Nofap November Challenge (chest beaters stay away thanks)

[skinnyguy]

No fap is amazing.

Been touching women more and teasing them. For the past few months I've been having ED, which is crazy because I used have to sex drive of an animal. I realized something was wrong and that I need to change.

 

[NSX-R]

Day 11
The urge is real and my Facebook homepage isn't helping with all these females showing off their bodies , so i turned it off. I believe i can hold it but i don't know.
Saturday night i went into a club and as soon as i entered inside, every single female was looking at me(even the guys i was with told me that ) still though for a weird reason couldn't come into eye contact with the ones i was interested with. Went into the dance floor where i usually dance like crazy and have really good time (when i was faping regularly) but right now i was more serious and was feeling more out of place. Don't know if you guys can relate.

One guy i had long time to see told me this when he saw me:" Dude, you were like a superstar when you entered in here, i could feel a different vibe out of you". Don't know why he told me that.

End of the night ended up approaching a group of 6 girls but it wasn't going anywhere so i went my way and left. It feels like I'm starting from zero,but it feels good . I feel mooore manly and my testo levels seem to be on top.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Got a BJ last night and blew a big wad in her mouth she swallowed it all. No fap....still coudnl't get a full erection I am on day 12

 

[NSX-R]

Broke it on day 12.
Woke up with a very very hard D and my urge was even higher than day 11. I couldn't hold it anymore. I feel some kind of regret but i think if you want to stop something that you were doing for so long , you can't just say "Stop " and go forever. Small steps till you accomplish your target.
Day 1 again and i feel more stronger than before . Let's go.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Day 11
The urge is real and my Facebook homepage isn't helping with all these females showing off their bodies , so i turned it off. I believe i can hold it but i don't know.
Saturday night i went into a club and as soon as i entered inside, every single female was looking at me(even the guys i was with told me that ) still though for a weird reason couldn't come into eye contact with the ones i was interested with. Went into the dance floor where i usually dance like crazy and have really good time (when i was faping regularly) but right now i was more serious and was feeling more out of place. Don't know if you guys can relate.

One guy i had long time to see told me this when he saw me:" Dude, you were like a superstar when you entered in here, i could feel a different vibe out of you". Don't know why he told me that.

I think partly it is a placebo effect. Just the very nature of doing all the things you're doing (self improvements) will give you a greater sense of self belief. This is the exact vibe you want to be giving off. There's nothing like walking in to a place and basically being able to choose who you want to talk to.

My whole journey has resulted in similar reactions from people. Your presence will be different - posture, movement, facial expressions, everything. We simply look entirely different.

I definitely notice more people checking me out when abstaining though too. This morning even at 7am some hot Indian chick was giving me come to bed eyes as I passed her on the way to work.. I always notice my walking gait is steadier and more purposeful.

Broke it on day 12.
Woke up with a very very hard D and my urge was even higher than day 11. I couldn't hold it anymore. I feel some kind of regret but i think if you want to stop something that you were doing for so long , you can't just say "Stop " and go forever. Small steps till you accomplish your target.
Day 1 again and i feel more stronger than before . Let's go.

I wouldn't worry about the failure. As has been said already, nofap will work differently for different people. I've failed twice now, but will give it a good go until December now. I just start to think that maybe more than a week might be too much for me personally. I get so agitated, which is obviously counter-intuitive. Yet still feel the same benefits with just once a week.

Dunno, need to push through; maybe it's just part of withdrawal....

 

[CuddleJunkie]

Ooooh boy, the increased checking out is real. I feel like a hot chick walking down the street.

I have a scheduled sex marathon this Saturday, I don't know what will happen with all this newfound sex-drive. Or...I might get some new plates before that, I'm really approaching a lot, and some leads are promising.

 

[resilient]

Nofap is still going strong after Friday's close call. The trick is keeping the mind and body occupied.

Lending Physical Strength to Others
Saturday I went adventuring outdoors with a new Meetup group I've been meaning to attend for a while. One of the girls in the group was five years younger and asked me a lot of questions on the car ride out to our hike and adventure spot. I'm not used to a girl asking me what my age is so quickly in a conversation.... so that was interesting. We were bouldering around some tough rocks and I had to lean in to pull her up over and around a few spots. I encouraged her and pushed her hard, yet she hit her threshold and had to turn around with some people who volunteered to return to the beginning spot. It felt great to lend a hand with some of the men and women struggling. I was a newbie to this group yet felt like a veteran. I don't know if it was nofap, my general daily strength/cardio regime that added to the confidence, for I felt like I got respect from veterans of the group. Kinda like "cool, bro, you're good and won't be a liability for us, welcome to the group" vibe. The same girl earlier asked me if I was going to a core member group trip for New Years Eve. I said something like "thanks for the offer, however this is my first event with this group and I want to make sure you'll not weird, kidnap me and ransom me to the highest bidder" lol.

Teasing Push/Pull
Sunday I went to a movie and lunch get together with my main Meetup group. The girl/guy ratio sucked today, but I didn't care because I wanted to see this new movie. This girl that usually gives me proximity at events used me to pivot to get to another guy last event, so today, I was busting and teasing her for never seeing Star Wars. She asked if I would disown her, lol.. so I said, I would have to disqualify her to some degree for nerd street cred, so she will have to find a way to earn respect or something along those lines. Some of the guys chimed in with "me too" comments when she stated opinions about movies. She called me out for teasing her hard about never seeing any Star Wars movie to the other guys, and I just grinned real big, haha. I did a little comfort building at lunch so I wouldn't be all push and no pull. She smiled and laughed big at one interaction, yet I forget what the details were... I noticed people had to started to look at phones after lunch, so I bounced early so I wouldn't look needy or wait for people to get bored and end the meetup.

 

[dustmuffin]

I have been no fap for quite a while. Although I get pu ssy on the regular.

As far as Porn goes I watch cam girls on chatterbate from time to time. I practice game on them. It's funny to watch the white Knights and suck ups on there too.

 

[Floydispink01]

Day 7 for me. Was particularly tough this weekend - Had a strong urge after consuming alcohol on Saturday plus my plate was away on a trip.

Still going strong though..determined to do see this out til the end of the month. Longest I've gone in the past is about a week.

 

[Juanto]

I have been no fap for quite a while. Although I get pu ssy on the regular.

As far as Porn goes I watch cam girls on chatterbate from time to time. I practice game on them. It's funny to watch the white Knights and suck ups on there too.

Can you watch porn without fapping? Is it a good exercice to hold out?

 

[PantyWhisperer]

I'm late to the thread but I'm on day 3. I fapped twice on Friday but only because I had the house to myself all day, and that is a rare treat. And I'm 51 and can still fap/screw multiple times a day. It's more curse than blessing

 

[dustmuffin]

Can you watch porn without fapping? Is it a good exercice to hold out?

He ll yes. I can watch Porn without fapping. I usually don't get an errection. I have to have pysical contact with a woman to get hard. Idk if it's a good exercise to do it. I just save my load for a real pu ssy.

 

[NSX-R]

I think partly it is a placebo effect. Just the very nature of doing all the things you're doing (self improvements) will give you a greater sense of self belief. This is the exact vibe you want to be giving off. There's nothing like walking in to a place and basically being able to choose who you want to talk to.

My whole journey has resulted in similar reactions from people. Your presence will be different - posture, movement, facial expressions, everything. We simply look entirely different.

I definitely notice more people checking me out when abstaining though too. This morning even at 7am some hot Indian chick was giving me come to bed eyes as I passed her on the way to work.. I always notice my walking gait is steadier and more purposeful.



I wouldn't worry about the failure. As has been said already, nofap will work differently for different people. I've failed twice now, but will give it a good go until December now. I just start to think that maybe more than a week might be too much for me personally. I get so agitated, which is obviously counter-intuitive. Yet still feel the same benefits with just once a week.

Dunno, need to push through; maybe it's just part of withdrawal....

I don't think it is a placebo effect. I always carry myself the same way and i was always hearing comments of my impressive stance. There is something different and i can't really explain it. Have you heard that in a group of men , you will be able to distinquish the Alpha or the one with most testo very easily? Meanwhile , staying away from faping works different for each individual , everybody's input suggests that it has more positive effects than negative.

I always speak for myself and from what i've notice, nofap brings only positive effects. I already feel the gap after faping and currently i feel on my lowest potential.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

I fvcked it up. I said "dammmm I want to see some titties, just a little won't hurt!" You know the rest. Re-starting it RIGHT NOW.
Two things I've learned, and by which I know I WON'T fail this time.

1. The hype is real. I don't know why, maybe it's increased test, some weird magical stuff, or just the fact that you are proud of yourself for not being a beta jerking monkey, but the fact is : I was getting checking out like crazy, and I was approaching a lot. I have 3 new promising leads thanks to this.

2. I am a porn addict. I just couldn't hold more than 6 days without watching porn, my mind, my body too, but over all my mind, desired to watch nude females. Well, fvck that, I'm not going to be a fvcking addict to whatever thing. I didn't know this about myself, and I'm ashamed of it. There's only one possible solution: to kill the addiction.

Day 0. Going to kill this ****.

 

[Juanto]

I fvcked it up. I said "dammmm I want to see some titties, just a little won't hurt!" You know the rest. Re-starting it RIGHT NOW.
Two things I've learned, and by which I know I WON'T fail this time.

1. The hype is real. I don't know why, maybe it's increased test, some weird magical stuff, or just the fact that you are proud of yourself for not being a beta jerking monkey, but the fact is : I was getting checking out like crazy, and I was approaching a lot. I have 3 new promising leads thanks to this.

2. I am a porn addict. I just couldn't hold more than 6 days without watching porn, my mind, my body too, but over all my mind, desired to watch nude females. Well, fvck that, I'm not going to be a fvcking addict to whatever thing. I didn't know this about myself, and I'm ashamed of it. There's only one possible solution: to kill the addiction.

Day 0. Going to kill this ****.

Had the same thing happen to me yesterday... Spent like 15 days without porn but caved in... Damn it.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

Had the same thing happen to me yesterday... Spent like 15 days without porn but caved in... Damn it.

I'm positive I'm going to do it this time. There's no way I'm going to stay a porn-addict. We are gonna make it!

 

[resilient]

Have you heard that in a group of men, you will be able to distinguish the Alpha or the one with most testo very easily?

::alpha enters the room::
Nappa: Vegeta...what does the scouter say about his testo level?
Vegeta: .......... IT'S OVER 9000!!!

 

[Adz--]

I'm late to this but I'm game, Currently on Day 4, i don't think this month i will have the time to fap with university, gym and projects, but we shall see
adz--

 

[Mike32ct]

Day 7. Just a few observations...

1. I'm sleeping very well now.

2. I have a more clear head at work and at dance class. Much less "brain fog."

3. As someone with social anxiety, making eye contact is not easy for me. But it's been quite a bit easier lately.

Honestly, I don't care if it's real, placebo, or some combination. Even if it is all placebo, I look at it like this... If you FEEL confident and are more productive every time you carry your "lucky rabbit's foot," then what is the harm? The positive patterns will reinforce in your head anyway.

If nothing else, you can feel a sense of being more in control.

 

[Mike32ct]

I'm positive I'm going to do it this time. There's no way I'm going to stay a porn-addict. We are gonna make it!

Yeah kill that porn shyte. You can do it!!