones. The homely women are at home.

 

[Who Dares Win]

You both have a point, hard to disagree that meeting more women would increase the chance to find one you click with but at the same time any damn place of gathering for young people is overcrowded from men with very few women.

The only places where women are the majority are the place where you dont wanna have them like workplaces as colleagues, schools as teachers or hospitals as doctors...generally it seems like there is some fabric that keeps throwing out middle aged women.

Now its not just a matter of numbers but the fact that the M to F ratio influences the dynamics of the interaction, just throw a fattie in a club and she become a spoiled brat let alone an average girl.

Just think about it, you go to school and you're lucky if the ratio is 50-50 but then you check out the teachers and you notice that 80% are women...there are some social factors involved or God is simply trolling and getting rich selling PUA material.

 

[Filter]

Hard to meet a lot of quality ones on a regular basis, in my opinion. Almost 80% of my free time is dedicated to physical training, rather not fvck a girl at the gym I train at since it's the best gym in the area. But, I feel like women that are dedicating so much time to something are usually on the higher side of the quality spectrum. Lower quality women seem to not have any serious hobbies other than "travelling, family, my cat."

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Hard to meet a lot of quality ones on a regular basis, in my opinion. Almost 80% of my free time is dedicated to physical training, rather not fvck a girl at the gym I train at since it's the best gym in the area. But, I feel like women that are dedicating so much time to something are usually on the higher side of the quality spectrum. Lower quality women seem to not have any serious hobbies other than "travelling, family, my cat."

They travel and party a lot, spend all their and others money... Going around seeing each other instead of getting stuff done.

 

[Roober]

Hard to meet a lot of quality ones on a regular basis, in my opinion. Almost 80% of my free time is dedicated to physical training, rather not fvck a girl at the gym I train at since it's the best gym in the area. But, I feel like women that are dedicating so much time to something are usually on the higher side of the quality spectrum. Lower quality women seem to not have any serious hobbies other than "travelling, family, my cat."

Agreed!

 

[The Duke]

Lower quality women seem to not have any serious hobbies other than "travelling, family, my cat."

I went thru a lot of women before I figured this out. Also look for ones that volunteer.

 

[blind_one]

Lower quality women seem to not have any serious hobbies other than "travelling, family, my cat."

This so much .... last four women I met were like that, so we went the traveling route but dayum they were booring : O

 

[Roober]

Lower quality women seem to not have any serious hobbies other than "travelling, family, my cat."

I think this statement may be bible worthy. High quality women actually have things going on in their lives. And I am sorry, but kids are no excuse. I take my boys to my activities and they fvcking love it.