Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I'm a quite surprised at some of the replies too.
How short is it now that it's been cut? Is it only short relative to its former length, or is it short by every standard?
Because of the newness of the relationship, I would probably stop short of pushing meetups till later, but I would absolutely indicate that I don't like it (if I didn't like it). I might ask her why she asked my opinion about her hair if she was going to cut it anyway.
You're going to have to see if she has other qualities that eclipse this test. She may have been thinking about it for quite some time, before meeting you, and she may feel that it's too early in the relationship to acquiesce to your wishes about it. There hasn't been enough of an investment yet.
So if it were me, if I didn't like it I would tell her that I wasn't crazy about it, while looking away in the distance, as if I didn't really want to look at it. Don't play it up big, just voice your displeasure (again, only if you don't like it) and while moving forward evaluate her further to determine if she develops a submissive or rebellious spirit with you.
If this was a long-term relationship and my woman cut her hair short, I would punish her very severely as I would view it as direct defiance. My girl would never do that, but as I always preach to the guys here, I've already covered that in conversation, in a subtle way. She readily agrees and loves the fact that I set parameters. But that's not the case with you guys. I'm thinking it has been on her mind for quite some time and it's just too early for her to accommodate your wishes.
So subtle disapproval is your best bet in my opinion, and I personally would also ask why she asked my opinion if she was going to cut it anyway. Putting women on the spot is very important in terms of being a dominant man (which is what healthy women want).
This should all be done in a non-chalant way, not an angry, direct way. A little subtle, quiet conveyed disappointment is a nuclear weapon with women, while direct confrontation is a boomerang that will only swing back and hit you in the head. Never discuss things like this... quiet disapproval or disappointment will move mountains.
She sees you as responding, not reacting, with self-control. This tends to make women crave your approval.
Nutshell: Convey disappointment if you don't like it but give her and the relationship a chance. You hold all the cards.
How short is it now that it's been cut? Is it only short relative to its former length, or is it short by every standard?
Because of the newness of the relationship, I would probably stop short of pushing meetups till later, but I would absolutely indicate that I don't like it (if I didn't like it). I might ask her why she asked my opinion about her hair if she was going to cut it anyway.
You're going to have to see if she has other qualities that eclipse this test. She may have been thinking about it for quite some time, before meeting you, and she may feel that it's too early in the relationship to acquiesce to your wishes about it. There hasn't been enough of an investment yet.
So if it were me, if I didn't like it I would tell her that I wasn't crazy about it, while looking away in the distance, as if I didn't really want to look at it. Don't play it up big, just voice your displeasure (again, only if you don't like it) and while moving forward evaluate her further to determine if she develops a submissive or rebellious spirit with you.
If this was a long-term relationship and my woman cut her hair short, I would punish her very severely as I would view it as direct defiance. My girl would never do that, but as I always preach to the guys here, I've already covered that in conversation, in a subtle way. She readily agrees and loves the fact that I set parameters. But that's not the case with you guys. I'm thinking it has been on her mind for quite some time and it's just too early for her to accommodate your wishes.
So subtle disapproval is your best bet in my opinion, and I personally would also ask why she asked my opinion if she was going to cut it anyway. Putting women on the spot is very important in terms of being a dominant man (which is what healthy women want).
This should all be done in a non-chalant way, not an angry, direct way. A little subtle, quiet conveyed disappointment is a nuclear weapon with women, while direct confrontation is a boomerang that will only swing back and hit you in the head. Never discuss things like this... quiet disapproval or disappointment will move mountains.
She sees you as responding, not reacting, with self-control. This tends to make women crave your approval.
Nutshell: Convey disappointment if you don't like it but give her and the relationship a chance. You hold all the cards.
