To bebhonest
@BlueAlpha1 ive not had any dealings with you. I have no regard for tenacity at all.
I'm just generally saying surely if things are going well for you then awesome lol. If you think
@BeTheChange or anyone is a faggot then let them be one. It makes no difference to you or I.
I on the other hand think
@Tenacity is a faggot posting pics of himself to prove things, showing us his ****ty American car when us lot here in England drive minimum BMW/Audi/Merc
But all in all bro I just got too many things going on that are actually successful to give a f0ck lol
You're right we've not had any dealings. So I'll just give you the TLDR version if you care to read.
There is a divide on this forum. There are some who see the world in black and white. That you should cold approach like a machine, escalate every single time no matter what signals you get from the girl, that you're a "beta faggot" if you ever express emotion, and that you should just shut your mouth and adapt to the market, no matter how lopsided it is against men. It is essentially a red pill cult, much like the extremists on the Roosh forums, and not so surprisingly many of those guys are phonies.
Then there are others who see that the market is rigged against men, that women have too many options, that we enable bad behavior by cold approaching random women in the street, that expressing your failures is a part of self improvement, and that there is nothing wrong with analyzing the market for what it is. It doesn't mean we don't play the game, but we're not sitting up here pretending everything is great and that we're all "spinning 5 plates at a time at all times", especially if our content here flies in the face of that claim.
The reason I respect
@Tenacity is because he's told you he comes from humble beginnings. He was living in his car. Now, he's got a nice place, clearly got in shape, and is willing to put up and
show you his progress. In my opinion he is the lifeblood of what every self improvement forum should be. He is 6 years older than me and I can look to his example in my life. Does he complain and lose his cool sometimes? Of course. But every time I've needed help he's been there with
step by step advice that was detailed an practical. Certain others say
"stop being a beta faggot and spin more plates. Just look at me, I've I've got 20 going at once!" The problem is many of them are lying because there simply isn't enough room at the top. If the amount of guys on this forum who claimed to be alpha were actually alpha, there would be no betas. There is only room for 20% in the 20th percentile. I'm not in the 20th percentile. Since I'm not making the claim, I have nothing to prove. Tenacity would claim to be in the 20th percentile, and he's proven it. Then there are others who claim to be in the 2%, but can never substantiate it. So it's just keyboard warrior stuff at that point.
Secondly, often times their tone and the content of their posts
don't align with these claims, so that's where a guy like Tenacity steps up and asks them to prove it - to prove why their vague generalities and universal credos are better than his bullet points. And they never do.
A certain someone has rejected my advice every step of the way because I was critical of some of his behaviors during his NC phase. The advice I gave was tough and harsh - the way I wish others had been with me years ago! Because I happened to have went through the exact same thing he did, but he took offense to my advice because I was not spinning "5 plates at a time" like him, so my advice was worthless even though you handle all BPD's the same. He was a condescending prick who always had a "thanks but no thanks, I'm better than you" tone that was incongruent with the sort of desperate vibe in his posts.
Finally a few days ago I backed up my friend Tenacity again, and this dude went full ad hominem attacks on me. So I responded in kind and that's all you saw, which is why I look like the bad guy to newcomers to the argument.
