Last Minute Resistance - How To Proceed?

[wonderer]

Went out with my virgin 18 year old gf tonight. Things got heated but no sex. For reasons I wont go into I cant stay round hers and she cant stay round mine. We agree that we should stay at a hotel soon, it needs to be pre-meditated as she has to let her residence know - they have a curfew.

We agree this Saturday when I had already planned to see her, a lot of this was her idea and she was up for it, I then realise when I get home that I cant because of work on Sunday, so I ask about next Saturday when we are seeing each other again, however we're in a different city and get back late, this is her excuse, so I say do you want to see each other the day before and do it then? She says she has to think about it as shes scared. I say think about it, dont be scared.

I know Ive made a few mistakes here, Ive pushed a few times, and also made myself more available to try and get the lay, also because it has to be pre-planned she is using her logical mind to say no.

How can I proceed? I wont be bringing it up again unless she does, and need to build some more comfort...

Also there may be actual LMR when I get her to the hotel...

 

[stevo]

A man does not need the help of a woman to plan. A man simply plans.

Your job is to get her horny. That's it. Get her horny then pull back.

When you treat her virginity like some gold you want to hold on to,
she'd go fcuk the garbage truck driver who would bend her over the stool rather than stand her on it.

What you do is you plan everything, giving her little details. Hotels are open during the day. You do not need her permission. Lead and she'll follow.
A girl who wants to fcuk you will climb under barb wires to come fcuk you. So stop trying to replay the Notebook.

Right now, to her, you do not look like you know what you're doing.

You can't fcuk on Saturday because you have work on Sunday? then why commit to something you can't do? A man thinks ahead, sees four moves ahead. And right now she wants a man, so be the man.

Let her initiate, slow your roll. Next time you meet her, date her, do not talk about seks.
Do not talk about seks to a girl when she's not turned on.

As to LMR, you let her relax. Always tell them "you do not have to do anything you don't want to do"
then you walk away to the bathroom or turn to the TV after a few minutes, try again. Rinse, repeat.

You're doing well, just a little tweak and you'll be balls deep in that punani. Don't be heartbroken if she's actually not a virgin.

 

[wonderer]

A man does not need the help of a woman to plan. A man simply plans.

Your job is to get her horny. That's it. Get her horny then pull back.

When you treat her virginity like some gold you want to hold on to,
she'd go fcuk the garbage truck driver who would bend her over the stool rather than stand her on it.

What you do is you plan everything, giving her little details. Hotels are open during the day. You do not need her permission. Lead and she'll follow.
A girl who wants to fcuk you will climb under barb wires to come fcuk you. So stop trying to replay the Notebook.

Right now, to her, you do not look like you know what you're doing.

You can't fcuk on Saturday because you have work on Sunday? then why commit to something you can't do? A man thinks ahead, sees four moves ahead. And right now she wants a man, so be the man.

Let her initiate, slow your roll. Next time you meet her, date her, do not talk about seks.
Do not talk about seks to a girl when she's not turned on.

As to LMR, you let her relax. Always tell them "you do not have to do anything you don't want to do"
then you walk away to the bathroom or turn to the TV after a few minutes, try again. Rinse, repeat.

You're doing well, just a little tweak and you'll be balls deep in that punani. Don't be heartbroken if she's actually not a virgin.

Incredible post, thank you, many lessons here.