Getting involved with that top tier of women & life

[Bingo-Player]

So ive been involved in the “game” now for the last 5 years ive learnt a lot and most women don’t bother me at all anymore, attracting them almost by default

So where to go next!?!

Well to be honest I think it doesn’t matter how good you get or how little you care , the only way you’re ever going to be able to be banging those 9 / 10’s and I mean the true top tier of women on this planet

The ones who are beautiful, intelligent and loyal the ones who will literally ever only be YOUR woman

Is with the correct resources I.E status / connections / wealth

I have none of those and do well for myself but I can’t help to feel the plates im banging / dating are basic,

Im writing out a plan to attempt to access this top tier within the next 10 years , currently 24 so will be mid 30’s before all this comes to fruition but everyone needs a plan right

Will post this in the new year once its finished .

 

[bigneil]

I have a new theory. When women meet us, they smell all the other women we've been with recently. They sense how many of those women produced oxytocin (love) versus adrenaline (fear). They sense how old those girls were. Then they form an opinion of whether we are a step up or down for them.

As someone who lived in 12 states in 12 years for work, a couple of times I found myself in a 6 month slump and hired someone to help me. In both cases, equally hot or hotter women appeared in my life within days, and I turned those slumps into harems. Once a stripper took me to her birthday party and I got to see all her friends off duty. Nearly every one of them asked me out after that, because birthday girl was the hottest by far. You've experienced this yourself when you have a girlfriend and other women make themselves available.

So always do whatever you can to be in the presence of the hottest women and you can start a winning streak.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Pertinent topic. Ever since I've been on my own little journey, I've attracted hotter and hotter women as I go along. I've moved from regular 7's to regular 8's again. Also looking to progress to regular 9's again.

There's no denying, the quality of the women we date directly reflects our own value.

 

[ubercat]

There r shortcuts if you are interested go check out my last post

 

[SmooveMooves]

So ive been involved in the “game” now for the last 5 years ive learnt a lot and most women don’t bother me at all anymore, attracting them almost by default

So where to go next!?!

Well to be honest I think it doesn’t matter how good you get or how little you care , the only way you’re ever going to be able to be banging those 9 / 10’s and I mean the true top tier of women on this planet

The ones who are beautiful, intelligent and loyal the ones who will literally ever only be YOUR woman

Is with the correct resources I.E status / connections / wealth

I have none of those and do well for myself but I can’t help to feel the plates im banging / dating are basic,

Im writing out a plan to attempt to access this top tier within the next 10 years , currently 24 so will be mid 30’s before all this comes to fruition but everyone needs a plan right

Will post this in the new year once its finished .

Yo, I've been currently trying to figure this out myself. The chicks I'm hitting are attractive in their own rights but basic. I want top notch, creme de la creme. But I don't want to wait til my mid 30s. I want it now. Looking forward to your post.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Why would you equate 9-10 with intelligence and loyalty?

There are 9 and 10 "nerd" girls. However for the 9 and 10 party girl former athelete frat girl whose used to things given to her and not working for $hit, that's different. They clean up well, but don't have a lot to offer mentally and definitely are not loyal. The looks in their game is to extract resources from men.

 

[ubercat]

Heheh. I'm not looking down on young guys. when it comes to online dating and social media I pick up a lot from you guys here. however there are some compensations to getting old. I played a young guy in Tennis on Thursday night. Damn he was good. big serve and some killer shots around the Court. he didn't win. I provided him with a lot of shots that looked like you could hit them for a winner. but they had a little bit too much side a little bit too much slice too much loop too much angle. so he would get one in three of them. so basically I relaxed and watched him slowly beat himself. the jungle is littered with the bones of young Tigers. but of course you guys win in the end I used to be in the a grade now we re in the B grade.

Anyway enough of the old fart banging on back on topic here you go enjoy
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index....ises-frequently-thoughts.237460/#post-2380498

Personally I got too long in the Tooth to put up with the higher maintenance. for the last 10 years I just girlfriend up good solid Sevens with good personalities.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

I relaxed and watched him slowly beat himself.

This is something I have come to realise in the last while as well. It's very true that most of the greatest success comes when you have put in a lot of ground work, but then just sit back and relax, safe in the knowledge that you can rely on that previous hard work and practice to see you through.

When it comes to picking up women, I've kind of realised that letting things flow naturally, not trying to hard to 'game' actually works. 'Just being yourself' can actually be an acceptable mantra, if you are an acceptable version of yourself - i.e. a content, strong, masculine, centred and entertaining guy. 'Just be yourself' is only avoidable if you are a weakling, sap, beta white knight provider.

If you're a successful guy, why not rely on that success; safe knowing that being yourself is far and away good enough.

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

Most guys who go the PUA mass cold approach route will almost always end up in a situation where they are dating and banging 5s, 6s, and the occasional 7 if they are lucky. In order to attract the hottest girls, you need some type of STATUS, it is more or less mandatory.

You need to be a guy with some serious social connections, be involved in the things they might be involved in, be in great shape, dress well, act with class, or have desirable friends that you can show up to a bar with (not losers but friends that have made it in life). Either of those will go a long way, I've seen average looking hipsters with hot girls because they had status and serious social connections. Social connections, social circles, good lifestyle choices, and having activities that put you near hot girls can go a long way in helping you score.

I would also pay close attention to location, you want to be where there are going to be a lot of hot girls, the ones in small towns and small cities get taken well before 25, a lot of times by losers who once again scored because of their social connections and status.

Now working in some industries like fashion or service industry can get you access to hot girls and even put you in their world if you manage to get a job at a desirable location (popular nightclub or bar).

You more or less need to get involved with society and the social game rather than being the mysterious PUA who is only there for *****. Certain lifestyle choices, making the right friends, having the right connections, having status, and just mixing with the right crowds is usually how most guys land hot girls from my experience.

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

There are 9 and 10 "nerd" girls. However for the 9 and 10 party girl former athelete frat girl whose used to things given to her and not working for $hit, that's different. They clean up well, but don't have a lot to offer mentally and definitely are not loyal. The looks in their game is to extract resources from men.

frat girls aren't a thing, they're called sorority girls lol!

 

[marmel75]

Why would you equate 9-10 with intelligence and loyalty?

Because psychologically we infer positive or negative traits on people based on their looks....its why fat people get called "sloppy and lazy" a lot, even when there is no basis for doing so....

Good looking people automatically have more positive traits instilled on them than average looking people, and much more than below average or ugly people...

 

[Trump]

So ive been involved in the “game” now for the last 5 years ive learnt a lot and most women don’t bother me at all anymore, attracting them almost by default

So where to go next!?!

Well to be honest I think it doesn’t matter how good you get or how little you care , the only way you’re ever going to be able to be banging those 9 / 10’s and I mean the true top tier of women on this plane

The ones who are beautiful, intelligent and loyal the ones who will literally ever only be YOUR woman

Is with the correct resources I.E status / connections / wealth

I have none of those and do well for myself but I can’t help to feel the plates im banging / dating are basic,

Im writing out a plan to attempt to access this top tier within the next 10 years , currently 24 so will be mid 30’s before all this comes to fruition but everyone needs a plan right

Will post this in the new year once its finished .

What is 'top tier?" A girl who is a 9/10? A girl who doesn't take all your money if she decides to divorce? A girl who doesn't cheat on you? A girl who speaks at your funeral? You have to define 'top tier". Beauty fades, intelligence can be relative, and loyalty is only because her age doesn't allow her to do better.

Don't think a woman is different because she is genetically blessed or is educated. Every woman on this planet is out for themselves.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

frat girls aren't a thing, they're called sorority girls lol!

You know what I mean tho! We do that on purpose.