Tried club game, failed terribly. How to?

[Konada]

Well this is one of the few times I went to club and it reminded me why I steered away from the place. Then again, I can't really blame demographics until I can be certain its not my game that is the problem.

Tried opening a 3 set but they weren't interested. Guy-girl ratio was terrible and basically it seemed like everyone was pretty closed off, got some glances but then my gut feel told me they weren't open to being approach. I'm pretty inexperienced in this field so I'm asking, how do you guys operate in a club game and what are the signs you look for to ascertain whether a group of girls are open to meeting new people? (other than obvious smiling)?

 

[Roober]

May just not be your scene... My ex used to tell me she would go with the girls usually just to have fun and not be harassed by guys. If they bought drinks, then great. Otherwise, it likely wouldn't net the guy any more than a dance or two. I am sure some girls are there to get laid, but a much smaller number than expected...

 

[Konada]

So what does it take for one to pull? Is it purely a looks game?

 

[bigneil]

The best bet is to sit next to them at a bar and start up a conversation. Most high quality restaurants are good for this. Or even Applebee's type places.

 

[Infern0]

So what does it take for one to pull? Is it purely a looks game?

It helps.

Anything you can do to improve your looks or have you maxed your potential?

 

[Konada]

It helps.

Anything you can do to improve your looks or have you maxed your potential?

Workout, probably will take a long time. Have to put on at least 35lbs of pure muscle.

Clothes/Hair/Style are all things I have already taken care of.

 

[skinnyguy]

Club wh0res can be overrated at times. Work on social circle game and start dancing

 

[NSX-R]

It has always to do with luck. In the last month i went to 4 different clubs where i used to pu a lot of women . The places didn't had a single attractive chick. All of them were below 5.
I think only through bars you can do something but still it's very hard. The men to women ratio is always 5 to 1 and sometimes 10 to 1 everywhere you go at night and it sucks.

3 things are major.
1)When you enter the club and the bar , make sure so that everybody notices you. Be like a peacock but don't show thirst and never look and check out women.
2) Be the alpha of your group or just show high status when you are alone

3) Try to make eye contact and smile. I like the example in the movie Alfie , where Jude Law started looking some women while smiling and the women went fully into him.

 

[Floydispink01]

Well done for opening a 3 set. Lots of guys won't have the courage to do that. Understand that rejection is part of the game. Don't take it personally which can be difficult at times. Accept it for what it is.

Best way to approach is to simply do it. Don't overthink. Remember the 3 second rule.

My approach - I go up to a girl and say hello with a slight smile. Ask for her name and say it's nice to meet her. If she asks for my name then she has shown an interest and I will throw in a joke and escalate. Ask her to sit with me in a quiet spot - basic leading. If she doesn't ask my name then I'll walk away. That simple for me.

 

[Young OG]

Night game isn't easy. I'm still learning it myself. Congrats on opening the 3 set.

Girls will sometimes split from there set to get a drink from the bar. So, thats good time to approach them. You also need to dance. You need to be very physical and use kino. If the bar has a patio, pull the girl to the patio so you can isolate her from her friends. Plus, the music isn't so loud out there. Girls will have the bvtch shield up at night. You need to be different then the other guys to break through it. Watch some club game infields on youtube. The last hour the club is open is the best time to pull. Some people call it pull o clock.

 

[Bingo-Player]

straight up clubs can be hard work because they are so nosey and loud

i like places where theres space , when trying to pull women you need SPACE , chairs tables etc etc

if your trying to do it on a dance floor where your all crammed together like sardines it aint gonna happen , women automatically have they're defences up , because you will have random creeps try touching them up on the dance floor

im a big fan of paying to go VIP , it creates value and you don't have to deal with all the scum in the club

failing that i will always look to try and approach tables and at the bar and this works well

I'm about to do a field report of my nightout last night so have a look at that too

 

[GoodOne123]

If you're talking about clubs here's how I do it.

Look for eye contact, obvious checking you out first. Approach these girls, theres more chance of pulling these girls than girls who are not checking you out. If you don't see any of the girls checking you out, no worries, just go for who you like, or who you think you will vibe with.

If at dancefloor, just grab their hand and lead them out of their friends circle. Dance with them, then kiss them if things go well.

The smoking area is not bad either. A good opener is to ask them for a cig. From there just ask them about themselves. If you've got a live one, you should get with them there, or take them to dancefloor, dance, talk more, get rapport going on, and then get with them.

If the bar is quieter, you could talk with a few there too.

Essentially looks and appearance matter a lot more in club game. Make sure you look your best, dress well, and try to have a buff body. Wear shoes that give an extra inch to your height if your short or average height.

Dance skills and overall confidence is important too. No girl wants to be seen with a horrible dancer. You also need confident body language to attract their attention. Remember not much talking is going on in a club, so most of what you communicate is through appearance, dance, and body language.

Dont worry if you feel you get rejected a lot. Club game has more rejection in it. I'd say mostly rejection by success by far. Thus is because girls know what you want, they know you're in a club just to fk, so theyre a bit closed off. You just need to keep trying, and keep an eye out for the ones checking yu out. But don't make a fool of yourself and approach like all the girls in the whole place.