Unnecessary apologies from girls

[mrgoodstuff]

Watching the pattern is the key... apologizing for something, doing it again and apologizing, and so on suggests it is just lip service. In my case, it was consistent apologizing for not calling, texting, etc. then she would do it again the next day or week with some form of... "sorry, it's been a crazy day" or something similar

Not sure why I ignored this...

You ignored it, because when the apology was issued it "felt good" and it's what you wanted to hear. She was telling you what you need to hear from her end. She may have been sorry, but whatever else she was doing was obviously more important.

 

[PantyWhisperer]

A woman who apologizes a lot has always been a very good sign in my life experience. It shows a certain humility (a word we don't use enough around here) and even grace.

In fact, it's something I look for in a new woman. Of course if it's too extreme, that can be a problem, but good old-fashioned politeness is a valuable thing in a woman.

Agree 100% it is a great sign. There are few women who really do apologize when they need to and really mean it when they do. Good stuff.

 

[Roober]

You ignored it, because when the apology was issued it "felt good" and it's what you wanted to hear. She was telling you what you need to hear from her end. She may have been sorry, but whatever else she was doing was obviously more important.

Agreed! And it was what I wanted to hear. Man, that is a reality pill to swallow.... ugh.... I remember telling her "you don't need to apologize, it's ok". While I think it was a legit apology, don't keep doing it...

Dunno, I would like to hear on other's thoughts on this?

She apologizes for something the first time... response?
Does something similar again and apologizes... response?
Third time?