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Impress Her with Brains

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Here is a subject I don't recall reading here: does anyone use the brainy approach these days? It works wonders.

Knowing about things like Astrology, Numerology, Naturopathy, Lie detection, Hand writing Analysis and Iridology can help you to teach her about herself (her favorite subject), and will also help you to weed out the bad ones.

Examples - if you guess right about the following, you are in like Flynn, but you must act stoic in your belief that you are right, even if you are guessing.

1) If a girl texts "I love your car" I will say "Do you realize you just confessed your love to me? You used the words "I love you" in that order. It was subliminal. And I love your SUV."

2) "I can tell from your pupils that you are highly attracted to me".

3) (On a date, not as a pickup line) "I can tell from your figure that you are unable to achieve orgasm through penetration".

4) "Excuse me, but were you born in (guess what month)?".

5) Before a date, I'll text: "Ok, it's time for your handwriting analysis" and I will ask them to write a sentence down and text it back, and they do every time.

6) If they tell me their birthday and year, I can tell them what day of the week they were born. They get really excited about this one.

7) If they tell me their birthday and their significant other's birthday (which always follows 6) I can tell them what month they started dating, and what week things started to go south.

8) "Excuse me but did you used to work at (such and such)?" They love being remembered.

Many of these things and others are available to someone who simply pays attention. Once you can tell her about herself with confidence, she will love you like a selfie.

Do you have any similar examples of using your brain to impress her?
 

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That is using the brain... To generate bullsh!t in the purest form. There's some stupid women out there who will believe this, but holy fvck they are dumb. Do you like idiots?
 

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I'd rather spend more energy improving myself. Way better bang for the buck.
 

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3) (On a date, not as a pickup line) "I can tell from your figure that you are unable to achieve orgasm through penetration".
i can't stop laughing, every time i read it lmao
 

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Knowing about things like Astrology, Numerology, Naturopathy, Lie detection, Hand writing Analysis and Iridology can help you to teach her about herself (her favorite subject), and will also help you to weed out the bad ones.
Yep. If she falls for that, she's a bad one. :)
 

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Once you become the master of the game , she has to impress you. Why don't you impress yourself with brains?
What? You're in a bar and you see a 10 and you expect her to impress you? She already did. Given buying signals, the man has to approach and say something first.

I recently read that once you achieve true mastery of women your behavior can be called clairvoyant.

PS - I recently seduced a 10 (age 20) and model using the above, got her number on the 4th encounter, kissed her on the 5th, and bedded her on the 7th encounter 16 days after getting her number. The key? She saw me seduce another woman (the second hottest woman I know) using the above (and we had a three way kiss). NSX-R - when was your last 10? You last 3 way kiss with 2 women average age 23 and average rating HB9?

Did you ever have a seduction go so smoothly you have to read the "Beware the After Effects" in Art of Seduction? There is no way to go but down.
 
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i can't stop laughing, every time i read it lmao
This happened last week. After I said it (the 10th time I read her mind) she said I was right, and that she requires anal stimulation. I said "I know. I have ESP. Oh, God. what are you going to make me do?" She said she can achieve orgasm exclusively from anal. We went straight back to my hotel room. And no I didn't do that - yet. But it was hot.
 

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What? You're in a bar and you see a 10 and you expect her to impress you? She already did. Given buying signals, the man has to approach and say something first.

I recently read that once you achieve true mastery of women your behavior can be called clairvoyant.

PS - I recently seduced a 10 (age 20) and model using the above, got her number on the 4th encounter, kissed her on the 5th, and bedded her on the 7th encounter 16 days after getting her number. The key? She saw me seduce another woman (the second hottest woman I know) using the above (and we had a three way kiss). NSX-R - when was your last 10? You last 3 way kiss with 2 women average age 23 and average rating HB9?

Did you ever have a seduction go so smoothly you have to read the "Beware the After Effects" in Art of Seduction? There is no way to go but down.
First of all , there are no 10s ,at least what i believe and many of my PUA friends also do.
This 10 that you are talking about is only her image.Only her image impressed you. All the rest can be ****ty. I can't imagine of something worse than seeing a ''10'' cursing, having really bad behavior and character and not to mention being bad in the bed. That's what she has to do to impress you. That's why you date her to qualify her. All true DJs know that they are the price to win and there are countless true beauties out there.

You just proved my point. You showed your high value to her and she noticed you. And since you know how the game works , you acted accordingly. Now both of those want to seduce you.

And no , i have never had a real ''10'' because as i said ,i don't believe they exist and secondly i never had a 3 way kiss with any women. I have kissed 3 different women and banged 2 of them in one day though. Still you're in a higher level than me.
 

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Here is a subject I don't recall reading here: does anyone use the brainy approach these days? It works wonders.

Knowing about things like Astrology, Numerology, Naturopathy, Lie detection, Hand writing Analysis and Iridology can help you to teach her about herself (her favorite subject), and will also help you to weed out the bad ones.

Examples - if you guess right about the following, you are in like Flynn, but you must act stoic in your belief that you are right, even if you are guessing.

1) If a girl texts "I love your car" I will say "Do you realize you just confessed your love to me? You used the words "I love you" in that order. It was subliminal. And I love your SUV."

2) "I can tell from your pupils that you are highly attracted to me".

3) (On a date, not as a pickup line) "I can tell from your figure that you are unable to achieve orgasm through penetration".

4) "Excuse me, but were you born in (guess what month)?".

5) Before a date, I'll text: "Ok, it's time for your handwriting analysis" and I will ask them to write a sentence down and text it back, and they do every time.

6) If they tell me their birthday and year, I can tell them what day of the week they were born. They get really excited about this one.

7) If they tell me their birthday and their significant other's birthday (which always follows 6) I can tell them what month they started dating, and what week things started to go south.

8) "Excuse me but did you used to work at (such and such)?" They love being remembered.

Many of these things and others are available to someone who simply pays attention. Once you can tell her about herself with confidence, she will love you like a selfie.

Do you have any similar examples of using your brain to impress her?
Sure. Be a CEO, dentist lawyer, or plastic surgeon.

The binary responses seem gimmicky, trying to respond in way that's half teasing, half childish. Anything fake or gimmicky may get her interest up for the day but it won't last. I would just be polite, real and to the point. :)
 

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Knowing about things like Astrology, Numerology, Naturopathy, Lie detection, Hand writing Analysis and Iridology can help you to teach her about herself
None of these are even credible respected fields. All of this sh*t is pseudoscience nonsense. If you bring up this sh*t any actually intellegent woman will secretly laugh at you. hahaha


It's gimmicky bs. An intelligent woman will be well versed in fields like neuroscience, experimental psychology, law, political science, natural science (physics, chem, biology), philosophy, or even books, or writing.

If she can keep up a conversation with you when you expound your knowledge on these things then you have found a woman that is 1 in 10000. And if she is also hot, then that even better. Hell, the girl doesnt even have to be hot for me to keep her around. I mean I wont sleep with her if shes not hot, but anyone who can talk extensively about these subjects with me and enjoys it, I keep around me.


I have a masters in experimental psych, and I am currently applying to get a PhD in experimental psychology to become a professor. So I have a pretty extensive knowledge on a wide array of academic topics. I do not however blab on about such things if I am out with a woman. Its pretentious and can be intimidating in a bad way. I will test the fields a bit and gauge whether she is in to this type of talk. My vocabulary is enough to convince a dumb girl that I am smart. I dont need to rely on gimmicky nonsense.
 

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None of these are even credible respected fields. All of this sh*t is pseudoscience nonsense. If you bring up this sh*t any actually intellegent woman will secretly laugh at you. hahaha


It's gimmicky bs. An intelligent woman will be well versed in fields like neuroscience, experimental psychology, law, political science, natural science (physics, chem, biology), philosophy, or even books, or writing.

If she can keep up a conversation with you when you expound your knowledge on these things then you have found a woman that is 1 in 10000. And if she is also hot, then that even better. Hell, the girl doesnt even have to be hot for me to keep her around. I mean I wont sleep with her if shes not hot, but anyone who can talk extensively about these subjects with me and enjoys it, I keep around me.


I have a masters in experimental psych, and I am currently applying to get a PhD in experimental psychology to become a professor. So I have a pretty extensive knowledge on a wide array of academic topics. I do not however blab on about such things if I am out with a woman. Its pretentious and can be intimidating in a bad way. I will test the fields a bit and gauge whether she is in to this type of talk. My vocabulary is enough to convince a dumb girl that I am smart. I dont need to rely on gimmicky nonsense.
Works for me. And btw, I make $1320 per day (90% tax free) working on air traffic control and X-ray body scanners (about to pick up a side job in Astrology), and when I texted the hottest girl I know today (she is your age at 20 btw and would laugh at you) her reply was "can we meet for lunch??" so spare me the "I'm really smart (and profane)" shmeal, lonely frat boy.
 

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Well that's the last time I mention brains here.
 
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bigneil wrote: "6) If they tell me their birthday and year, I can tell them what day of the week they were born."

None of these are even credible respected fields.
The calendar is not a respected field? Narcissist is not a respected member. Sorry guys, but this one can't be denied. The calendar is real. You were really born on a particular weekday. Try figuring it out in your head. For bonus points, look like Russell Crowe from Beautiful Mind when you say it.
 

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But...none of this stuff is ACTUALLY using your "brain".

Astrology, Numerology, Naturopathy, etc, etc have nothing to do with intelligence (some might say quite the contrary).

Anyway, yes being good at this stuff WILL get you laid...with a specific type of woman.
 

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Works for me. And btw, I make $1320 per day (90% tax free)
i didn't know breaking bad was based on a true story

It's sometimes better to play the buffoon. Nobody likes a 'know it all' - especially when it comes to seducing a woman. It kills the vibe completely.

For example, when I find out that a woman is Polish, I don't suddenly give her a lot of information on the country (or speak some of the language, which I can), instead I act like I don't know about it. It creates a fun talking point.

When a woman broaches something like astrology with me, I call her a pagan and wind her up. I have no interest in becoming an expert in it.

The only men that are experts in astrology are queers.
when a woman tells me where she's from, no matter where she is or what she says i just go "wow, i think i've heard of that place"
 

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It's really not that hard to come off as intelligent, just listen... really listen to what she is saying and commit it to memory. Woman absolutely LOVE it when you remember little details of things that she told to you when you met them before, it proves you're smart and you care about what she tells you. You will never convince a women you just met you are intelligent by anything that you say.... If you look clean cut and well groomed with nice clothes she'll assume you have a head on your shoulders. The first time you meet her or on your first date, she should be doing most of the talking... you should be paying attention to what she says. It helps if you stay sober.
 
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