Please drop some advice

[luciferianxx]

I've been dating this girl since 5 months and she's really sweet, mild mannered, talented and good looking, she seems really into me and parades me on social media and to her friends and family but some things look sketchy

Some background
-Has a divorced father who remarried and she lives with her mom

-Says her ex wrote stuff outside her house in anger

-Joked about stabbing ex when I pushed for why they broke up

-Says her ex cried and beat himself and she laughed

-Lot of tattoos and says her tattoo artist is good looking, he drew on her tits and near her vagina

-Has jumped from guy to guy

-We have had been having sex since day 1, doesn't mind rawdog

-Quickly becomes friends with guys and has a lot of them

-No constant girlfriend

-Her mom apparently talks about 'girl on girl' and they support LGBT and are feminists

-She self harms and shows me during sex

-She sometimes crawls on the floor and barks to scare her sister giggling

-Once barked during sex

-Has printed screenshots of pregnancy talks to the same ex

-Her sister beats walls till bruised and posts pictures

-She lies about having blades and needles

-Never shouts or rages but starts scratching herself

-Saw texts to ex.
Ex: Miss me ?
Her: Yea not the sex tho
Ex: why ?
Her: it's overpowering
She said she was joking and started crying when I confronted and I gave her the benefit of doubt

- Multiple guys texting her to meet and she goes like Monday to Friday anytime, apparently they are her close guy friends

- I tell her to stop having sex and get to know each other and she texts nice girls end up dead in alley

- threatens to cut my d1ck off if I fvck someone else

- Takes pics of me when I'm not looking/ sleeping

- Tries to scare me with various 'pranks'

- Has grandiose love fantasies and dreams

 

[Desdinova]

-Has a divorced father who remarried and she lives with her mom

She's likely going to have issues when it comes to how she treats men.

-Says her ex wrote stuff outside her house in anger

-Joked about stabbing ex when I pushed for why they broke up

-Says her ex cried and beat himself and she laughed

-Has printed screenshots of pregnancy talks to the same ex

-Saw texts to ex.
Ex: Miss me ?
Her: Yea not the sex tho
Ex: why ?
Her: it's overpowering

This is the man who's at the top of her high score list. She's already found her "soulmate". Move on, nothing to see here.

-Lot of tattoos and says her tattoo artist is good looking, he drew on her tits and near her vagina

Impulsive spending on junk and wh0rish attributes, all wrapped up into one!

-Has jumped from guy to guy

-Quickly becomes friends with guys and has a lot of them

- Multiple guys texting her to meet and she goes like Monday to Friday anytime, apparently they are her close guy friends

Orbiters serve multiple purposes: To give her a constant flow of male attention, to maintain a steady flow of drama in her life, and to have multiple options when she's not getting laid.

-She self harms and shows me during sex

-She sometimes crawls on the floor and barks to scare her sister giggling

-Once barked during sex

-She lies about having blades and needles

-Never shouts or rages but starts scratching herself

Psychological problems galore.

I don't even know why you posted this. You already know this woman is fvcked in the head. Why do you need confirmation? She is NOT girlfriend material. She is fvck and chuck material.

she's really sweet, mild mannered, talented and good looking

There are lots of women like that out there WITHOUT all these fvcked up personality traits. Those are the ones you wanna make your GF. This one is going to cause you nothing but frustration and drama. I would dump her and move on.

 

[C00lAF]

She's likely going to have issues when it comes to how she treats men.



This is the man who's at the top of her high score list. She's already found her "soulmate". Move on, nothing to see here.



Impulsive spending on junk and wh0rish attributes, all wrapped up into one!



Orbiters serve multiple purposes: To give her a constant flow of male attention, to maintain a steady flow of drama in her life, and to have multiple options when she's not getting laid.



Psychological problems galore.

I don't even know why you posted this. You already know this woman is fvcked in the head. Why do you need confirmation? She is NOT girlfriend material. She is fvck and chuck material.



There are lots of women like that out there WITHOUT all these fvcked up personality traits. Those are the ones you wanna make your GF. This one is going to cause you nothing but frustration and drama. I would dump her and move on.

Its kinda hard for a guy to give up on a chick esp if he is having sex with her without condition.she is using that to keep him around cause she aint got sh1t to offer. Id keep her as a fck buddy and nothing more

 

[luciferianxx]

Its kinda hard for a guy to give up on a chick esp if he is having sex with her without condition.she is using that to keep him around cause she aint got sh1t to offer. Id keep her as a fck buddy and nothing more

I have a feeling she has some personality disorder.
She cuts herself and lies about idiotic things.
She jumps from one guy to another without much time between.
Promiscuous.
Definite daddy issues and calls him a jerk
Bitches about her girlfriends and contacts their guys
Keeps making me jealous about the guys she can 'get'
She seems like a waif because she internalises her anger and cuts and outwardly sweet
Insane sex she does everything I want
Says she talked to this guy because he has a deep voice and some other guy has a lot of money and he studies here and there etc etc
Her mom seems like hoe
Has stranger foreigner friends who can 'stay over'
Some brother in her locality who can 'stay over'
It all seems very fishy and she says everything as matter of fact

 

[C00lAF]

I have a feeling she has some personality disorder.
She cuts herself and lies about idiotic things.
She jumps from one guy to another without much time between.
Promiscuous.
Definite daddy issues and calls him a jerk
Bitches about her girlfriends and contacts their guys
Keeps making me jealous about the guys she can 'get'
She seems like a waif because she internalises her anger and cuts and outwardly sweet
Insane sex she does everything I want
Says she talked to this guy because he has a deep voice and some other guy has a lot of money and he studies here and there etc etc
Her mom seems like hoe
Has stranger foreigner friends who can 'stay over'
Some brother in her locality who can 'stay over'
It all seems very fishy and she says everything as matter of fact

Dude the family issue alone is a purple flag,let alone everything else,and if you are asking why it is because she WILL do the same issue patern with you(drama etc.) She has a fear of abandonment obv

 

[luciferianxx]

She's likely going to have issues when it comes to how she treats men.



This is the man who's at the top of her high score list. She's already found her "soulmate". Move on, nothing to see here.



Impulsive spending on junk and wh0rish attributes, all wrapped up into one!



Orbiters serve multiple purposes: To give her a constant flow of male attention, to maintain a steady flow of drama in her life, and to have multiple options when she's not getting laid.



Psychological problems galore.

I don't even know why you posted this. You already know this woman is fvcked in the head. Why do you need confirmation? She is NOT girlfriend material. She is fvck and chuck material.



There are lots of women like that out there WITHOUT all these fvcked up personality traits. Those are the ones you wanna make your GF. This one is going to cause you nothing but frustration and drama. I would dump her and move on.

Which flags are definite deal breakers and is it not possible to tame this girl by any alphaness ?

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Which flags are definite deal breakers and is it not possible to tame this girl by any alphaness ?

All of them.

 

[BeExcellent]

I have a feeling she has some personality disorder.

Ya think? What was your first clue? Seriously this woman is a type of crazy that you can't fix. This type of crazy is specially formulated to destroy men who get too close.

Search "BPD" on this site and you will see tale after tale of women who sound exactly like her. Often men who are drawn to this type of woman have issues of their own, narcissistic tendencies or psychopath tendencies. You can't save her, no matter how strong your desire to try. It is that willingness to try and save her from herself that will at once draw you in and then destroy you in an emotionally eviscerating way.

She is both love bombing you and warning you right now. If you can't wall her off emotionally you should not mess with her at all. As @Desdinova noted there are lots of women around who are sweet and caring and have the good qualities (the very few you mentioned that she has) WITHOUT all the batsh!t crazy. The unabandoned sex is how women like this hook their men deep. They are this wonderfully out of control wreck that needs saving. Like a real life Harley Quinn. And unless you are yourself the Joker, a woman like this will be your undoing.

Read the borderline and cluster B threads here, the BPD threads. Research it online. And then Run Forrest, Run!

 

[sazc]

run, just fvcking run, please

 

[Young OG]

Is this a joke? I'm having a hard time believing anyone can actually be this naive about another person.

She doesn't sound sweet or mild mannered to me at all. Pretty much every single one of the red flags you listed are deal breakers.

Alpha doesn't "tame" women like this, either. It just launches them into a psychotic rage when they decide they aren't happy anymore (which always happens).

You should have ran from any involvement with this one a long time ago. Even if you think everything is cool right now, she is very likely going to go psycho on you if you decide to walk away at this point. But do it. Don't wait until she's really pissed off over something. You're going to have major restraining order kind of problems on your hands if you do.

^This. There is no "taming" a woman like this. She isn't worth more then a pump n dump. If you don't run away from her now, your setting yourself up for a severe heart break.

 

[sazc]

^This. There is no "taming" a woman like this. She isn't worth more then a pump n dump. If you don't run away from her now, your setting yourself up for a severe heart break.

IMO there's no taming or changing anyone. If you go into any dating situation understanding that *this is who this person is* and, when you ask yourself *do I like this person the way they are* - if the answer is yes, you are good to go.

I'm not saying that people cant/wont/dont change - but it's WAY easier if you actually like who the person is out of the gate. Much less to compromise on in the long run.

She's not stable. Leave her. Let her be someone else's problem.

 

[foreverAFC]

i dated a girl similar to this back in the late 90s, she turned out to be the biggest slut ive ever met, i guarantee you she is fcking all kinds of different guys

 

[luciferianxx]

Maybe it's my narcissism acting out.
I'm fixated on why the fvck has she been acting out with all the guy friends and bent upon hurting me talking about all the guy friends or meeting them when I've already given her my loyalty which she insisted on.

This being when at other times she ****s hard, declares me exclusive publicly and parading me on social media.
It makes me doubt all the while that she really loves me while letting me know that she has other guys in her life who want her. Wtf ?

 

[penkitten]

Do you have any idea what her medical bills are going to cost? Break it off while they are not addressed to you.

 

[dustmuffin]

Run far away as fast as you can. No need to analyze. She is bat s hit crazy.