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Did I insult her? (neg hit)

jebach123

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So girl was telling me how a guy grabbed her ass while leaving the club and i said "you got no ass" laughing at all and she kinda laughed and gave me a finger

she is kendall jenner type of body so yeah she got no ass but did i insult her on was it good?
 

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Yea that was bad...... should've made her qualify.

Her: "that creeper grabbed my ass" (guys want me, I'm important, hot, and insecure).
You:". Spin around lets see this so called "golden booty"

(Girl twirls around)

You: ehhh. I'd give your presentation a 6, curve a 7....maybe. You gotta arch your back more hun.
 

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Yea that was bad...... should've made her qualify.

Her: "that creeper grabbed my ass" (guys want me, I'm important, hot, and insecure).
You:". Spin around lets see this so called "golden booty"

(Girl twirls around)

You: ehhh. I'd give your presentation a 6, curve a 7....maybe. You gotta arch your back more hun.
we were sitting in a ****ing class
but a good example tho
 

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Once again, the point behind a "neg hit" is to knock down her best feature(s), not to point out her actual flaws.

You earned that middle finger. You insulted her.

Perfect rack. Great ass. Beautiful face. Those are the things you want to "neg", because those are the things that have 95% of guys drooling and acting like submissive fools.
holy **** dude i really get it now
 

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holy **** dude i really get it now
The whole point of this was attention for her. She just wanted to tell you some creep grabbed, but in ******** it means "It was hot, but he was either not hot enough to take home or i don't want to look like a slut".

How would you react if she said, "this hot guy at the bar grabbed my ass. It made me wet and he almost fingered me on the dance floor".
 

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this reminds me of a time where some slightly chubby girl i was *really* into commented on her curviness/thickness to me and i responded with "no you are not curvy you are fat"

I thought i was being confident/funny/negging ... but the day after i realized how insulting that was. I don't think i ever heard from her again after that. lol
 
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this reminds me of a time where some slightly chubby girl i was *really* into commented on her curviness/thickness to me and i responded with "no you are not curvy you are fat"

I thought i was being confident/funny/negging ... but the day after i realized how insulting that was. I don't think i ever heard from her again after that. lol
and now how would you cover from that? what would you do now if you could go back?
 

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You are overthinking this dude. Yeah it does prolly bother her you said that, but if you said it jokingly then she knows you weren't trying to be rude. Nothing lost really.
 

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who cares if you insulted her. insult her some more watch her pantys get moist
 

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you can also "not hit"

example: hottie showing me pics, modeling shots/bikini, hot legs, ass, nice rack.
My ONLY comment about her feature set "cute lips".
I can guarantee nobody every complimented her lips, not once ever

This only kept her at me, wanting, practically begging me to compliment her "assets"
 

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who cares if you insulted her. insult her some more watch her pantys get moist
This. Pointing out an obvious flaw just reinforces to them that "oh, no! Guys really do notice my flat ass!" and sort of has the same effect as devaluing their best feature.
 

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I can see you're not particularly good at this c0cky comedy thing...

All those examples were definitely insults. You're taking it too far, like what Amante commented earlier if you're going to be so blunt at least do it on an obvious strength.

The key here imo is to use HUMOR.

Another thing that's easy (I do it all the time) is steal her lines.

Here are some (bad) examples (after all, I have no context to the examples you gave):

Her: He touched my ass.

Me: Really? Did he compliment you first at least?

Her: I'm so curvy and thick...

Me: Are you signed up to one of those dating websites? Because I'm sure I've heard that line before.

Did you see what I did there...they're not exactly insults, but they're "put downs" wrapped up in humor.
 
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